I've never cold approached girls before in my life until recently, and it's fun, because you're facing your fears. But when i do a cold approach, i can't help but get nervous. And then after that it's so much harder to perform and I feel it makes things awkward. Lately anytime I'm walking outside at my college campus and i see a hot girl, i'm forcing myself to ask them if they're single. I've done this 4 times in the past 2 months.
The first 3 times, they all said no, today though a girl said yes. I had asked her as i caught up to her on the sidewalk. She paused and smiled and after she said yes, i asked her her name and introduced myself, we shook hands. I asked her what she goes to school for. She told me what her degree was and i had her explain what it was to me because i didn't know what it was. I was nervous though and it was hard to relate to it. I think i was just nodding and at the end said, "thats cool". I had her tell me when she graduated HS, and what her next school plans are. Then she asked me what i go for. I simply told her, "I go for architecture" and she said something like "oh okay". Then i asked, "so what else do you do around here?" She told me what town she lives in. I told her thats where i'm from. Thats when she asked me, whats your name again? I told her again and then told her that she probably knew my stepsister (they both graduated from the same school, same year), she then asked me who she was. I told her and she said that yes, she did know her.
Thats when i said, "We should go grab some coffee some time, whats your phone number? I think she was like "I don't know". I said why not, it'll be fun. She said that she's very busy. I tried to persist (maybe i shouldn't have? idk). I said I'm sure we could find some time that would work. She kept walking ahead, probably wanted to get the hell away. I said, "so what's your number?" she said something like "I don't just give my phone number out like that." Thats when i finally decided to end it and said, It was nice talking to you, have a nice day.
So any advice for next time so it doesn't go so awkward? Should i just keep at it, and approach more often, so that i don't get as nervous? Btw, i am a 21 year old virgin but i think i am a handsome guy and can attract girls(after practicing this material on this site), but it's harder on the cold approach.
The first 3 times, they all said no, today though a girl said yes. I had asked her as i caught up to her on the sidewalk. She paused and smiled and after she said yes, i asked her her name and introduced myself, we shook hands. I asked her what she goes to school for. She told me what her degree was and i had her explain what it was to me because i didn't know what it was. I was nervous though and it was hard to relate to it. I think i was just nodding and at the end said, "thats cool". I had her tell me when she graduated HS, and what her next school plans are. Then she asked me what i go for. I simply told her, "I go for architecture" and she said something like "oh okay". Then i asked, "so what else do you do around here?" She told me what town she lives in. I told her thats where i'm from. Thats when she asked me, whats your name again? I told her again and then told her that she probably knew my stepsister (they both graduated from the same school, same year), she then asked me who she was. I told her and she said that yes, she did know her.
Thats when i said, "We should go grab some coffee some time, whats your phone number? I think she was like "I don't know". I said why not, it'll be fun. She said that she's very busy. I tried to persist (maybe i shouldn't have? idk). I said I'm sure we could find some time that would work. She kept walking ahead, probably wanted to get the hell away. I said, "so what's your number?" she said something like "I don't just give my phone number out like that." Thats when i finally decided to end it and said, It was nice talking to you, have a nice day.
So any advice for next time so it doesn't go so awkward? Should i just keep at it, and approach more often, so that i don't get as nervous? Btw, i am a 21 year old virgin but i think i am a handsome guy and can attract girls(after practicing this material on this site), but it's harder on the cold approach.
