Hey fellas, I took some action and I need you to give me your feedback. I am introvert who is breaking the shell. Now I am gonna give you three incidents and I need you to give me your feedback on what went wrong and what can be done better.
1)this happened with my mom's physiotherapist
We were waiting for the lift and she kept glancing and mentioned why is there only one lift working. I said bad decisions taken by the chairman of the society and we got in with a delivery guy. I told her must be tiring for her to travel all day and she said she gets a good sleep though at 10 30 pm, and I said good for you at least you have a job that allows you to travel and she Said this is why she decided not to stay at the hospital and work for her own and I mentioned, so you are an adventurous person I see (honestly I don't know why I said that but I guess I was trying to sexualise the conversation subtly) and she burst into laughter saying i am the lift stopped on 2nd floor and and delivery guy got out for the next two floors it was plain awkward silence.... And later I parted her bye take care
How could I have filled in the awkward silence?
2)How do you open up a shy girl who comes from a high status and acts sophisticated although she comes to a bar and wants to fucking have fun..... But is very reserved and acts like she wants it but is very shy
3) so maybe few of you guys know that I have joined bjj. And I was talking to the group and we all were there chilling and two ladies who came along hugged the instructor and mixed with everyone I wasn't greeted (cool with me) my shyness came over later the instructor asked me to come here and introduced me to a girl I extended my hand and she smiled and then I extended my hand to the other girl and she said to the instructor I thought you will do the finger point introduction (I think she hated me for being such a nerd), later she did shake my hands and told me her name. Is my assumption right? And what could be done right?. I really felt like a fucking nerd.
1)this happened with my mom's physiotherapist
We were waiting for the lift and she kept glancing and mentioned why is there only one lift working. I said bad decisions taken by the chairman of the society and we got in with a delivery guy. I told her must be tiring for her to travel all day and she said she gets a good sleep though at 10 30 pm, and I said good for you at least you have a job that allows you to travel and she Said this is why she decided not to stay at the hospital and work for her own and I mentioned, so you are an adventurous person I see (honestly I don't know why I said that but I guess I was trying to sexualise the conversation subtly) and she burst into laughter saying i am the lift stopped on 2nd floor and and delivery guy got out for the next two floors it was plain awkward silence.... And later I parted her bye take care
How could I have filled in the awkward silence?
2)How do you open up a shy girl who comes from a high status and acts sophisticated although she comes to a bar and wants to fucking have fun..... But is very reserved and acts like she wants it but is very shy
3) so maybe few of you guys know that I have joined bjj. And I was talking to the group and we all were there chilling and two ladies who came along hugged the instructor and mixed with everyone I wasn't greeted (cool with me) my shyness came over later the instructor asked me to come here and introduced me to a girl I extended my hand and she smiled and then I extended my hand to the other girl and she said to the instructor I thought you will do the finger point introduction (I think she hated me for being such a nerd), later she did shake my hands and told me her name. Is my assumption right? And what could be done right?. I really felt like a fucking nerd.
