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Not responding to my sms a day after she gave me a number. Anything I could do?

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Space Monkey
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Hello. Yesterday I met a woman in a restaurant during lunchbreak, around 5 years older than me (I'm 30). I was sitting alone, she came right after me and immediately went to talk about something to a waitress. After that she turned around and without hesitation came to me and asked if she can sit down. There was not any completely free table, but the straightforwardness of her behavior, how fast she decided where to sit amazed me a little bit. After some time, just to interrupt the silence, I said something about the soup. She seemed to be open and talkative, so we did some small smalltalk :) about the food or work. She works as a clerk, accountant or something like that. And she looks professional, you now what I mean, the fine line between to be attractive but not too sexy. Since she seemed to enjoy the company, at the end after I paid my bill I suggestet her to give me a number so we can try that new cafeteria. She showed some subtle signs of embarassment but gave me the number without any problem or hesitation.

It was all very simple and lovely. So today I sent her an SMS, something like "Hi, we met yesterday in a restaurant. My name's Tomas". But she's not responding. I'd like to ask you guys what do you think about this woman and is there something that could be done in order to get a reaction from her?
 

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Re: Not responding to my sms a day after she gave me a number. Anything I could

She already responded saying sorry, im not fit today and that they had a visit yesterday. And also mentioned that she wants to live in warmer countries. In order to not chasing her I just replied that I am also not fit (even if I am :) ) Now what?
 

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Re: Not responding to my sms a day after she gave me a number. Anything I could

Relax my man. You're overthinking it, and that's the easiest way to mess things up.
I suggest you build some rapport over the text but keep it light. Then of course we do the only thing to do move it forward with reckless abandon and see were it goes.
Its important that you don't get too hooked to soon on her so tomorrow go out and meet more beautiful women and it wont be so intimidating anymore.

Hold nothing back

Kyle Stones
 
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Space Monkey
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Re: Not responding to my sms a day after she gave me a number. Anything I could

I already am relaxed, but thanks :). I just cannot decide what approach to choose. Do you think I should be direct and suggest a date as soon as possible or should I do some smalltalk before the invitation? :)
 

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Re: Not responding to my sms a day after she gave me a number. Anything I could

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Since you already made plans to meet up again when you first met there would be no problem being direct about it. If you feel small talk would would not hamper your end goal then go for it. However by gauging her response time to your messages she may be busy, and in that case you have only one option.
All the best!

Kyle Stones
 
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