Hey guys,
I met this woman on a random dating site and I'm not sure how to answer her reply SMOOTHLY. I guess I need some coaching (hand holding) here not to mess this up with my response. I want to transition smoothly into a meet/date so please give me your advice on how to answer her. Thanks.
Her email to me is below;
Her: It does answer my question, thank you. The reason I ask is, this is a dating site after all....most men are just looking to hook up. Which is fine, but not what I am looking for these days. I do love sex though. God, I love it. Probably more so because I didn't get good sex for a looooooooong time while I was married. There was plenty of it, but man was it dull.
Her: I also ask what you are looking for because what we look for changes over time. Is what you were looking for ten years ago the same as what you are looking for now? It certainly isn't for me. We assess and reassess what we are looking for. Probably never stop searching, do we?
And here is my soon to be response to her; (Note: I haven't sent this yet so there is time to edit it)
Me: That's weird...I love SEX too! We obviously have this in common. And now on to your questions.
Honestly, I was going to write this long explanation about how I'm not one of those men and bla...bla...nah.
But instead I'm going to relate to you. Like you I was married 10 years to a boring sex life. And that is the main reason why my marriage didn't last. So you don't have to worry...I COMPLETELY understand where your coming from!
Actually, I didn't even know this site had classifieds until I was selling one of my guitars and stumbled upon the link. Then I found you. Weird...again right?
SO here's the deal...I like to be clear and up front with women. Are you ready?
I'm not looking for anything but to give you the most amazing experience of your life...and yes, this includes a real relationship.
We're both adults here and you seem like a mature sexy woman that knows what she wants. Am I right? So why not go after it? And leave me alone...I'm kidding! Shall we proceed with some banter and coffee or beverage of choice to see where it leads?
I met this woman on a random dating site and I'm not sure how to answer her reply SMOOTHLY. I guess I need some coaching (hand holding) here not to mess this up with my response. I want to transition smoothly into a meet/date so please give me your advice on how to answer her. Thanks.
Her email to me is below;
Her: It does answer my question, thank you. The reason I ask is, this is a dating site after all....most men are just looking to hook up. Which is fine, but not what I am looking for these days. I do love sex though. God, I love it. Probably more so because I didn't get good sex for a looooooooong time while I was married. There was plenty of it, but man was it dull.
Her: I also ask what you are looking for because what we look for changes over time. Is what you were looking for ten years ago the same as what you are looking for now? It certainly isn't for me. We assess and reassess what we are looking for. Probably never stop searching, do we?
And here is my soon to be response to her; (Note: I haven't sent this yet so there is time to edit it)
Me: That's weird...I love SEX too! We obviously have this in common. And now on to your questions.
Honestly, I was going to write this long explanation about how I'm not one of those men and bla...bla...nah.
But instead I'm going to relate to you. Like you I was married 10 years to a boring sex life. And that is the main reason why my marriage didn't last. So you don't have to worry...I COMPLETELY understand where your coming from!
Actually, I didn't even know this site had classifieds until I was selling one of my guitars and stumbled upon the link. Then I found you. Weird...again right?
SO here's the deal...I like to be clear and up front with women. Are you ready?
I'm not looking for anything but to give you the most amazing experience of your life...and yes, this includes a real relationship.
We're both adults here and you seem like a mature sexy woman that knows what she wants. Am I right? So why not go after it? And leave me alone...I'm kidding! Shall we proceed with some banter and coffee or beverage of choice to see where it leads?
