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Just to get this out of the way, I have read Ricardus's post on How to Date Multiple Women many times...
So I feel like society morals have already placed a negative vibe on dating more than 1 girl at a time, although I don't see anything wrong with it so long as the two of you have not claimed exclusivity with each other. I have no problem with telling a girl that I don't want to be in any sort of relationship right now (and the 2 girls I'm with right now both said the same thing back). However, it's a totally different story when you go further and tell the other girl(s) that you're also seeing other girls. Even though the 2 of you are not exclusive, it just seems to me that most girls would object to this idea...but then again, I used to think it was ludicrous that you could get almost ANY girl to sleep with you on the first/second date, until I learned the power of sexual framing. And even if they don't object to that, I can't imagine them being okay with you fucking other girls. Like, how is a girl fine with you putting the same penis you stuck in her last night, into another girl's vagina the next night?
So my question is this: how do you tell a girl, "Oh, by the way, I'm fucking other girls too. Not just you..."?
Or do you even have to explicitly tell her this? I mean, I have avoided telling the 2 girls I'm with right now the EXACT truth because they haven't asked specifically for it... but what if they do? And what do you do when you tell a girl you're looking to just be in open relationship and you're sleeping/dating other women too, and she rejects?
I would guess it comes down to just framing it correctly from the start. Framing the fact that there's nothing wrong with a guy dating several girls, or even a girl dating several guys for that matter, from the beginning is probably the solution. And if that IS the solution, does anybody have any thoughts/ideas on HOW TO SPECIFICALLY DO THIS???
~ Cheers
So I feel like society morals have already placed a negative vibe on dating more than 1 girl at a time, although I don't see anything wrong with it so long as the two of you have not claimed exclusivity with each other. I have no problem with telling a girl that I don't want to be in any sort of relationship right now (and the 2 girls I'm with right now both said the same thing back). However, it's a totally different story when you go further and tell the other girl(s) that you're also seeing other girls. Even though the 2 of you are not exclusive, it just seems to me that most girls would object to this idea...but then again, I used to think it was ludicrous that you could get almost ANY girl to sleep with you on the first/second date, until I learned the power of sexual framing. And even if they don't object to that, I can't imagine them being okay with you fucking other girls. Like, how is a girl fine with you putting the same penis you stuck in her last night, into another girl's vagina the next night?
So my question is this: how do you tell a girl, "Oh, by the way, I'm fucking other girls too. Not just you..."?
Or do you even have to explicitly tell her this? I mean, I have avoided telling the 2 girls I'm with right now the EXACT truth because they haven't asked specifically for it... but what if they do? And what do you do when you tell a girl you're looking to just be in open relationship and you're sleeping/dating other women too, and she rejects?
I would guess it comes down to just framing it correctly from the start. Framing the fact that there's nothing wrong with a guy dating several girls, or even a girl dating several guys for that matter, from the beginning is probably the solution. And if that IS the solution, does anybody have any thoughts/ideas on HOW TO SPECIFICALLY DO THIS???
~ Cheers
