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- May 12, 2013
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Went to the local Jamba Juice and shopping mall today with the sister, and approached/talked to 5 new girls.
I’ll go through each of them.
Girl 1:
My sister and I were standing in line at the Jamba Juice and oddly, the place started filling with cute girls (definitely need to go back here more). I turned around and saw a cute girl, and then turned back to face forward to consider talking to her. I then mentally said, “Fuck it” and turned around to talk to her:
Me: I like your sweatshirt, really cool graphic on it.
Her: (smiles) Oh, thanks!
Me: Oh, and you have braces! Even better! [since I have braces too]
That was it. Nothing special. I’m just getting used to approaching, so in my mind, I was sexy as hell with this.
Girl 2:
My sister and I were in a store at the mall. There were really no girls in this store, but my sister was looking for a particular item in there, so we browsed. I saw the back of a blonde girl and just went up to talk to her. I just picked up some random thing and asked if it’d be a good present for my sister, and she just said yes. I saw that she was much older than me (she looked about 26), so I didn’t bother with the interaction. I just did my piece and left. Turns out, she was in an employee at the store shopping on her off day. I counted the interaction anyway since I approached her under the thought that she was just a normal girl.
Girl 3:
I saw a cute girl walking the same direction as me, but couldn’t tell if the woman/child combo behind her was her mom or not. Once I saw them separate while walking, I assumed they weren’t together. I walked up to her and started talking. I just used a standard direct opener (“I saw you walking here, and I just thought you were cute”) and she seemed pretty receptive, but ultimately I didn’t push for anything beyond that. I pretty much said my piece, and then walked off (she wasn’t as cute up close as I thought).
Girl 4:
While my sister and I were walking in the halls of the mall, we passed by a really sexy yoga-pants girl. Literally, all I could say was “hi.” That was it. Pretty sweet improvement over not talking to her anyways. She looked at me like I was crazy, so that was entertaining.
Girl 5:
Ended the outing with a bang. My sister and I walked into a store and while we walked on, this cute girl glanced at me, held her gaze and smiled. She had one of those sexy hourglass bodies, with special attention in the ass area. She didn’t work there, because after we passed her she went to the cashier to purchase some things. I pretended to look through the sunglasses rack, which was next to the cashier, and after she made her purchase, I turned and opened her from the side:
Me: Hey, I saw you standing there, and I had to ask, do we know each other? [she honestly looked familiar]
Her: I don’t know. We might?
Me: You just look like someone I used to know, honestly. What’s your name?
Her: [name]
Me: Hi [name], I’m Tramp. (shakes hands) Maybe we know each other from school. Which one do you go to?
Her: [school]
Me: Well I used to go there. We may have run into each other. What year are you?
Her: [Year]
Me: Oh, probably not then haha.
Her: (laughs and smiles)
Me: For what it’s worth though, you are incredibly cute. You have a very unique sense of style.
Her: (smiling) Well, thank you!
Me: What are you up to today?
Her: Well, I’m just shopping with my friend. What about you?
Me: Dealing with my sister all day (I look towards my sister, who is at the end of the store)
Her: (laughs) Oh, dealing with her?
Me: Yeah, I think that’s the proper word to describe the situation (said in a joking voice)
Her: (laughs)
Me: So I’ll just cut right to it, are you single?
Her: Well, um… I’m kind of talking to someone.
Me: Shh, shh, shh… He doesn’t need to know about us.
Her: (laughs)
Me: How about this… How about I take you out to coffee and we can just chat, and… I don’t know if you don’t like me by the end of it, you can slap me or something for asking you out, although I know it won’t come to that.
Her: Well… I can’t go to coffee today, but…
Me: Well, I won’t be able to make it today either, I still got my sister to handle haha, but how about I take down your number and we can schedule it up later?
Her: (laughs) Sure!
Me: Okay, here [hand her phone]
Her: [puts number in phone]
Me: Cool. It was nice meeting you.
Her: It was cool meeting you too!
Not my best interaction, but I still tried. I noticed I asked too many questions in the first part of the interaction, and that “you can slap me or something” part sounds childish. But I still persisted, and she did have a hot body, so I’ll take it.
So this part 1 of my newbie assignment/hybrid assignment I made myself.
What I learned:
1. Girls seem to respond better when I’m in a relaxed vibe, rather than a jumpy one.
2. Honesty and believing in what I am saying works better than canned lines. In my conversation with Girl 5, I didn’t mention what my body language was. I was staring at her in the eyes (at least, until I asked her out. I chickened out of eye contact when I did that) almost the entire time, my voice wasn’t rushed or excited but calm and controlled, and I was tapping into my real attraction for her and was unafraid to express that.
3. A lot of interactions are going to feel weird. Just accept this fact, and forgot about it. It’s going to happen.
I’ll go through each of them.
Girl 1:
My sister and I were standing in line at the Jamba Juice and oddly, the place started filling with cute girls (definitely need to go back here more). I turned around and saw a cute girl, and then turned back to face forward to consider talking to her. I then mentally said, “Fuck it” and turned around to talk to her:
Me: I like your sweatshirt, really cool graphic on it.
Her: (smiles) Oh, thanks!
Me: Oh, and you have braces! Even better! [since I have braces too]
That was it. Nothing special. I’m just getting used to approaching, so in my mind, I was sexy as hell with this.
Girl 2:
My sister and I were in a store at the mall. There were really no girls in this store, but my sister was looking for a particular item in there, so we browsed. I saw the back of a blonde girl and just went up to talk to her. I just picked up some random thing and asked if it’d be a good present for my sister, and she just said yes. I saw that she was much older than me (she looked about 26), so I didn’t bother with the interaction. I just did my piece and left. Turns out, she was in an employee at the store shopping on her off day. I counted the interaction anyway since I approached her under the thought that she was just a normal girl.
Girl 3:
I saw a cute girl walking the same direction as me, but couldn’t tell if the woman/child combo behind her was her mom or not. Once I saw them separate while walking, I assumed they weren’t together. I walked up to her and started talking. I just used a standard direct opener (“I saw you walking here, and I just thought you were cute”) and she seemed pretty receptive, but ultimately I didn’t push for anything beyond that. I pretty much said my piece, and then walked off (she wasn’t as cute up close as I thought).
Girl 4:
While my sister and I were walking in the halls of the mall, we passed by a really sexy yoga-pants girl. Literally, all I could say was “hi.” That was it. Pretty sweet improvement over not talking to her anyways. She looked at me like I was crazy, so that was entertaining.
Girl 5:
Ended the outing with a bang. My sister and I walked into a store and while we walked on, this cute girl glanced at me, held her gaze and smiled. She had one of those sexy hourglass bodies, with special attention in the ass area. She didn’t work there, because after we passed her she went to the cashier to purchase some things. I pretended to look through the sunglasses rack, which was next to the cashier, and after she made her purchase, I turned and opened her from the side:
Me: Hey, I saw you standing there, and I had to ask, do we know each other? [she honestly looked familiar]
Her: I don’t know. We might?
Me: You just look like someone I used to know, honestly. What’s your name?
Her: [name]
Me: Hi [name], I’m Tramp. (shakes hands) Maybe we know each other from school. Which one do you go to?
Her: [school]
Me: Well I used to go there. We may have run into each other. What year are you?
Her: [Year]
Me: Oh, probably not then haha.
Her: (laughs and smiles)
Me: For what it’s worth though, you are incredibly cute. You have a very unique sense of style.
Her: (smiling) Well, thank you!
Me: What are you up to today?
Her: Well, I’m just shopping with my friend. What about you?
Me: Dealing with my sister all day (I look towards my sister, who is at the end of the store)
Her: (laughs) Oh, dealing with her?
Me: Yeah, I think that’s the proper word to describe the situation (said in a joking voice)
Her: (laughs)
Me: So I’ll just cut right to it, are you single?
Her: Well, um… I’m kind of talking to someone.
Me: Shh, shh, shh… He doesn’t need to know about us.
Her: (laughs)
Me: How about this… How about I take you out to coffee and we can just chat, and… I don’t know if you don’t like me by the end of it, you can slap me or something for asking you out, although I know it won’t come to that.
Her: Well… I can’t go to coffee today, but…
Me: Well, I won’t be able to make it today either, I still got my sister to handle haha, but how about I take down your number and we can schedule it up later?
Her: (laughs) Sure!
Me: Okay, here [hand her phone]
Her: [puts number in phone]
Me: Cool. It was nice meeting you.
Her: It was cool meeting you too!
Not my best interaction, but I still tried. I noticed I asked too many questions in the first part of the interaction, and that “you can slap me or something” part sounds childish. But I still persisted, and she did have a hot body, so I’ll take it.
So this part 1 of my newbie assignment/hybrid assignment I made myself.
What I learned:
1. Girls seem to respond better when I’m in a relaxed vibe, rather than a jumpy one.
2. Honesty and believing in what I am saying works better than canned lines. In my conversation with Girl 5, I didn’t mention what my body language was. I was staring at her in the eyes (at least, until I asked her out. I chickened out of eye contact when I did that) almost the entire time, my voice wasn’t rushed or excited but calm and controlled, and I was tapping into my real attraction for her and was unafraid to express that.
3. A lot of interactions are going to feel weird. Just accept this fact, and forgot about it. It’s going to happen.
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