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Hello there Fellas,
So I am going to focus on this Approach today to what I consider a 10.
Now a 10 is very subjective but none the less I think psychologically there is perception of a 10 that might alter an approach.
OR, there is something I needed to do more, OR less to have scored the number.
It's funny, but recently I've been nailing numbers left and right from girls who I consider 8's - and they are willingly, excitedly giving me their numbers.
But when it comes to these 9's and 10's something changes...
Thus getting help and perspective from the forum diagnosing issues picking up 9's and 10's with Day Game...
So first to give you an idea of what I consider a 10 I have to fall back to when I was growing up and didn't have access to 9's and 10's and therefore idealized Eastern European Porn chicks such as Jane Darling (when she was young), Anita Queen, and Michelle Wild...
NOW, I'm encountering females who literally look exactly like those Porn Chick's like the one today was a total knock off of Anita Queen...
So I was doing Uber in Chinatown when this 10 walked across the street in front of my car wearing short black running shorts, a large grey t-shirt - but you could see her voluptuous bust bouncing under the shirt, and well - She looked like Anita Queen.
And I was like - Okay I have to approach this.
So it was frankly amazing that she didn't vanish after it took literally 12 minutes for me to drive 2 downtown blocks over the 101 freeway twice and find a parking space - and boom she was still at the bus stop.
And there were a lot of people at the busstop...
So I crossed and directly approached her with the sincere Open -"Excuse me, but I totally noticed you walking when I was trying to park - because I'm headed down to the Starbucks there, but you so totally looked like Kristina the Lithuanian who I had an experience with - I had to come over and see what you are about.
she blushed and did this kinda laugh bowing kinda thing saying - "Thank You..."
We exchanged names as I said - "Well obviously you American, and not Kristina..."
She replied - "Actually I'm Russian."
I bounced back with - "Ohhh, well you're kinda cool for being Russian. Usually Russian girls aren't that warm and fuzzy... How long have you been here?"
She responded - "I grew up in Orange County."
And I was like - "Ohhh, then basically you're American. Orange County - you and I are probably not going to get along..."
She replied - "Why not?"
I retorted - "Well it's Orange County, it's pretty square down there. You must be trouble -right?"
She said - "Why'd you say that?"
I replied -"Because a lot of people coming from down there are rebelling from how square it is, so I imagine you could be rebellious like that."
She nodded a yes and said - "Yeah, it's pretty boring down there."
So I asked - "What do you got going on now. Where you headed to?"
She answered- "I'm going up to Sunset to meet a friend."
I bounced back with - "Yeah, I gotta be going soon too. Don't want to hold you up with the bus.. But, Let me ask you, would you say you're a coffee and conversation type, or a happy hour girl?"
She took a moment to think about it - "I'd say I like both. But I do love coffee..."
And I jumped in putting my finger to my lips, thinking for a moment - "So what would it take for you and I to exchange info to possibly get that cup of coffee?"
And she was like - "Ohhh, we can exchange instagram."
I replied - "No. I don't do instagram. What about exchanging numbers?"
She responded - "I don't give my number to strangers..."
(In my head I was like FUCK - I missed something. But I didn't know what. I knew it was dying...)
I bounced back with - "Why don't I give you my number and you can text me now. What good is a number unless we actually meet up ya know."
She was like - "Okay."
So she put in the number, and I gestured - "Go ahead, send me a text that says something like - Hey Adam it's Misha"
And she replied - "No I'll do it on my own time."
Then I responded - "Yeah, you're not interested. That's cool. You've got my info if you change your mind. Have fun on Sunset..."
As I shook her hand and walked down the street to the Stabucks.
And I was like FUCK MAN - I just missed my real life version of Anita Queen...
So I'm trying to diagnose issues picking up 9's and 10's with Day Game...
I will admit. For whatever reason I have Approach Anxiety with these 9's and 10's whereas I don't have that Approach Anxiety with the quote 8's.
And from what I understand of Psychology - it's called "Exposure Therapy" - the only way you get over a fear or anxiety like that is to force yourself to be exposed to it.
Thus I am literally pushing myself to actively Approach these 9's and 10's whereas maybe 2 or 3 months ago I would avoid them.
Likewise - I am going to have to overcome my Fear of these 9's and 10's in high end places like West Hollywood - where more of them are.
Because I still have a weird "prejudice" I guess that in order to Seduce these girls in this Area - I'd need to have a rooftop condo, and Mercedes whatever class.
Or there's the fear that I actually become successful with them initially - but then when they see that I'm not that "rich guy," I'll get rejected.
The place I am staying at is comfortable and clean enough to bring any chick back to.
My car is a cool 2014 sentimental Mustang - with some bumps and bruises - you can't really see unless you're polishing it.
I am concerned she'll start asking to go to expensive places...
But whatever...
Interested in constructive thoughts!!!
Because I objectively know that with the right SKILL and some more experience I CAN Seduce these 9's and 10's
So I am going to focus on this Approach today to what I consider a 10.
Now a 10 is very subjective but none the less I think psychologically there is perception of a 10 that might alter an approach.
OR, there is something I needed to do more, OR less to have scored the number.
It's funny, but recently I've been nailing numbers left and right from girls who I consider 8's - and they are willingly, excitedly giving me their numbers.
But when it comes to these 9's and 10's something changes...
Thus getting help and perspective from the forum diagnosing issues picking up 9's and 10's with Day Game...
So first to give you an idea of what I consider a 10 I have to fall back to when I was growing up and didn't have access to 9's and 10's and therefore idealized Eastern European Porn chicks such as Jane Darling (when she was young), Anita Queen, and Michelle Wild...
NOW, I'm encountering females who literally look exactly like those Porn Chick's like the one today was a total knock off of Anita Queen...
So I was doing Uber in Chinatown when this 10 walked across the street in front of my car wearing short black running shorts, a large grey t-shirt - but you could see her voluptuous bust bouncing under the shirt, and well - She looked like Anita Queen.
And I was like - Okay I have to approach this.
So it was frankly amazing that she didn't vanish after it took literally 12 minutes for me to drive 2 downtown blocks over the 101 freeway twice and find a parking space - and boom she was still at the bus stop.
And there were a lot of people at the busstop...
So I crossed and directly approached her with the sincere Open -"Excuse me, but I totally noticed you walking when I was trying to park - because I'm headed down to the Starbucks there, but you so totally looked like Kristina the Lithuanian who I had an experience with - I had to come over and see what you are about.
she blushed and did this kinda laugh bowing kinda thing saying - "Thank You..."
We exchanged names as I said - "Well obviously you American, and not Kristina..."
She replied - "Actually I'm Russian."
I bounced back with - "Ohhh, well you're kinda cool for being Russian. Usually Russian girls aren't that warm and fuzzy... How long have you been here?"
She responded - "I grew up in Orange County."
And I was like - "Ohhh, then basically you're American. Orange County - you and I are probably not going to get along..."
She replied - "Why not?"
I retorted - "Well it's Orange County, it's pretty square down there. You must be trouble -right?"
She said - "Why'd you say that?"
I replied -"Because a lot of people coming from down there are rebelling from how square it is, so I imagine you could be rebellious like that."
She nodded a yes and said - "Yeah, it's pretty boring down there."
So I asked - "What do you got going on now. Where you headed to?"
She answered- "I'm going up to Sunset to meet a friend."
I bounced back with - "Yeah, I gotta be going soon too. Don't want to hold you up with the bus.. But, Let me ask you, would you say you're a coffee and conversation type, or a happy hour girl?"
She took a moment to think about it - "I'd say I like both. But I do love coffee..."
And I jumped in putting my finger to my lips, thinking for a moment - "So what would it take for you and I to exchange info to possibly get that cup of coffee?"
And she was like - "Ohhh, we can exchange instagram."
I replied - "No. I don't do instagram. What about exchanging numbers?"
She responded - "I don't give my number to strangers..."
(In my head I was like FUCK - I missed something. But I didn't know what. I knew it was dying...)
I bounced back with - "Why don't I give you my number and you can text me now. What good is a number unless we actually meet up ya know."
She was like - "Okay."
So she put in the number, and I gestured - "Go ahead, send me a text that says something like - Hey Adam it's Misha"
And she replied - "No I'll do it on my own time."
Then I responded - "Yeah, you're not interested. That's cool. You've got my info if you change your mind. Have fun on Sunset..."
As I shook her hand and walked down the street to the Stabucks.
And I was like FUCK MAN - I just missed my real life version of Anita Queen...
So I'm trying to diagnose issues picking up 9's and 10's with Day Game...
I will admit. For whatever reason I have Approach Anxiety with these 9's and 10's whereas I don't have that Approach Anxiety with the quote 8's.
And from what I understand of Psychology - it's called "Exposure Therapy" - the only way you get over a fear or anxiety like that is to force yourself to be exposed to it.
Thus I am literally pushing myself to actively Approach these 9's and 10's whereas maybe 2 or 3 months ago I would avoid them.
Likewise - I am going to have to overcome my Fear of these 9's and 10's in high end places like West Hollywood - where more of them are.
Because I still have a weird "prejudice" I guess that in order to Seduce these girls in this Area - I'd need to have a rooftop condo, and Mercedes whatever class.
Or there's the fear that I actually become successful with them initially - but then when they see that I'm not that "rich guy," I'll get rejected.
The place I am staying at is comfortable and clean enough to bring any chick back to.
My car is a cool 2014 sentimental Mustang - with some bumps and bruises - you can't really see unless you're polishing it.
I am concerned she'll start asking to go to expensive places...
But whatever...
Interested in constructive thoughts!!!
Because I objectively know that with the right SKILL and some more experience I CAN Seduce these 9's and 10's
