Night game - what to improve

[Djsuave]

last saturday, i went to the city/clubs. I’ve spoken to a girl. I had my hand on her hips. We spoke a little, suddenly she goes to her friends and stays there for like a min. I concluded she ain’t really interested, and moved away. However, because i had my had on her hips and she didn’t move it, she was clearly interested. Anyways, i moved and saw her again at night, she was speaking to another guy. He took her number and what not. Later throughout the night, i see her again and she gives me a scared but “come to talk to me” look. I ignore that shit because wtf why would you walk away when i was speaking to you. Then simply walked away from the top floor where i saw her for the last time.

Reflecting at the situation, i see that i got over-sensitive when i come to conclusions. I was sober and i was treating people in the club like they were sober, when in reality they were drunk.

How would’ve you handled the situation if she looked at you like come approach me when she was with another guy?

 

[Licker]

Honestly, sometimes you can't control such situations. Clubs, especially the fancy ones are really bad for picking up anyway. The environment is pretty chaotic for seduction.

Night game numbers are also flaky as fuck. She might not even talk to that guy even if he messages or calls her in the morning.

Don't let it affect your confidence or ego. Let it roll over you like water in the shower.

For your specific question, if you want to establish some power dynamic and check her interest levels / get her to invest:

Just when she made eye contact with you, motion her over with your finger with a playful smile. If she comes, thats great. If not, shrug and zone out. If she doesn't hover within your vicinity within a few minutes, move on.

All this has to be done with a relaxed, open body language with a smile on your face. Like you don't give an absolute fuck. Absolute zen.

I’ve spoken to a girl. I had my hand on her hips.

Also, this is all assuming you weren't uncalibrated and just grabbed her ass straight away after talking to her

And remember one girl doesn't mean the end of the night. Another girl you talk to may make your night.

Chin up, smile and onto the next one.

 

[Skills]

last saturday, i went to the city/clubs. I’ve spoken to a girl. I had my hand on her hips. We spoke a little, suddenly she goes to her friends and stays there for like a min. I concluded she ain’t really interested, and moved away. However, because i had my had on her hips and she didn’t move it, she was clearly interested. Anyways, i moved and saw her again at night, she was speaking to another guy. He took her number and what not. Later throughout the night, i see her again and she gives me a scared but “come to talk to me” look. I ignore that shit because wtf why would you walk away when i was speaking to you. Then simply walked away from the top floor where i saw her for the last time.

Reflecting at the situation, i see that i got over-sensitive when i come to conclusions. I was sober and i was treating people in the club like they were sober, when in reality they were drunk.

How would’ve you handled the situation if she looked at you like come approach me when she was with another guy?

Cause you had your hand on the hips and she didn't move doesn't mean she is interested... Cause she leaves to talk to her friend depending on how she did it doesn't mean she is not interested.... You can always re approach... Hey you again!

Women not staying with you, going back to friends going to talk and flirt with other men, is normal

 

[Djsuave]

Cause you had your hand on the hips and she didn't move doesn't mean she is interested... Cause she leaves to talk to her friend depending on how she did it doesn't mean she is not interested.... You can always re approach... Hey you again!

Women not staying with you, going back to friends going to talk and flirt with other men, is normal

Sensational. Don’t rush to conclusions. i have a question chief.

1. How’d you approach her giving you eye contact while she is with another dude? Would you approach? Non-verbally signal to approach or simply reopen?

 

[Djsuave]

Honestly, sometimes you can't control such situations. Clubs, especially the fancy ones are really bad for picking up anyway. The environment is pretty chaotic for seduction.

Night game numbers are also flaky as fuck. She might not even talk to that guy even if he messages or calls her in the morning.

Don't let it affect your confidence or ego. Let it roll over you like water in the shower.

For your specific question, if you want to establish some power dynamic and check her interest levels / get her to invest:

Just when she made eye contact with you, motion her over with your finger with a playful smile. If she comes, thats great. If not, shrug and zone out. If she doesn't hover within your vicinity within a few minutes, move on.

All this has to be done with a relaxed, open body language with a smile on your face. Like you don't give an absolute fuck. Absolute zen.



Also, this is all assuming you weren't uncalibrated and just grabbed her ass straight away after talking to her

And remember one girl doesn't mean the end of the night. Another girl you talk to may make your night.

Chin up, smile and onto the next one.

Broo i really like the waving thing. Top GGGGG.

Not uncalibrated, didn’t grab her ass straight away, i had my hand on her hips.
Thank you for the motivation, i appreciate your stop by.

btw how’d you handle a girl you’re speaking with *you guys met at the club* being flirty with other dudes?

 

[Skills]

Sensational. Don’t rush to conclusions. i have a question chief.

1. How’d you approach her giving you eye contact while she is with another dude? Would you approach? Non-verbally signal to approach or simply reopen?

It depends if she is giving you eye contact or what we call approach invitations... You can go in and tell the dude, hey that is my friend she is one of the fill in the blank________ coolest or best dancer, or more real (a positive attribute) girl at the club... Is just to re open and gauge reactions.... Or some community guys like to fuck around like you guys make a great couple, or you guys look good together etc .. again is to gauge.... I personally when they go to other dudes i just open other girls or groups or wait till she is done with the guy or she is a bit separated from dude... but all of the different options depends on what is the situation.... I specifically talking about your scenario...a lot of guy and girl sets doesn't mean much sometimes is a gay dude, or brother or friend, or orbiter...

There are a lot of gay guys that is hard to tell they are gay... No all gays are the flamboyant type...

 

[Skills]

Broo i really like the waving thing. Top GGGGG.

Not uncalibrated, didn’t grab her ass straight away, i had my hand on her hips.
Thank you for the motivation, i appreciate your stop by.

btw how’d you handle a girl you’re speaking with *you guys met at the club* being flirty with other dudes?

He said to motion over with finger, i am not a fan of that, cause if she doesn't come your value went to shit if people around saw that.. But a wave to gauge reaction may work when she is looking at you...

 

[Licker]

He said to motion over with finger, i am not a fan of that, cause if she doesn't come your value went to shit if people around saw that.. But a wave to gauge reaction may work when she is looking at you...

Great point!

OP, you want to calibrate to the situation. You can safely use this if you are in a crowd, and it's just you and her making eye-contact and people are just dancing along, minding their own business.

If you are in a conspicious area, you can motion her over with a wave as @Skills suggested, or even with eye-contact tricks.
Look at her and then towards by your side, inviting her to come stand beside you, with a minor head movement to showcase the emotion with warmth and seductiveness.