Have all members of this forum bought chases book?
I'm wondering if I need to buy his stuff before I can contribute to and learn from the forums as people might write in a way that assumes everyone is on the same page and knows the basics? I don't feel i have a good idea of chases philosophy in general.
For example, with some like Gunwitch, I know he's super direct, heavy kino straight away, only approaching girls at night who are on their own etc. But I'm not sure about the general idea behind girlschase.
Anyway, I am from the UK. Probably older than most here. I've never really had much interest from girls. Got laid once or twice without knowing anything about 'game'. Lots of my friends get laid lots, and they also have never read anything about 'game'. So initially I assumed that it was all just a load of over-complicated stuff.
However, at the end of the day, I had nothing to lose, so I dived in. Watched lots of vids from various PUA's. Bought 3 books.
Then went out and practiced. Got laid once (just lucky?), and the other 60 or so approaches so far have all been awful!
I kind of feel like I don't have a clue what i'm doing, despite reading lots of books and trying to practice 'out in the field'.
Sometimes I tihnk maybe I just have some sort of ADHD and instantly forget everything i've read as I don't internalise it! Or i'm just doing something wrong in general.
I typically only do night game.
I am finding it hard to get a girl who is remotely interested in having a conversation with me.
My only hope is usually if I open with something 'funny', and then I have a shot at talking to her, and hopefully building some rapport.
But usually, if I open in the recommended way of like ''Hi! I noticed you from over there. I wanted to come and meet you'' I get bad reactions. Like i'm an oddball for saying that. Or like it's a cheesy line. They can tend to be defensive/on guard
I wonder if it's because i'm from the UK where maybe
1)opening like that is just too formal! That's not how people tend to talk in the UK
OR
2)UK people are famously not very open to being approached by strangers. We're almost famous for it. When I visited the US, I was amazed and delighted by how friendly people were. If I said ''hi, how are you?'' too a stranger over there, they'd almost automatically reply and then ask me the same question. That does NOT happen in the UK! In the UK, you'd either just get a weird look, or they'd ask why you are talking to them/should they know you or get ignored.
Are there any UK members here out of interest?
I'm wondering if I need to buy his stuff before I can contribute to and learn from the forums as people might write in a way that assumes everyone is on the same page and knows the basics? I don't feel i have a good idea of chases philosophy in general.
For example, with some like Gunwitch, I know he's super direct, heavy kino straight away, only approaching girls at night who are on their own etc. But I'm not sure about the general idea behind girlschase.
Anyway, I am from the UK. Probably older than most here. I've never really had much interest from girls. Got laid once or twice without knowing anything about 'game'. Lots of my friends get laid lots, and they also have never read anything about 'game'. So initially I assumed that it was all just a load of over-complicated stuff.
However, at the end of the day, I had nothing to lose, so I dived in. Watched lots of vids from various PUA's. Bought 3 books.
Then went out and practiced. Got laid once (just lucky?), and the other 60 or so approaches so far have all been awful!
I kind of feel like I don't have a clue what i'm doing, despite reading lots of books and trying to practice 'out in the field'.
Sometimes I tihnk maybe I just have some sort of ADHD and instantly forget everything i've read as I don't internalise it! Or i'm just doing something wrong in general.
I typically only do night game.
I am finding it hard to get a girl who is remotely interested in having a conversation with me.
My only hope is usually if I open with something 'funny', and then I have a shot at talking to her, and hopefully building some rapport.
But usually, if I open in the recommended way of like ''Hi! I noticed you from over there. I wanted to come and meet you'' I get bad reactions. Like i'm an oddball for saying that. Or like it's a cheesy line. They can tend to be defensive/on guard
I wonder if it's because i'm from the UK where maybe
1)opening like that is just too formal! That's not how people tend to talk in the UK
OR
2)UK people are famously not very open to being approached by strangers. We're almost famous for it. When I visited the US, I was amazed and delighted by how friendly people were. If I said ''hi, how are you?'' too a stranger over there, they'd almost automatically reply and then ask me the same question. That does NOT happen in the UK! In the UK, you'd either just get a weird look, or they'd ask why you are talking to them/should they know you or get ignored.
Are there any UK members here out of interest?
