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I feel like I cant ever do a deep dive and connect emotionally. Like I get repartee and push pull, chase frames and I can do them and be fun and entertaining. Recently I also learnt how to express myself emotionally (example at bottom), but I have problems getting her to connect with me.
Expressing emotions
For example if I were to describe my ukulele group, I would previously have said, it was a fun experience learning how to play the ukulele with my group. Now I would say it was a crazy experience, I had literally zero music background so I was really nervous when I met my group as they were all experienced players. But I was totally blown away when I met them, because they were really nice and ...
P.S. My entire encounters for today
Girl 1 and 2, I was pre-gaming by asking for directions
Girl 3 and 4 was the first 2 set that I have done
Girl 5 sitting on steps (This was the longest conversation this outing)
I went over to sit beside her
Me: Hi, do you know where xxx is?
Her: I am not too sure also I am not from here.
Me: Actually I just saw you sitting here and I really liked your big eyes. My name's xxx
I extended my arm and shook hers
Her: My name's jw
Me: Oh wow isnt that the name of the city in Malaysia
Her: My name's jw not jb
Me: Anyway thanks for waiting for me. Sorry the train was late and I made you wait for like 1 hr (Chase framing, I just met her today)
Her: It's okay I am waiting for my friends here.
Me: Oh so you are not from around here?
Her: Yeah I am from Malaysia. I am on holiday
Me: Nice, how long are you staying for?
Her: My 2nd last day here, I am going back tomorrow. Where do you stay?
Me: I'm all the way at the east side you know Bedok?
Her: Dont know (confused look) Is it like clementi
Me: Yup but on the other side. Where are you staying at?
Her: Admirality
Me: Wow that like so far away. How long did u even take to come here
Her: Yeah, very far
Me: So you prefer Malaysia or Singapore? (We are in Singapore)
Her: Singapore
Me: Thats interesting, but why Singapore and not your home country after you spend so much time there.
Her: I like the city area
Me: So you prefer like city instead of like the rural areas and thats why you come here.
Her: Yeah
(short pause)
Me: Are you working or studying?
Her: Studying
Me: So you are in university?
Her: Nope erm I am in like high school
Me: Thats cool, what hobbies do u like?
Her: I play musical instruments, like piano, guitar. How about you do you play music?
Me: Yeah abit of piano when I was younger and even my ukulele haha. I showed her my phone with a picture of me playing my ukulele.
Her: (nods)
(short pause)
Me: Let me add you on my phone. Do you have a Singapore number?
Her: Nope, I only have Malaysian one.
Me: Telegram?
We exchanged numbers. Then I did something silly
Me: Oh wait let me rmb you name. ah crap I forgot
Her: My name's jw
Me: What does it stand for?
She hesitates and pauses and refuses to say.
I continued chatting with her for a couple of minutes, then I said I was going to walk over there because it was cooler. She wanted to continue waiting for her friend. So I just stood and left her.
Expressing emotions
For example if I were to describe my ukulele group, I would previously have said, it was a fun experience learning how to play the ukulele with my group. Now I would say it was a crazy experience, I had literally zero music background so I was really nervous when I met my group as they were all experienced players. But I was totally blown away when I met them, because they were really nice and ...
P.S. My entire encounters for today
Girl 1 and 2, I was pre-gaming by asking for directions
Girl 3 and 4 was the first 2 set that I have done
Girl 5 sitting on steps (This was the longest conversation this outing)
I went over to sit beside her
Me: Hi, do you know where xxx is?
Her: I am not too sure also I am not from here.
Me: Actually I just saw you sitting here and I really liked your big eyes. My name's xxx
I extended my arm and shook hers
Her: My name's jw
Me: Oh wow isnt that the name of the city in Malaysia
Her: My name's jw not jb
Me: Anyway thanks for waiting for me. Sorry the train was late and I made you wait for like 1 hr (Chase framing, I just met her today)
Her: It's okay I am waiting for my friends here.
Me: Oh so you are not from around here?
Her: Yeah I am from Malaysia. I am on holiday
Me: Nice, how long are you staying for?
Her: My 2nd last day here, I am going back tomorrow. Where do you stay?
Me: I'm all the way at the east side you know Bedok?
Her: Dont know (confused look) Is it like clementi
Me: Yup but on the other side. Where are you staying at?
Her: Admirality
Me: Wow that like so far away. How long did u even take to come here
Her: Yeah, very far
Me: So you prefer Malaysia or Singapore? (We are in Singapore)
Her: Singapore
Me: Thats interesting, but why Singapore and not your home country after you spend so much time there.
Her: I like the city area
Me: So you prefer like city instead of like the rural areas and thats why you come here.
Her: Yeah
(short pause)
Me: Are you working or studying?
Her: Studying
Me: So you are in university?
Her: Nope erm I am in like high school
Me: Thats cool, what hobbies do u like?
Her: I play musical instruments, like piano, guitar. How about you do you play music?
Me: Yeah abit of piano when I was younger and even my ukulele haha. I showed her my phone with a picture of me playing my ukulele.
Her: (nods)
(short pause)
Me: Let me add you on my phone. Do you have a Singapore number?
Her: Nope, I only have Malaysian one.
Me: Telegram?
We exchanged numbers. Then I did something silly
Me: Oh wait let me rmb you name. ah crap I forgot
Her: My name's jw
Me: What does it stand for?
She hesitates and pauses and refuses to say.
I continued chatting with her for a couple of minutes, then I said I was going to walk over there because it was cooler. She wanted to continue waiting for her friend. So I just stood and left her.