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I been struggling with this.
I read an old notes and Chase advice me to "rather than see women as battles, see them as do I want to stand out in a crowded place or go to a place where it's less crowded."
Logically I understand this but I can't seem to separate that going for the hunt for women versus I have a personal goal of trying to build that ladder of understanding the loser per se.
Because I was that guy. I am that guy. I will never forget who I was. But I'm better today if that make sense.
This has cause me to sabotage myself, which is normal, but it does damage my social reputation in groups that comes along the implication of "I thought he was this but he is not."
This sounds overthinking but really I'm not.
Let me Put it this way, in an analogy of some sort:
A lot of men even high level guys can separate seeing women as bitches and yet wants a wife.
(Which is funny to me)
For me, I somehow can't.
I want to go date women while at the same time, able to help another man out or kinda not leave too many destruction.
Which is kinda hard because the we are wired a certain way, the game is what it is.
Anyway, looking forward to see notes, points of view. I can't logically move forward. I'm just looking to see sentence that might trigger something for me.
Hope this write up isn't too crazy.
I read an old notes and Chase advice me to "rather than see women as battles, see them as do I want to stand out in a crowded place or go to a place where it's less crowded."
Logically I understand this but I can't seem to separate that going for the hunt for women versus I have a personal goal of trying to build that ladder of understanding the loser per se.
Because I was that guy. I am that guy. I will never forget who I was. But I'm better today if that make sense.
This has cause me to sabotage myself, which is normal, but it does damage my social reputation in groups that comes along the implication of "I thought he was this but he is not."
This sounds overthinking but really I'm not.
Let me Put it this way, in an analogy of some sort:
A lot of men even high level guys can separate seeing women as bitches and yet wants a wife.
(Which is funny to me)
For me, I somehow can't.
I want to go date women while at the same time, able to help another man out or kinda not leave too many destruction.
Which is kinda hard because the we are wired a certain way, the game is what it is.
Anyway, looking forward to see notes, points of view. I can't logically move forward. I'm just looking to see sentence that might trigger something for me.
Hope this write up isn't too crazy.
