LR OKC Chick

[Thinkingenigma]

This is the first LR I've posted in a while. Mostly because since I've moved to LA, my results have flatlined while I've been getting adjusted to the new city.

Anyways, I've gotten really busy with post-production on a film I edited, and I haven't had time to go out, so I thought I'd try my hand at online game again. Of course, like most guys, I started out getting almost no replies. I'm using a modified version of Chase's online dating profile that I slimmed down, personalized and added a few cocky-funny things to. However, I hit gold when I was reading another forum that has a better developed online game forum than GC does. One of the members there suggested adding a disclaimer at the top of your profile screening heavily for "bad girls" Mine looks like this (very close to the original):

"Disclaimer: If i visited your page and didn't message you, I was probably attracted to your picture, but you seemed a little bit too good girlish for me. I like women with devil horns "

The guy who posted that suggested the use of an auto-clicker as a good complement to that (I have yet to try it, but it seems like it would work). Anyways, after I added that, I started receiving messages from girls trying to qualify themselves to me. They absolutely eat it up! I hadn't even looked at most of their profiles before this, so this was very surprising. Clearly, I was onto something. I started tweaking and experimenting with my profile and my opener, trying to screen for DTF girls. I slowly started getting more and more replies. I moved away from Chase's opener (which I found to be very good for getting girls on dates, but they always had kind of a friendly frame to them instead of a sexual frame) to short cut and paste openers that are designed to be very polarizing and vaguely sexual. I also started experimenting with time of day and found that girls tended to be very responsive to more sexual openers after 10PM, while they tended to respond to less sexual openers earlier in the day.

Last night, I blasted my opener to about 30 chick that were both online and had listed casual sex in their profile on OKC. I spent most of the evening fielding messages from nearly a dozen chicks that I had gotten interest from, as well as those that I had already messaged. I made plans with four of them. The first one wasn't that good looking, but was just trying to get my rhythm going. We planned to meet at 9AM at her place this morning, but I had scheduled meet ups with the other three at that point, and I wanted to sleep in, so I canceled. I scheduled a meetup with a decently cute Filipino girl for tonight, and that worked beautifully. Here's what our message thread looked like.

11PM
Me:Good girls aren't up at this hour

Her: So you could message me. ) hahaha

Me: Why not? So are you playing the OKC drinking game?

Her: Drinking game/

Me: It's where you chat with hot people and take a shot every time they message you. If so, take three shots

Her: Oh. Hahahah. No I usually just message people who message me. Not just hot people. Hahaha

Me: Probably a good idea, lol. You wouldn't be able to stand up otherwise So what adventures are you up to tonight?

Her: Nothing much just fijished watching game of thrones..

Me: You have good taste! If you aren't caught up, I could bring over last weeks episode and we could watch it together. How's that sound?

Her: Haha nope just watched it earlier. hehe. Can't here I could crash in ur place though.

Me: Works for me. Do you have transportation?

Her: Ugh. Noo. :/

Me: Want me to come pick you up?

Her: Oh now?

Me: Now's fine, though I'd be open to getting together later this weekend as well.

Her: Lets go out tomorrow night u free?

Me: Sounds good. Where should I pick you up?

Her: ***-***-****
Lets txt instead here

Switch to text, basically just set up logistics to meet at 8:00. I picked her up, brought her to my place, and we fucked for about an hour, then I took her home. Zero LMR. My biggest issue was getting out of my own way since I was expecting some LMR. Still having trouble transitioning smoothly and quickly to sex once I get back to my apt. I basically just went for a kiss and hoped for the best. There's got to be a better way to do this that doesn't involve a movie and cuddling on the couch before transitioning to the kiss (my usual MO).

I've really only been with super inexperienced girls up to this point, so she did some stuff that I had never felt before, which was pretty cool. I also got to try a new technique where I applied a rear-naked choke while riding her from behind (for those not acquainted with martial arts, thats where you cradle her neck in the crook of your elbow, and apply pressure to her carotid arteries). It's super intense! She loved it!

That said, I realized that my dick goes almost numb when I get hard. I was using Skyn condoms for the first time (which work as advertised, btw), but I still couldn't feel much, even though it was better than regular condomns. At first, I thought it was the condoms, but then she went down on me (also a first for me), and I still could feel almost nothing. My balls were super sensitive, but the moment she touched my dick, I couldn't really feel much. This is good on the one hand, because I stay hard for a while even after climaxing, so I can make her cum even if I cum first quickly. Also, I find it nearly impossible to climax twice in one session because of this, even once my refractory period is over (I actually recover pretty fast. About 90-120 sec). I'm not sure what causes this, but it's kind of irritating. Maybe I should have her go down first? Also, I need to develop more apparent stamina. I can go for a while, but I start sounding out of breath almost immediately, which she commented on.

Afterwards, I dropped her off at her house, and she texted me to let me know that she wanted to hang out again before I leave. I'm counting this one as a win overall!

 

[Gentle_Phrases]

Sweet read man. Congrats on figuring out your online game

Disclaimer: If i visited your page and didn't message you, I was probably attracted to your picture, but you seemed a little bit too good girlish for me. I like women with devil horns "

Interesting...maybe a variant of this could work for daygame/texting in general

Thanks for sharing

 

[Franco]

TE,

Still having trouble transitioning smoothly and quickly to sex once I get back to my apt. I basically just went for a kiss and hoped for the best. There's got to be a better way to do this that doesn't involve a movie and cuddling on the couch before transitioning to the kiss (my usual MO).

Considering you just met this girl that night and she went straight to your place, putting on the movie and relaxing for a bit is probably a smart move. She'll probably want to build a bit of comfort with you first (given that she met you online) before she feels okay escalating, so I don't think there is anything wrong with doing this.

If you end up taking a girl home that you were just on a date with (or took home from a club), then you can move things quickly by grabbing both of you a drink (of whatever -- can be water) and then putting your arm around her as you sit back down on the couch. I do this all the time because, not only does it feel natural, but it breaks the touch barrier immediately within minutes of coming home. Once you have your arm around her, it's usually easier to break the kiss barrier from there.

I usually spend the first minute or two just kissing her, and maybe cupping one hand on her cheek and sliding it under her chin occasionally to heat up the passion. After about 15-20 seconds of this, you need to move your hand down to her legs and start sliding your hand up and down while slowly inching your movements higher and higher and more toward the inner part of her legs. At that point, you really just need to man up and try moving your hand across her pussy to see how she reacts. It's a good idea just to move across it and down her leg again to see if she even reacts at all. If she doesn't, you just keep coming back there until you eventually are rubbing ONLY her pussy.

I think you can figure the rest out from there.

Congrats on the lay!

- Franco

 

[Thinkingenigma]

TE,

Still having trouble transitioning smoothly and quickly to sex once I get back to my apt. I basically just went for a kiss and hoped for the best. There's got to be a better way to do this that doesn't involve a movie and cuddling on the couch before transitioning to the kiss (my usual MO).

Considering you just met this girl that night and she went straight to your place, putting on the movie and relaxing for a bit is probably a smart move. She'll probably want to build a bit of comfort with you first (given that she met you online) before she feels okay escalating, so I don't think there is anything wrong with doing this.

If you end up taking a girl home that you were just on a date with (or took home from a club), then you can move things quickly by grabbing both of you a drink (of whatever -- can be water) and then putting your arm around her as you sit back down on the couch. I do this all the time because, not only does it feel natural, but it breaks the touch barrier immediately within minutes of coming home. Once you have your arm around her, it's usually easier to break the kiss barrier from there.

I usually spend the first minute or two just kissing her, and maybe cupping one hand on her cheek and sliding it under her chin occasionally to heat up the passion. After about 15-20 seconds of this, you need to move your hand down to her legs and start sliding your hand up and down while slowly inching your movements higher and higher and more toward the inner part of her legs. At that point, you really just need to man up and try moving your hand across her pussy to see how she reacts. It's a good idea just to move across it and down her leg again to see if she even reacts at all. If she doesn't, you just keep coming back there until you eventually are rubbing ONLY her pussy.

I think you can figure the rest out from there.

Congrats on the lay!

- Franco

My transition with this girl wasn't difficult at all (I just had to get out of my own way), but I don't see myself repeating this with other girls. That's a good tip about the drink then putting the arm around her immediately. I've got the major stages down, but my transitions still need a lot of work. I'll definitely be trying that in the future.