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Professor Oak

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I want to communicate through my outfit that if a girl goes out on a date with me, we will have sex on that date. Also that I'm laid back, non judgemental, open minded, lone wolf, against the stream, don't trust the establishment, dominant, sexual and intelligent.

The outfit is for expressing myself, looking sexy and attracting women. Outfit is for daytime.

I understand that clothing may not be able to project some qualities that I described. As long as an outfit you reccomend projects as many of the qualities as possible it's all good.

I don't want to wear jeans and I won't wear a leather jacket. I'm tall, overweight (but nowhere near morbidly obese), 23 years old. Don't think about venues and budget, I'll figure out that later. So what would you recommend?
 

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lone wolf, against the stream, don't trust the establishment,

A fedora?? Just kidding.

It’s gonna be hard projecting all that with a single outfit.
Particularly the “lone wolf” and “don’t trust the establishment” which if you do unskillfully are gonna land you in “antisocial weirdo” territory.

In order to convey complex messages through your clothes, you first need to dial down the fundamentals (fit, contrast, color match your skin tone, etc…) otherwise you look sloppy and your message gets ignored.

I suggest starting with traditional bad boy/loner associated clothing like biker, rockstar or delinquent gear. How that looks depends on your city.
 

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wear jeans
I don't like jeans either, specially the basic bitch blue ones, though they can look good.
Overall you want clothes that fit you well, not baggy at all, you wanna look tiiight if you wanna look sharp.

overweight
Yeah that's a bit of a problem, do what you can to lose weight, you will look better (and have a easier time shopping good clothes, I think), but that said, even if you have some extra weight (healthly), you don't wanna hide it on baggy clothes, will only make you look fatter.

leather jacket
Leather jackets are cool man! Cliche, but cool, dunno why you don't wanna use them (I don't use them that much because here in Brazil it tends to be too warm for me to feel any confortable in them, colder days are rare).

I would you recommend just go with some stilish shoes, some basic tight pants (like in the shape of your legs, not like your balls will bust out of them lmao) and some... button down shirts? Those look super cool for warmer weather, even basic t-shirts with cool prints can do it, if they are your size, go the lower size you're confortable with. For colder weather, get a cool parka like that guy from Oasis, they look bitching cool, stilish scarfs, the world is your oyster, there's lots of options when you can wear a lot of cloth. I have a puffy jacket that makes me look super buff, too bad I use it like twice a year because of how little actually cold days we have here. My friend Mr. P uses a big like... furr? jacket, but it's not like those lady furr jackets, more like "big classy guy" type of stuff. It's really cold, use your clothes to make you look even bigger/stronger.

Important things are: clothes fit you, smaller size you can wear confortably, so they show your body. Also, contrast is big, you gotta look at all the pieces and see how they fit or not in color, do your best to stand out (in a good way lmao). Generally a cool good outfit will have like two main colors, one lighter one darker, then some details in some other colors, probably also contrasting a bit with those, but not much, the main contrast should come from the two main colors, I think. It's kinda hard to explain without examples but look up there and try to find what you think looks good on the internet.

Also cool accesories, those fuckboy type of bracets, like leather/fabric ones? I don't even know what they are lol, but you no doubt must know what it is, I don't use them myself, as I already have my stilish glasses, but I think they are great (if you have to use glasses, spend some extra to get some really cool ones that look good on you, it's worth it). Can't think of more cool accesories but there must be others out there, I'm not big on clocks but those can look cool as well, chains if you're into that sort of thing. Accesories can project that fuckboy vibe miles away, when the rest of your outfit already looks stilish. But focus more on the basic fashion for now, I would say.
 

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Partly it depends on the setting.
An f-boy at an elite university dresses quite differently from an f-boy on the mean streets of South Anytown.

More importantly, some guys are better suited, by looks and personality, to some clothing styles.
And while the clothes you wear definitely affect your attitude and behavior, a disconnect between who you are and what you wear can impact congruence.

An f-boy is one because of how he acts, not how he dresses.

However... If your main goal is communicating high sexual openness, I would suggest a tight-fitting light- or bright-colored T-shirt with a slightly provocative design/slogan. You can get them custom made, so be creative! :LOL:
 

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Also that I'm laid back, non judgemental, open minded, lone wolf, against the stream, don't trust the establishment, dominant, sexual and intelligent.

The outfit is for expressing myself
Become that person and clothing choices will become almost instinctive. That's how it was for me.
Also within the constraints of my limited wardrobe, I dress for the occasion and my overall mood. (btw lots of girls do this, so pay attention when they do, it can give u a lot of info, esp helps with cold reads)

Also, how's your posture, walk, etc?
I'm tall, overweight (but nowhere near morbidly obese), 23 years old.
Consider the Surveyor Body Improvement Program™, a simple, fairly easy, undogmatic, yet effective program designed for tall guys with a few extra pounds. I've lost four inches of waistline in as many months, and have even built a little muscle in the process.

-Don't eat nutritionally useless crap. If you want to eat "junk food", pick something like ice cream.
-Slash meat consumption, especially processed. Pick proteins that work for you; I mainly use dairy.
-Eat some fruits and vegetables, but don't force yourself. Pick ones you like.
-Skip meals now and then. Retrain your body to handle this; it's designed to run that way.
-Run your body off fat, not carbs, as much as possible. Ditto. Also, try to minimize refined carbs.
-Eat what feels good afterward, not necessarily what tastes good. Indulge your taste buds occasionally with savory or spicy foods, not sweets.
-Get a moderate but consistent amount of exercise, preferably in the real world, not the gym. Consume most of your protein and carbs after exercising.

-Do NOT stress about it. You're a man, not a teenage girl.
-Do other things to be healthy, like improving sleep quality.
-Take it one step at a time. Do NOT force yourself to do anything unless you actually want to force yourself.
 

Professor Oak

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I don't like jeans either, specially the basic bitch blue ones, though they can look good.
Overall you want clothes that fit you well, not baggy at all, you wanna look tiiight if you wanna look sharp.


Yeah that's a bit of a problem, do what you can to lose weight, you will look better (and have a easier time shopping good clothes, I think), but that said, even if you have some extra weight (healthly), you don't wanna hide it on baggy clothes, will only make you look fatter.


Leather jackets are cool man! Cliche, but cool, dunno why you don't wanna use them (I don't use them that much because here in Brazil it tends to be too warm for me to feel any confortable in them, colder days are rare).

I would you recommend just go with some stilish shoes, some basic tight pants (like in the shape of your legs, not like your balls will bust out of them lmao) and some... button down shirts? Those look super cool for warmer weather, even basic t-shirts with cool prints can do it, if they are your size, go the lower size you're confortable with. For colder weather, get a cool parka like that guy from Oasis, they look bitching cool, stilish scarfs, the world is your oyster, there's lots of options when you can wear a lot of cloth. I have a puffy jacket that makes me look super buff, too bad I use it like twice a year because of how little actually cold days we have here. My friend Mr. P uses a big like... furr? jacket, but it's not like those lady furr jackets, more like "big classy guy" type of stuff. It's really cold, use your clothes to make you look even bigger/stronger.

Important things are: clothes fit you, smaller size you can wear confortably, so they show your body. Also, contrast is big, you gotta look at all the pieces and see how they fit or not in color, do your best to stand out (in a good way lmao). Generally a cool good outfit will have like two main colors, one lighter one darker, then some details in some other colors, probably also contrasting a bit with those, but not much, the main contrast should come from the two main colors, I think. It's kinda hard to explain without examples but look up there and try to find what you think looks good on the internet.

Also cool accesories, those fuckboy type of bracets, like leather/fabric ones? I don't even know what they are lol, but you no doubt must know what it is, I don't use them myself, as I already have my stilish glasses, but I think they are great (if you have to use glasses, spend some extra to get some really cool ones that look good on you, it's worth it). Can't think of more cool accesories but there must be others out there, I'm not big on clocks but those can look cool as well, chains if you're into that sort of thing. Accesories can project that fuckboy vibe miles away, when the rest of your outfit already looks stilish. But focus more on the basic fashion for now, I would say.
Thank you for your reply, but it's a little unclear to me.

This is what I want to communicate with my outfit:
I want to communicate through my outfit that if a girl goes out on a date with me, we will have sex on that date. Also that I'm laid back, non judgemental, open minded, lone wolf, against the stream, don't trust the establishment, dominant, sexual and intelligent.

How do I communicate this through my clothes and look good at the same time?
 

Professor Oak

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More importantly, some guys are better suited, by looks and personality, to some clothing styles.
And while the clothes you wear definitely affect your attitude and behavior, a disconnect between who you are and what you wear can impact congruence.

Where will be only positive effects on congruence because the qualities that I want to communicate is the qualities that I possess.
 

Professor Oak

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Become that person and clothing choices will become almost instinctive. That's how it was for me.

I am that person and clothing choices are not instinctive to me. That's why I'm asking for help here.

Also I'm asking how to make this outfit, not how to loose weight. I know how to do that myself.
 

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I use jewelry to distinguish myself from the grey providers. A bit of flash which is not lms but distinct. Different.
 

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Talking seriously… maybe something like this but without the hipster beard that is already too conforming for my tastes

Low drop collar and jewelry convey sexiness
The glasses should convey intelligence
Tattoos will make you look like a rebel
Match this with Chelsea or harness boots and either dark jeans or leather pants.

That is the best I can think.

However, and I can’t to stress it enough, a right outfit only works if you got your fit and tones right.
Otherwise it looks like a costume.
 

Professor Oak

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I use jewelry to distinguish myself from the grey providers. A bit of flash which is not lms but distinct. Different.

So to communicate what I want to I need to wear something that will make me standout, is that right?
 

Professor Oak

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Talking seriously… maybe something like this but without the hipster beard that is already too conforming for my tastes

Low drop collar and jewelry convey sexiness
The glasses should convey intelligence
Tattoos will make you look like a rebel
Match this with Chelsea or harness boots and either dark jeans or leather pants.

That is the best I can think.

However, and I can’t to stress it enough, a right outfit only works if you got your fit and tones right.
Otherwise it looks like a costume.
This is the kind of replies that I'm looking for. Straight to the point.

This is top tier advice. I don't want to wear jeans or leather pants though so Im wondering would the outfitit still communicate what I want to if I would swap jeans for dark chinos? What about black chinos. If not then what alternatives could there be if any?

Also what else can communicate in my outfit that Im a rebel except tattoos?
 

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would the outfitit still communicate what I want to if I would swap jeans for dark chinos? What about black chinos. If not then what alternatives could there be if any?
Maybe, as long as those chinos look somewhat informal.
There should not be a big mismatch in formality between the chinos and the rest of the outfit.

Also what else can communicate in my outfit that Im a rebel except tattoos?

Perhaps chains, unconventional jewelry, an asymmetrical haircut.
The reason I suggested tattoos is because they also signal impulsiveness… that one is hard to convey otherwise.
 
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