not responding to text

[MattB]

How long should you generally wait before messaging a girl who doesn't respond to your last message about going out sometime?

 

[Flames]

Indefinately.

 

[MattB]

What if I made out with that same girl the night before she stopped texting

 

[trashKENNUT]

MattB,

What if I made out with that same girl the night before she stopped texting

Guess she wanted more than just "made out". She went into auto-rejection. It's not really possible to get her out now though.

Zac

 

[MattB]

She did want more than to make out, but unfortunately we didn't do anything because of how she 'doesn't do casual sex'.

 

[trashKENNUT]

She did want more than to make out, but unfortunately we didn't do anything because of how she 'doesn't do casual sex'.

I guess you really miss out on this one. She mentioning she 'doesn't do casual sex' was just a shit test to ask you to persist her and aroused her more prior to sex.

Zac

 

[Garrett]

MattB,

Zac has a solid point here. Honestly though, I don't think you need to just give up then and there. If the girl doesn't respond, give her a day of radio silence (don't contact her), then try again. The next time you get her out though, you really ought to persist because if you did the last time, she would have eventually given in! The thing is, now that it's the second date, it's going to be a lot harder to have sex with her, but it's still possible! Get her out and be persistent and hope for the best! If you've got an abundance of girls around, then I wouldn't bother, but if she's the only girl you're seeing or 1 of a few then I suggest take the shot! Even if it fails miserably you'll gain more knowledge to use for next time!

Cheers,
Garrett

 

[MattB]

Thanks for all the advice guys. Its been close to 48 hours of not hearing from her so i think Ill try talking to her again tonight.

 

[Garrett]

MattB,

Don't talk much, just text her with the PURPOSE of geting her out and seeing you. Let us know how it goes!

Garrett

 

[MattB]

So I talked to her and I'm seeing her tomorrow. Crisis averted

 

[Tyme2k]

Great job, you should post the text convo so people can see a resurrection.