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yesterday night:
met this girl, obviously over tinder very sweet, American pie "4th of July" vibes, art.. -> went to bar, started was cute, then sexy, she started to be more open about how she used to party, i went full sex talk, ask her for walk
Few meters before my flat she asked about what I am looking for, i get honest answer about that I believe you we are not able to pick "what we looking for" and when you see you know. Open door to my building, she hesitates, really hesitates, i said no worry i can walk you out to your place but i kept it light and told her "it's just wine, we will talk, listen to music, of course i will hit on you but you are strong
) she came to my place, 10 mins in and we are kissing
bla bla bla -> we are naked, i ate her (i like it and have very good experiences), then went to fuck her -> "bla bla bla put on condom please"..ofc i am gentleman so i grab condom and BOOM -> my penis hit recession(very similar timing with Powel meeting..just sayin)
ok, no problem, kissing, hugging, she is doing me with hand, i am hard -> going for condom -> and BOOM, penis dead
ok no problem...etc. all together 4 FOOKIN TIMES
then we just hugging, i am whispering her nice things, spooning, kissing.I told her how sexy she is, It whole took cca 3 hours,(she also told me some compliments..) then i ordered her a uber, (not asking her go home, she told she is tired but also looked like she would maybe stay?,but it was very late..it was weird situation , i would be ok, actually i was hoping she would sleep but i think for first date it would be too much so when she told "i should go home" i told her i will call you uber) told her when you are at home text me (on tinder, still dont have number)
She texted me she is at her place, i said to her good night -> no response.
In the morning, i texted her how i enjoyed our time, how gorgeous she looks when she is naked and if she slept well.
Then she replied she slept very good, and also, thanks for yesterday, it was very nice
I know she is going for I believe 2 days out of city (possibly more).
Also, she was def not virgin, but also no hoe.
What is correct approach after bad sex?
Ask today/tomorrow for a number?
Or silence and ask her after cca 3 days for a nother date?
Where should be another date? A.g. cooking at my place? Or something low key? She likes minigolf and shit like that (i dont like things like this but not sure how she sees me now, during date i had feelings that she thinks I am player..but after bad sex)
Instinct is telling me to ask her for number, go off app and ask her for cooking at my place. But this happend to me once, cca 2 years ago, did not know about this site and after bad sex date it ended with nice msg from her, "it was nice but no for another meeting". (i did not have bad mood after bad sex even back then, but who know...vibes are vibes)
met this girl, obviously over tinder very sweet, American pie "4th of July" vibes, art.. -> went to bar, started was cute, then sexy, she started to be more open about how she used to party, i went full sex talk, ask her for walk
Few meters before my flat she asked about what I am looking for, i get honest answer about that I believe you we are not able to pick "what we looking for" and when you see you know. Open door to my building, she hesitates, really hesitates, i said no worry i can walk you out to your place but i kept it light and told her "it's just wine, we will talk, listen to music, of course i will hit on you but you are strong
bla bla bla -> we are naked, i ate her (i like it and have very good experiences), then went to fuck her -> "bla bla bla put on condom please"..ofc i am gentleman so i grab condom and BOOM -> my penis hit recession(very similar timing with Powel meeting..just sayin)
ok, no problem, kissing, hugging, she is doing me with hand, i am hard -> going for condom -> and BOOM, penis dead
ok no problem...etc. all together 4 FOOKIN TIMES
then we just hugging, i am whispering her nice things, spooning, kissing.I told her how sexy she is, It whole took cca 3 hours,(she also told me some compliments..) then i ordered her a uber, (not asking her go home, she told she is tired but also looked like she would maybe stay?,but it was very late..it was weird situation , i would be ok, actually i was hoping she would sleep but i think for first date it would be too much so when she told "i should go home" i told her i will call you uber) told her when you are at home text me (on tinder, still dont have number)
She texted me she is at her place, i said to her good night -> no response.
In the morning, i texted her how i enjoyed our time, how gorgeous she looks when she is naked and if she slept well.
Then she replied she slept very good, and also, thanks for yesterday, it was very nice
I know she is going for I believe 2 days out of city (possibly more).
Also, she was def not virgin, but also no hoe.
What is correct approach after bad sex?
Ask today/tomorrow for a number?
Or silence and ask her after cca 3 days for a nother date?
Where should be another date? A.g. cooking at my place? Or something low key? She likes minigolf and shit like that (i dont like things like this but not sure how she sees me now, during date i had feelings that she thinks I am player..but after bad sex)
Instinct is telling me to ask her for number, go off app and ask her for cooking at my place. But this happend to me once, cca 2 years ago, did not know about this site and after bad sex date it ended with nice msg from her, "it was nice but no for another meeting". (i did not have bad mood after bad sex even back then, but who know...vibes are vibes)
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