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Transforming myself from a timid, confident, and miserable AFC to a man I can actually stand to look at in the mirror is going to be a difficult and painful journey, but going back to the person I used to be is not an option, and so, there truly is No Way Back
I burnt out quickly and lost all motivation and confidence. 7-8 hours every Saturday and Sunday waling around only making a few (very bad) approaches. Having near panic attacks at clubs trying to approach while becoming accustomed to a new environment; not to mention how unforgiving club sets can be.
And to end it all, I got into a needy, onitis relationship with a girl (hot as fuck at least) that lived an hour away from me and had suite of issues that any self respecting man would absolutely not tolerate.
And so I decided to take a break from game (I quit)
Slow, methodical, focused, planned, reviewed, and recorded progress is how I plan to do things now.
It was a failure but at least I fucking did something.
Excuse the quality as I get a better recording method figured out (Turn down the volume)
Why Desperation Made Me Quit Game
I started learning game and going out about 6 months ago. I was so desperate to change and change fast that my plan was to brute force it- Daygame: Go out to the streets, mall, events and approach as many girls as possible
- Nightgame: Go to clubs, talk to everyone, approach everyone
- If I have resistance to doing something, I must do it
I burnt out quickly and lost all motivation and confidence. 7-8 hours every Saturday and Sunday waling around only making a few (very bad) approaches. Having near panic attacks at clubs trying to approach while becoming accustomed to a new environment; not to mention how unforgiving club sets can be.
And to end it all, I got into a needy, onitis relationship with a girl (hot as fuck at least) that lived an hour away from me and had suite of issues that any self respecting man would absolutely not tolerate.
And so I decided to take a break from game (I quit)
No Way Back
Why should I go about learning game any differently than other skills? Computer Programming, Guitar, Math, FBI Interrogator, etc...Slow, methodical, focused, planned, reviewed, and recorded progress is how I plan to do things now.
- Always go out with a homework assignment or some aspect of game to improve
- Books, books, books. Reading is good for the mind, and the Game
- Record my day and night game set's for accountability and as a record
- Develop myself outside of game (Gym, instrument, dance, hobbies)
First Steps
- Start from scratch with the 14 Day Newbie Assignment
- Sign up for a dance class
Bonus: First Infield Recording
Recorded this coming back from a dance class on Sunday. I decided fuck it and stopped by a bar real quick to do 1 approach.It was a failure but at least I fucking did something.
Excuse the quality as I get a better recording method figured out (Turn down the volume)
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