New here, questions about day game.

[Sky]

How should I approach day game? I've read a couple of articles already, and from what I've seen a lot of the "natural" way of doing so is to capitalise on approach invitations.

My weaknesses thus far are:
- Limiting mindsets, insecurities barring me from approaching
- AA
- Like most beginners, I picture myself to have the "perfect pickup", in the end giving myself too much pressure.

Oh and how rude of me not introducing myself to y'all.

Sky here, Asian from down under. 24 years old, not very experienced with girls.

Thanks

 

[Zanardi]

What I did was this:

1. Approach;
2. See what happens;
3. Perfect your approaches once you start to see patterns (at me, it happened after the 60th approach)

Oh, and keep a log. I write the date, time started, how many approaches I did that day and how many approaches I did in total. And, of course, what happened and my thoughts.

 

[Cody Lyans]

Start with challenging yourself to do certain tasks you fear to get past them
Then work on leading conversations
Then work on flirting.

These are literally what I did when I started
I felt scared approaching so I tried it
Then I saw a big group of girls and tried that cuz it scared me
Then I made convos good cuz approaching well only to be too retarded to speak was not my end goal
Then as speaking I needed to flirt

Then I needed to turn successful flirts into more, so needed to be ballsy

 

[Marcellus]

Hey bro! you said your from down under, you wouldn't happen to be from Melbourne Australia are ya?

 

[Sky]

Hey bro! you said your from down under, you wouldn't happen to be from Melbourne Australia are ya?

Hey man, from Brissy here

 

[Zanardi]

Like most beginners, I picture myself to have the "perfect pickup", in the end giving myself too much pressure

One more thing: there is no perfect pickup. Despite what you may have heard, most women aren't used to men coming to them on the streets and try to make a conversation, so you'll get a wide range of responses. There are friendly women who are happy to see that somebody talks to them and there are scared women...

My biggest sticking point is actually having the presence of spirit in continuing a conversation after the hook point (meaning after the 1-2 minutes mark, where the girl is still standing there with you). But this made me improve my fundamentals and find a great flaw in my approach: I was not smiling. A full smile is an overkill, it is enough a very sly smile.

Daygame doesn't look neither easy, nor hard

 

[Marcellus]

Ahh that's too bad! if u were from Melbourne I would've helped you out and done some day game with ya