Need help!!!

[The believer]

Hi so during the pandemic i went full tunnel vision studying because i really wanted a new job legit didnt hit on a girl or meet friends(only2that live next to me)for two years basically, now it looks like ima get a job real soon and I've realised my social skills are soooooooo bad now b4 i felt i had elite social skills and could connext connect with anyone but now the problem is i just dont talk? Like im so used to to being quite when ppl try talk to me i just dont say much esp with girls

What should i do because im losing so much opportunities because i just dont talk so girls just assume i aint interested.
Iknow this must bare dumb but someone pls help

 

[DarkKnight]

First do yourself a favor and calm down. Second we need to know more.

For now use warm up sets, talk to friendly people so you can build a good momentum of being social.

When I have not been interacting with people for some time I tend to be not social as well. Warm up sets help.

 

[The believer]

Soz i just realised this girl at work who tried talking to me a few weeks back isn't interested anymore so im freaking out looool

The real problem is im just stuck in my head and im taking everything too seriously.
Thanks for your reply il deffo try those things out

 

[Starboy]

I'm guessing you're an introvert right? Common problem with us types. If we're not already elite with socializing when we lose social momentum it's a bitch to get it back.

I get what you mean with being quite especially aroung girls. It's easy to not have to open your mouth and be outgoing in social siutations because it can feel like a burden and you don't have to risk any awkwardness or potential tension. Sometimes you just gotta say fuck it and try. If you're a normal relaxed decent looking guy girls will be more receptive to you than you'd expect. If you can train yourself to speak loudly and clearly you become more confident than if you let yourself speak your default high pitch voice. Practice speaking from your gut and diapraghm.

Not socializing for two whole years was a big mistake. You can regain your momentum,but it will require some effort on your part.

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[The believer]

Thanks alot! Yeah now ive realised it was a mistake so gonna make an active effort to gain some momentum.
Ppl like you guys is why i love the internet