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The night is going well. The rain forecast from earlier in the day has disappeared, and with it, I can see the moon shining down upon us, bright and luminous among its twinkling siblings. I'm feeling in a astrological mood, and I desire to show Miami what real style is. I dress up in all black: black chelseas, black slim fit jeans, black shirt, and one white blazer, embroidered with moons, starts, and astrological symbols. On one hand I wear a ring inlaid with my birthstone, on the other yet another black accessory with a hint of silver.
I look amazing.
The night has been going well so far. A couple of dudes have complimented my blazer, I've isolated some sets, set up sexual intros if not full on sex talk yet. Girls are opening up to me, and I can feel something that has been lacking for so long return to me. Social momentum-at long last, coming back to my fingertips. I felt hints the night before, when I mesmerized a trio of gorgeous girls and almost got invited to a club with them. I felt it earlier in the night when I hooked a sister-sister two set.
A combination of mass-approaching, body rocking, meditation, and body oriented therapy continue to improve my internal state. Changing my internal -> external feedback loop has been great, but it's nice to see the external -> internal feedback loop start to play a part too.
Anyway, to the approach. I see two girls standing in front of a fan. I walk by them, and pause to enjoy the fan. Then turning only my neck, I open by saying how nice the fan feels and how this might be the best spot in the venue. The girl doesn't give a really strong reply, saying something about how it depends on the angle of the fan and that it can blow hair the wrong way. I nod, make a comment, and then leave without giving the girl the chance to reject.
I wander around the bar, doing some more approaches. I think I hooked/isolated two girls after the initial walk-off.
Towards the end of the night, as we near last call, I'm walking by, and the same girl (HBRedFlags) who initially didn't respond to my opener, re-opens me, complimenting my blazer, my look, and just about everything involving me. I'm puzzled, but grateful, and start deep diving her, and building rapport. I isolate, and we go to grab some water from the bar. While talking, she drops a huge number of red flags. That, combined with her rapidly more apparent inebriated state, makes me less and less inclined to go for her. While we're waiting, a friend of hers (HBIdol) introduces some weird (to me) looking guy to HBRedFlags. They start talking, and honestly they seem like they're vibing. I'm in a curious state to see where this will go, so I stay in set, but go pick us up some water while they hit it off. Then a third friend shows up (I seem to have a knack for the third friend always being the hottest). Let's call her HBDesignatedDriver.
HBDesignatedDriver is very much my type. She does remind me of an old RA I had in college who I had a small crush on, though much more attractive. I start talking to her, and this is much more fun. The vibe feels more sexual, and I use what is becoming my go to bridge into the good sex gambit and seducing men vs women gambit.
HBDesignatedDriver eats this up. I can sense her interest in me skyrocketing. And HBRedFlags is so far gone that I don't really think she cares who she hooks up with tonight. HBDesignatedDriver suggests the 4 of us (me, her, HBRedFlags, and the HBIdol introduced to HBRedFlags) go sit at a table. Me and her go and sit down, but the other two just stay where they are, delirious as ever.
HBDesignatedDriver is fully facing me, all attention on me. I bring up another SOT, this one about different kinds of people. I talk about how creepy people will touch inappropriately, get too close, while some people have this instantaneous connection. And last I bring up those people with whom you have fiery connections with, whose touch makes you excited and passionate, whose presence makes your face flush.
At this point, the three girls realize they want to go to a club nearby. Surrounding HBIdol, and HBRedFlags are a group of like 5 guys. One is HBIdol's hookup, one is the introduced dude to HBRedFlags. Since HBDesignatedDriver hasn't been drinking, she immediately says I'm coming with them (after first inviting me along). So I sit in the front, while the other set of four cram into the back seat. It's interesting, as the four of them are all making out hard in the back, and it seems like they are all okay with each other hooking up. But, HBDesignatedDriver has to be up at 9AM, and it's 3AM already. She also is the ride for HBRedFlags, and HBRedFlags has left stuff in the car of HBDesignatedDriver, which means we have to wait for them to leave before we could.
We go into the club, HBDesignatedDriver just making sure her friends come in, or head home, and then spending the rest of the time dancing with me. We do make out once, but I don't want this to go that way, because I want to avoid kissing and missing the lay. I still should have been more disciplined though.
It is kind of cute, this super attractive girl all over me, I can see other guys looking at her. Nice to feel on the other side.
But... when we leave, I do try suggesting coming to mine, but she needs to drop off her friend... 40 minutes away... at 4AM. HBDesignatedDriver is kind enough to save me an Uber and just drop me home, but I wonder.
As we were leaving the club, she asked where I was headed. Perhaps I could have hinted at going to her place and having a nightcap there. I think the attempt is what I should have done. HBRedFlags and her dude were literally just grabbing a ride to HBDesignatedDrivers, just to call an uber from there to HBRedFlags.
Ugh, lessons learned there. On the same note, from talking to some Tribal Elders, I think I need to work on logistical screening to have successful pulls with good logistics girls.
I did grab the number, but I texted earlier today and no reply. Might be superbowl issues, might be pre-valentines day issues. Honestly a bummer, but so many ways I grew from last night all the same.
To the next adventure!
I look amazing.
The night has been going well so far. A couple of dudes have complimented my blazer, I've isolated some sets, set up sexual intros if not full on sex talk yet. Girls are opening up to me, and I can feel something that has been lacking for so long return to me. Social momentum-at long last, coming back to my fingertips. I felt hints the night before, when I mesmerized a trio of gorgeous girls and almost got invited to a club with them. I felt it earlier in the night when I hooked a sister-sister two set.
A combination of mass-approaching, body rocking, meditation, and body oriented therapy continue to improve my internal state. Changing my internal -> external feedback loop has been great, but it's nice to see the external -> internal feedback loop start to play a part too.
Anyway, to the approach. I see two girls standing in front of a fan. I walk by them, and pause to enjoy the fan. Then turning only my neck, I open by saying how nice the fan feels and how this might be the best spot in the venue. The girl doesn't give a really strong reply, saying something about how it depends on the angle of the fan and that it can blow hair the wrong way. I nod, make a comment, and then leave without giving the girl the chance to reject.
I wander around the bar, doing some more approaches. I think I hooked/isolated two girls after the initial walk-off.
Towards the end of the night, as we near last call, I'm walking by, and the same girl (HBRedFlags) who initially didn't respond to my opener, re-opens me, complimenting my blazer, my look, and just about everything involving me. I'm puzzled, but grateful, and start deep diving her, and building rapport. I isolate, and we go to grab some water from the bar. While talking, she drops a huge number of red flags. That, combined with her rapidly more apparent inebriated state, makes me less and less inclined to go for her. While we're waiting, a friend of hers (HBIdol) introduces some weird (to me) looking guy to HBRedFlags. They start talking, and honestly they seem like they're vibing. I'm in a curious state to see where this will go, so I stay in set, but go pick us up some water while they hit it off. Then a third friend shows up (I seem to have a knack for the third friend always being the hottest). Let's call her HBDesignatedDriver.
HBDesignatedDriver is very much my type. She does remind me of an old RA I had in college who I had a small crush on, though much more attractive. I start talking to her, and this is much more fun. The vibe feels more sexual, and I use what is becoming my go to bridge into the good sex gambit and seducing men vs women gambit.
Me: I'm curious, between here and where you're from, have you noticed any differences between how people date, and meet people they're interested in?
Her: Yeah, Miami does feel a little bit shallow and hook-upy in that way
Me: I totally get that. I've talked to a lot of guys here, and it's like, as soon as they see how a girl looks, they immediately start imagining her naked and fucking her
Her: So true
Me: It's honestly pathetic how much guys think about just sex
Her: I guess it's natural though
Me: I'm not so sure, for me, I'm not interested in just sex
Her: Yeah, it's more about connection and emotions
Me: Well... kind of-I'm not interested in sex... what I'm interested in... is GOOD sex
Her: Haha, I get that
Me: Like, I've talked to a lot of my girl friends back home, and they've all talked about how they've hooked up with guys, where honestly, it's basically just thrusting and the guy engaging in the exercise of getting himself off
Her: <nodding along in agreement>
Me: Now with me <linkage phrase> I care about the vibe between me and this person, how this person's body moves, how their breath flows through their body... how this person looks at you in a way that excites and arouses your passions
Her: <getting transfixed> totally
Me: Honestly it's crazy, like some guys really don't understand woman
<At this point red flags girl comes back and sits next to us, but not between us>
Me: Do you know how you seduce a guy?
Them: No
Me: Well... you touch their dick
Them: Sure
Me: But girls a bit different
Them: Totally
Me: Do you know how one would seduce a girl?
Them: No
Me: Well... you touch them... anywhere except their pussy
Them: Burst into laughter and delight
Me: It's about the anticipation, and letting it build, and build, and build within you
Her: Yeah, Miami does feel a little bit shallow and hook-upy in that way
Me: I totally get that. I've talked to a lot of guys here, and it's like, as soon as they see how a girl looks, they immediately start imagining her naked and fucking her
Her: So true
Me: It's honestly pathetic how much guys think about just sex
Her: I guess it's natural though
Me: I'm not so sure, for me, I'm not interested in just sex
Her: Yeah, it's more about connection and emotions
Me: Well... kind of-I'm not interested in sex... what I'm interested in... is GOOD sex
Her: Haha, I get that
Me: Like, I've talked to a lot of my girl friends back home, and they've all talked about how they've hooked up with guys, where honestly, it's basically just thrusting and the guy engaging in the exercise of getting himself off
Her: <nodding along in agreement>
Me: Now with me <linkage phrase> I care about the vibe between me and this person, how this person's body moves, how their breath flows through their body... how this person looks at you in a way that excites and arouses your passions
Her: <getting transfixed> totally
Me: Honestly it's crazy, like some guys really don't understand woman
<At this point red flags girl comes back and sits next to us, but not between us>
Me: Do you know how you seduce a guy?
Them: No
Me: Well... you touch their dick
Them: Sure
Me: But girls a bit different
Them: Totally
Me: Do you know how one would seduce a girl?
Them: No
Me: Well... you touch them... anywhere except their pussy
Them: Burst into laughter and delight
Me: It's about the anticipation, and letting it build, and build, and build within you
HBDesignatedDriver eats this up. I can sense her interest in me skyrocketing. And HBRedFlags is so far gone that I don't really think she cares who she hooks up with tonight. HBDesignatedDriver suggests the 4 of us (me, her, HBRedFlags, and the HBIdol introduced to HBRedFlags) go sit at a table. Me and her go and sit down, but the other two just stay where they are, delirious as ever.
HBDesignatedDriver is fully facing me, all attention on me. I bring up another SOT, this one about different kinds of people. I talk about how creepy people will touch inappropriately, get too close, while some people have this instantaneous connection. And last I bring up those people with whom you have fiery connections with, whose touch makes you excited and passionate, whose presence makes your face flush.
At this point, the three girls realize they want to go to a club nearby. Surrounding HBIdol, and HBRedFlags are a group of like 5 guys. One is HBIdol's hookup, one is the introduced dude to HBRedFlags. Since HBDesignatedDriver hasn't been drinking, she immediately says I'm coming with them (after first inviting me along). So I sit in the front, while the other set of four cram into the back seat. It's interesting, as the four of them are all making out hard in the back, and it seems like they are all okay with each other hooking up. But, HBDesignatedDriver has to be up at 9AM, and it's 3AM already. She also is the ride for HBRedFlags, and HBRedFlags has left stuff in the car of HBDesignatedDriver, which means we have to wait for them to leave before we could.
We go into the club, HBDesignatedDriver just making sure her friends come in, or head home, and then spending the rest of the time dancing with me. We do make out once, but I don't want this to go that way, because I want to avoid kissing and missing the lay. I still should have been more disciplined though.
It is kind of cute, this super attractive girl all over me, I can see other guys looking at her. Nice to feel on the other side.
But... when we leave, I do try suggesting coming to mine, but she needs to drop off her friend... 40 minutes away... at 4AM. HBDesignatedDriver is kind enough to save me an Uber and just drop me home, but I wonder.
As we were leaving the club, she asked where I was headed. Perhaps I could have hinted at going to her place and having a nightcap there. I think the attempt is what I should have done. HBRedFlags and her dude were literally just grabbing a ride to HBDesignatedDrivers, just to call an uber from there to HBRedFlags.
Ugh, lessons learned there. On the same note, from talking to some Tribal Elders, I think I need to work on logistical screening to have successful pulls with good logistics girls.
I did grab the number, but I texted earlier today and no reply. Might be superbowl issues, might be pre-valentines day issues. Honestly a bummer, but so many ways I grew from last night all the same.
To the next adventure!
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