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This is month three of trying to pin this down.
{1} short kiss after meeting at night - would announce beforehand that she often forgets to respond to messages. Would respond, we would even meet quickly at a bar she was at with a friend, but at some point she would stop to respond altogether. Never got to a 1:1 date.
{2} would not confirm a point of encounter and time, would announce to be (very) late on second attempt for a meet - so I’d cancel. In chat she would insist on asking my job, insist on getting to know me better there, then - understandably - block me for a comment I made.
{3} would not respond to my messages at all, which is strange because her three friends were all interested in me, which should create all the amount of pre-selection required.
{4} would not visit me in my city (even though girls love this city), saying if she happens to go there with a friend we could meet. Ended up visiting her instead. Kissed at the end of the date. Would still not take me up on the next invite to visit in my city, because she’s "not going to stay at someones place who she only just met on one single date".
{5} would be eager to set up a date, offering various specific choices. Had slept with her once, three years ago. The day before the date would ask me how long I’d be staying, then insist on an answer when I didn’t give one right away and then cancel the moment I gave it.
{6} was a same-night lay. Now that I think about it, later chatting in bed she mentioned that at one point (before we talked) she felt intimidated. At that point I was like three steps away on the dance floor merely facing her direction.
{7} would excitedly respond to my short icebreaker ("loved to meet you last night") with Same !!! How are you? and then stop responding.
{8} would respond to my short icebreaker with Same ! then stop to respond.
This is in a location where I’d be very successful up until three years ago and girls would be quite eager to meet.
Having this post in front of me written out now, I start to get the feeling that the girls are afraid?!
The one that bugs me the most is {7}, because of how well she responded in person. She was quick to pull out her phone and grab my Instagram (just like {1} actually), responded with a question to the icebreaker, then went cold.
Something is off.
{1} short kiss after meeting at night - would announce beforehand that she often forgets to respond to messages. Would respond, we would even meet quickly at a bar she was at with a friend, but at some point she would stop to respond altogether. Never got to a 1:1 date.
{2} would not confirm a point of encounter and time, would announce to be (very) late on second attempt for a meet - so I’d cancel. In chat she would insist on asking my job, insist on getting to know me better there, then - understandably - block me for a comment I made.
{3} would not respond to my messages at all, which is strange because her three friends were all interested in me, which should create all the amount of pre-selection required.
{4} would not visit me in my city (even though girls love this city), saying if she happens to go there with a friend we could meet. Ended up visiting her instead. Kissed at the end of the date. Would still not take me up on the next invite to visit in my city, because she’s "not going to stay at someones place who she only just met on one single date".
{5} would be eager to set up a date, offering various specific choices. Had slept with her once, three years ago. The day before the date would ask me how long I’d be staying, then insist on an answer when I didn’t give one right away and then cancel the moment I gave it.
{6} was a same-night lay. Now that I think about it, later chatting in bed she mentioned that at one point (before we talked) she felt intimidated. At that point I was like three steps away on the dance floor merely facing her direction.
{7} would excitedly respond to my short icebreaker ("loved to meet you last night") with Same !!! How are you? and then stop responding.
{8} would respond to my short icebreaker with Same ! then stop to respond.
This is in a location where I’d be very successful up until three years ago and girls would be quite eager to meet.
Having this post in front of me written out now, I start to get the feeling that the girls are afraid?!
The one that bugs me the most is {7}, because of how well she responded in person. She was quick to pull out her phone and grab my Instagram (just like {1} actually), responded with a question to the icebreaker, then went cold.
Something is off.
