Went on a date at Starbucks at night. Girl arrived on time, so I said to her I like her punctuality. We proceed to buy drinks at counter. After ordering, girl ask if it's okay for her to pay. I think why not, good to let her invest a bit, so I let her pay our drink while saying I can treat her ice cream next time. We then sit side by side and start chatting.
This girl just recently attended college graduation and will be staying here until end of month, before flying back to her home country. After chatting about how her graduation and study life, I asked her how many guys she been with before, she say been with one bf for 4 years, and some others guys who she just dated in non-serious relationship. After talking about that, I commented that she dye her hair, while touching her hair. She said it's for graduation. I can sense girl want to move her head away, but nevertheless I still proceed to touch her hair.
After talking about sports, I moved conversation to sexual topics. I mention that society is not fair to girls because girls have to act innocent when comes to sex. The girl then said she is someone who holds traditional value and don't have sex until marriage. I asked if she had sex with her ex-boyfriend but she said no, I asked what about those you dated, she also say no sex before. Seeing that girl doesn't enter my frame, I challenge the girl, by asking what's the reason she holds this traditional value. She say no reason, just her style. I then tried to reframe, by saying it's better to have sex before marriage. She asked why. I said sexual compatibility is important, that's why need to have sex to know if she is suitable, other that mental or spiritual compatibility etc, just like when you are buying something, you will consider the full package whether it is suitable for you or not. She said she didn't think about sexual compatibility. I said no way, are you not interested in guys or you lesbian (in a teasing way). She laugh and say no, just that she didn't think about it. Since she didn't enter my sexual frame, I find it risky to ask about things like orgasm etc. I also asked if she didn't have sexual urges, she say she didn't think again. I moved to normal conversation, while saying her face is chubby and touching her face, she kinda wanted to back off but I proceed to touch it.
After an hour, I said let's go to hill to see view. She said okay, she just follow me. I drive to the hill. There was one section where it was a bit dark. She said she is a bit nervous because scared of dark. I said don't worry I am here, while touching her hand. I parked my car, and we walked around that place. I tried hold her hands but felt she is uncomfortable. I back off and chatted a bit, then tried holding her hands second time. She didn't resist, so I hold her hands while to walk back to my car.
I say let's go to a garden nearby my condo (the garden is actually at my condo). She said okay. While driving, I asked if she would like to see me again next time, to test how my date performance was going that night. She said yes no problem. I parked my car, and hold her hand while we walk to my condo to visit the garden. I showed her the garden and chatted a while. I mentioned that her eyes are cute. I noticed she didn't hold eye contact very long, only for a second. I said why you don't hold eye contact being so shy, shy said she is shy and introvert in front of stranger. At this point, I am not sure if it's okay to bring her back to my place, so I asked her if she would like to hang out at my place and chat. She said no need, she can just chat at the garden, so I didn't bring her to my place since she didn't agree, might not able to close that night.
I decided to call it a night, so we walked back to my car so I fetch her back to her place. When holding her hand, I notice her palm is very sweaty. I teased her why your palm so sweaty, are you nervous. She said she not sure while laughing. We chatted while I was driving. I asked which part she found attractive in a guy, she said it depends as long not too fat or skinny. I then asked which part she find attractive in me, she said my height, since she sometimes wear high heel. She then asked which part I like about girls, I said butt and boobs. She laugh, saying I am so directly honest. I said she has a thick lips, I like thick lips since more 'feel' when kissing. I asked if she is good kisser. She laughed in a shy way. Before she step out of my car, I asked her to take off her mask (try to kiss her), but she refused a while. She said if I unlock the car door only then she will take off her mask, I said you do it first. After a while, she finally take off her mask, I tried go for kiss but she refused. She reject in a shy manner. She stepped out of car and say goodbye.
This girl just recently attended college graduation and will be staying here until end of month, before flying back to her home country. After chatting about how her graduation and study life, I asked her how many guys she been with before, she say been with one bf for 4 years, and some others guys who she just dated in non-serious relationship. After talking about that, I commented that she dye her hair, while touching her hair. She said it's for graduation. I can sense girl want to move her head away, but nevertheless I still proceed to touch her hair.
After talking about sports, I moved conversation to sexual topics. I mention that society is not fair to girls because girls have to act innocent when comes to sex. The girl then said she is someone who holds traditional value and don't have sex until marriage. I asked if she had sex with her ex-boyfriend but she said no, I asked what about those you dated, she also say no sex before. Seeing that girl doesn't enter my frame, I challenge the girl, by asking what's the reason she holds this traditional value. She say no reason, just her style. I then tried to reframe, by saying it's better to have sex before marriage. She asked why. I said sexual compatibility is important, that's why need to have sex to know if she is suitable, other that mental or spiritual compatibility etc, just like when you are buying something, you will consider the full package whether it is suitable for you or not. She said she didn't think about sexual compatibility. I said no way, are you not interested in guys or you lesbian (in a teasing way). She laugh and say no, just that she didn't think about it. Since she didn't enter my sexual frame, I find it risky to ask about things like orgasm etc. I also asked if she didn't have sexual urges, she say she didn't think again. I moved to normal conversation, while saying her face is chubby and touching her face, she kinda wanted to back off but I proceed to touch it.
After an hour, I said let's go to hill to see view. She said okay, she just follow me. I drive to the hill. There was one section where it was a bit dark. She said she is a bit nervous because scared of dark. I said don't worry I am here, while touching her hand. I parked my car, and we walked around that place. I tried hold her hands but felt she is uncomfortable. I back off and chatted a bit, then tried holding her hands second time. She didn't resist, so I hold her hands while to walk back to my car.
I say let's go to a garden nearby my condo (the garden is actually at my condo). She said okay. While driving, I asked if she would like to see me again next time, to test how my date performance was going that night. She said yes no problem. I parked my car, and hold her hand while we walk to my condo to visit the garden. I showed her the garden and chatted a while. I mentioned that her eyes are cute. I noticed she didn't hold eye contact very long, only for a second. I said why you don't hold eye contact being so shy, shy said she is shy and introvert in front of stranger. At this point, I am not sure if it's okay to bring her back to my place, so I asked her if she would like to hang out at my place and chat. She said no need, she can just chat at the garden, so I didn't bring her to my place since she didn't agree, might not able to close that night.
I decided to call it a night, so we walked back to my car so I fetch her back to her place. When holding her hand, I notice her palm is very sweaty. I teased her why your palm so sweaty, are you nervous. She said she not sure while laughing. We chatted while I was driving. I asked which part she found attractive in a guy, she said it depends as long not too fat or skinny. I then asked which part she find attractive in me, she said my height, since she sometimes wear high heel. She then asked which part I like about girls, I said butt and boobs. She laugh, saying I am so directly honest. I said she has a thick lips, I like thick lips since more 'feel' when kissing. I asked if she is good kisser. She laughed in a shy way. Before she step out of my car, I asked her to take off her mask (try to kiss her), but she refused a while. She said if I unlock the car door only then she will take off her mask, I said you do it first. After a while, she finally take off her mask, I tried go for kiss but she refused. She reject in a shy manner. She stepped out of car and say goodbye.
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