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Dash

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Crew,

After a fun night of going solo on the town (got some progress with a girl I'd met about a month back; met a new girl, no number) I roll back to mine, a bit buzzed, going over how I did and what I should have done differently.

I get the munchies and decide to hit a pizza place that's close by. I've been going to this restaurant semi-regularly the past couple months.

The girl at the counter seems to recognize me. I suspect I ordered from her before but can't recall anything. She's a young asian girl, petite, cute... a bit book-ish.

I order and stick around as my slice is getting warmed up. I start flirting a bit with the girl... working my older dude game (at least ten years age difference). She goes to a local college, also lives in the area, etc. Then she says something like "Oh, you live close by, right?"

I shoot back - "You keeping track of me?" She blushes, gets a bit flustered.

Immediately I say "Give me your number." She tells me to give up mine.

"No, give me your's."

Bam. Writes it on a piece of paper with her name.

The shop owners roll back and I ease back on the flirt, grab my slice, and leave.

I give it about ten minutes then text her "Nice to meet you :)" Forgot to add my name.

She texts back and I figure on standing pat until later in the week... or just put the experience down to practice.

Then I thought... fuck it. She's a block away, gave me her number on demand, maybe I can get her to come over when she's done (this was around 1:30... place closes at two).

So I sent her a couple texts to see if she would come over. Didn't happen.

Now I've got to figure out the next step. I may experiment and see if I can get her 'round to my place without setting up a date. The goal is to get her in the house, make a move fast. Or maybe suggest we meet up at my place before going for a coffee. Gives her a bit of plausible deniability.
 
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Chase

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Dash,

Dash said:
Then she says something like "Oh, you live close by, right?"

I shoot back - "You keeping track of me?" She blushes, gets a bit flustered.

Sounds like she likes you. Sounds like she's a bit shy, too.

Dash said:
Then I thought... fuck it. She's a block away, gave me her number on demand, maybe I can get her to come over when she's done (this was around 1:30... place closes at two).

So I sent her a couple texts to see if she would come over. Didn't happen.

Now I've got to figure out the next step. I may experiment and see if I can get her 'round to my place without setting up a date. The goal is to get her in the house, make a move fast. Or maybe suggest we meet up at my place before going for a coffee. Gives her a bit of plausible deniability.

Great that you're experimenting. Shier girls are usually pretty timid about coming to your place straightaway on the first date... it's normally easier to take her to a coffee shop first, then bounce her back.

My suggestion if you want to try having her stop by yours first is to plan to go out to coffee once she gets there, but don't be fully ready and invite her in while you get ready. If the vibe is good, see if you can escalate. If it's off, take her out for coffee, get to know her a bit more, and bring her back again later once the vibe is good.

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