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Night game tips?

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Space Monkey
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Any suggestions at how to improve your night game as a beginner. I approach a lot now but I feel like it doesn't go anywhere and I don't even feel like I have a chance to make them go anywhere. Most of the girls are straight up cold or incredibly bitchy. I don't know if I should be pushing through this and if so how? Also any good suggestions for night game openers? I know the vibe is supposed to matter more and all that but it seems like everything I say is wrong haha. I don't know if I should be super direct in these situations or somehow indirect but I don't know how indirecting in night game would work. Anyway, any tips or stories to demonstrate would be much appreciated. Or just suggestions on what to do besides approach and talk.
 

Toby2030

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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There's a lot of small technicalities to opening, which can make it hard to give good feedback from a forum. However, when you open focus on projecting calm into her. Be loose, calm and smooth in your body language and voice. Hold strong eye contact, don't speak too fast, and try to make her read your face before you open. Always give energy and enjoy what you say, don't conflict with her vibe and NEVER be in an asking frame. Be a bit commanding or challenging when you open and try to minimize the compliance whatever you are doing requires. If you open from behind with an arms-length tap her on her shoulder - take a step back - and let her turn around. If you face each other try to get eye contact, and when you succeed to get that you open immediately, no matter the distance. Focus on this, and write back on here when you have tested it out.

What you say, don't really matter that much. If you focus on what I just wrote, you could open with anything and it will work.
 
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