Need help with texting

[Matthew91]

Okay guys well i met this girl i would say been about a week or so never hung out in person yet tho
However been texting about 4-5 days now and a friend told me to lay off with the texts for atleast 1-2 days and start back and so forth

Last time i spoke i did ask out to go somewhere she was good with it she agreed however she said she was busy friday aka today when i talked on tuesday and when i asked saturday? she said well see with smiley face and then asked about how was my day and stuff etc etc
Haven't spoke till since which was wednsday night and my friend told me dont text till saturday and ask again confirming about hanging out....

So im in a mix here not sure if i should text earlier or confirm it earlier and what not

What are your suggestions?

thanks

 

[Garrett]

Okay guys well i met this girl i would say been about a week or so never hung out in person yet tho
However been texting about 4-5 days now and a friend told me to lay off with the texts for atleast 1-2 days and start back and so forth

Last time i spoke i did ask out to go somewhere she was good with it she agreed however she said she was busy friday aka today when i talked on tuesday and when i asked saturday? she said well see with smiley face and then asked about how was my day and stuff etc etc
Haven't spoke till since which was wednsday night and my friend told me dont text till saturday and ask again confirming about hanging out....

So im in a mix here not sure if i should text earlier or confirm it earlier and what not

What are your suggestions?

thanks

Matthew91,

If the girl was interested when you asked her out, she wouldn't have said, 'We'll see'. From my perception, 'we'll see' means, 'I'm not all that interested in going, but if no other, better options come up, I may consider going.' Usually, 'we'll see' or 'maybe' means no. That doesn't mean you need to give up though!

Your friend is right, but only about the fact of not texting her so much. The girl is viewing you as a platonic friend, and when she avoids your question and starts talking about how your day is and you go along with it, 1 you're following her lead, 2 you're getting f-zoned, 3 her attraction has dipped 4. cut it out. You should only use texting to get girls out and sleeping with them. What you could do is text her once you've waited like a week and say, "Hey (name), hope all is well! I've been busy the past week, but was thinking we could grab a bite! How's your schedule the rest of the week? " She'll tell you when she's free and you plan a day/time that works for YOU and that is convenient for HER. You take her out, ideally don't pay for her meal (she'll like you less for that which is good), you get to know her through deep diving (asking deep questions like why she is studying to be a doctor for example), then you take her somewhere and give her intimacy. I could go on for days on what to do, so to save the time, go on the Girls Chase blog and lookup posts in order to figure out what to do once you've gotten her out.

 

[Matthew91]

Thanks for the quick response what you wrote really made sense and youre 100 percent right.

Man if i ran into this forum earlier i could of had so many females that i lost my chances too oh well you live and learn !
Thanks tho ill keep it updated if anything positive or negative comes out with this chick

 

[Garrett]

Thanks for the quick response what you wrote really made sense and youre 100 percent right.

Man if i ran into this forum earlier i could of had so many females that i lost my chances too oh well you live and learn !
Thanks tho ill keep it updated if anything positive or negative comes out with this chick

Good attitude Matt! Now you are learning, which is great! Let us know how things turn out

Garrett

 

[Matthew91]

hope it goes good brooo
thanks for the interest !

 

[Matthew91]

man u guys pro with this shit i am happy im here