Yo guys, long time lurker, recent practicer. I've been using online dating more as a way of increase the odds if you will and I ended up matching with a girl on okcupid.
So we chat for a bit on there, shes not overly warm, but shes responding. I try my best to keep the convo going without it seeming to interview like. So anyways we message for a while and after kind of not responding to her last message I ask if she would like to exchange numbers. I should add I kind of called out her lack of response depth by calling her mysterious, either way she gave me the number.
A couple days later I send her a text asking how her weekend was and we chat for a bit, boring shit about a birthday party, i bust her balls about how she was probably in a clown costume, she called me an ass, good vibes i think. Shortly after i ask her out sometime the week coming up. She says "yea where? which day?" I tell her Wednesday around 9 and ask her if there is a bar nearby her as i was planning on driving to her area.
Now all seems good right? WRONG. She goes silent for the rest of the night. Now i use every ounce of manhood i have to not text this girl back but the next afternoon i send a little emoji with a ?. I wish i could describe this emoji but i cant its just like if you were in an awkward situation i guess.
Anyways she responds to that with "I don't drink lol" (Wtf couldn't you have just said that?) So at this point im kind of annoyed, wait about 20 mins and suggest a different date. She agrees to this one and we set up the logistics. i don't really try to keep texting her because as i said i was pretty annoyed that she left me to hang like that so i just tell her ill text her the day of to confirm and all that jazz.
All good right? Nope. Day of i hit her up in the day time to ask if we are still on and she says she has to work but wants to reschedule. Everything ive read says that is a key point, she actually brought up rescheduling. Once again pretty annoyed but i don't really harp on it just give one of these bad boys: -_- and ask what day shes free while telling her i was going to be busy all weekend. She gives me her available days and i tell her i'll get back to her when i know when im free. Once again i was pretty annoyed at this girls lack of... i don't even know, consideration? So i didn't really text her too much after that, we did have a mini interaction about her working too hard but i cut that shit short and kind of left her hanging.
So whats up guys this girl never texts me first, when i do text her we seem to get along pretty well. Shes flaked once but wanted to reschedule, shes honestly throwing me for a loop. Help?
So we chat for a bit on there, shes not overly warm, but shes responding. I try my best to keep the convo going without it seeming to interview like. So anyways we message for a while and after kind of not responding to her last message I ask if she would like to exchange numbers. I should add I kind of called out her lack of response depth by calling her mysterious, either way she gave me the number.
A couple days later I send her a text asking how her weekend was and we chat for a bit, boring shit about a birthday party, i bust her balls about how she was probably in a clown costume, she called me an ass, good vibes i think. Shortly after i ask her out sometime the week coming up. She says "yea where? which day?" I tell her Wednesday around 9 and ask her if there is a bar nearby her as i was planning on driving to her area.
Now all seems good right? WRONG. She goes silent for the rest of the night. Now i use every ounce of manhood i have to not text this girl back but the next afternoon i send a little emoji with a ?. I wish i could describe this emoji but i cant its just like if you were in an awkward situation i guess.
Anyways she responds to that with "I don't drink lol" (Wtf couldn't you have just said that?) So at this point im kind of annoyed, wait about 20 mins and suggest a different date. She agrees to this one and we set up the logistics. i don't really try to keep texting her because as i said i was pretty annoyed that she left me to hang like that so i just tell her ill text her the day of to confirm and all that jazz.
All good right? Nope. Day of i hit her up in the day time to ask if we are still on and she says she has to work but wants to reschedule. Everything ive read says that is a key point, she actually brought up rescheduling. Once again pretty annoyed but i don't really harp on it just give one of these bad boys: -_- and ask what day shes free while telling her i was going to be busy all weekend. She gives me her available days and i tell her i'll get back to her when i know when im free. Once again i was pretty annoyed at this girls lack of... i don't even know, consideration? So i didn't really text her too much after that, we did have a mini interaction about her working too hard but i cut that shit short and kind of left her hanging.
So whats up guys this girl never texts me first, when i do text her we seem to get along pretty well. Shes flaked once but wanted to reschedule, shes honestly throwing me for a loop. Help?
