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Update: She got back to me and we're texting. So, it's not a failure yet 
I'll keep you guys updated how it'll go and maybe update it to a LR
Prelude: For those who missed my LR, https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/long-bad-streak-finally-ended.26538/page-2
This had given me massive confidence yesterday and although that German girl ghosted me (yes, she didn't respond to Good morning text that I sent today either) and I was a bit in my head about her, my body was in auto approach mode and was approaching like a beast walking 11k steps. Nothing came off it, except a super-hot MILF taking my number saying she'll get back to me after we had a long conversation for nearly 15-20 mins at a park when she was out with her dogs. There was a lot of eye contact but seems like she has someone, so she asked where I live exactly, probably to make sure she doesn't run into someone. Something sounded suspicious, although she was asking a lot about me and was very attracted from what I could see. Anyway, back to the main story. I was tired walking so much, so I ended up resting in Starbucks for sometime until my feet gained back it's momentum.
Approach: I was sitting upstairs when I saw a super-cute girl enter Starbucks. I quickly ran downstairs so that I can join her in the queue and chat-up. But as soon as I went downstairs, she didn't seem to like anything there and started walking outside. I followed her outside and she stopped near traffic signal but she was standing very close to a guy and so the approach would've been awkward. So, I waited until the signal turned green. Then as it turned green, she started walking and I was waiting for a right moment to approach her. Interestingly, she stopped right at the signal and started taking pictures on her phone. I stood next to her and said, "I like your bag, with a smile". She looked at me and turned back to taking pictures. I would've ideally left but something made me stay and continue, I said "that caption on the bag is very interesting" - it said, "be good, do good". She looked at me again and said "sorry, I'm not very good at English". Probably she was lying cos she could say that quite confidently. Then I slowed down and said, "caption on your bag says, 'be good, do good'. Do you really live by that?". She laughed and said "Yes". I said, "you must be french". She immediately opened up and said "how do you know?". I said "from your accent". Then she started laughing and saying "my accent is terrible". I said, "no, it's cute, I like french accent". This was happening all at the traffic signal while the signal turned green, twice but she didn't cross the street and looked like she wanted to continue talking. Then I immediately asked, "what are you doing now?". She said, "I just arrived here. So, nothing much". I suggested we go back to Starbucks but quickly realised, it'll be hard to seduce there with that noise and crowd. So, I said I don't really like Starbucks so much, let's go somewhere else and started walking, assuming she'll follow and she did.
Bounce 1: We walked for another 5 mins to find a good cafe. It was already 7 pm and most of the cafes were closed but luckily we found something open and it was very cosy as well. While walking there, in just 5 mins, there was already a lot of touching. Maybe from my previous lay, I had become very confident and was touching her from the get go. We talked about a lot of things, relating to travel, her job, my hobbies, her hobbies, passions, music, movies etc. I was looking for a topic to bounce her home. Movie it was. She told about a movie and I suggested we should go watch at my place and continued talking. Then I also told her that I do Latin dancing and that captivated her. We were making a lot of eye contact and she was biting her lips and brushing her hair. She had a million dollar smile. I kept complimenting her about her smile saying how I like someone with a good smile, it's full of positive emotions, window to the soul, etc etc. Then she said she likes someone's eyes the most, making deep eye contact and biting her lips. Then I finished my coffee and told her to grab her stuff and started walking outside.
Bounce home: It was a 10 mins walk to my apartment and as we approached the entrance, she asked, "are we going to your apartment?". I said "yes" and kept walking towards the elevator. She asked me if I really want to watch that movie? I said, "yes, I'm intrigued" and changed the subject so that she'll not second guess. As we got inside, she appeared nervous. I told her to relax and feel comfortable and I went inside to pee. When I returned, she was still sitting still and I asked her to join me in the balcony and took her there. I continued touching her but she was a hard nut to crack and wouldn't put out so easily. We were talking while I tried different variations of touching, like touching her ear, hair etc but she looked very confident. Then I thought I should use advanced skills and went back in and suggested we should have some wine and she was down for it. Wine with dark chocolate. We both forgot about the movie and I started playing bachata music on YouTube on tv and got her up to dance with me. For those of you who don't know bachata, it's a very sensual dance form. We danced for "propuesta indecente" and she was amazed at my dancing and kept saying, you're definitely not intermediate. I just smirked and touched her everywhere and aroused her as much as I can to prepare her for the kiss and as the song was nearing to close, I went for it and she pulled away. I behaved like nothing happened and laughed at it saying "it's customary of bachata dance to end with a kiss". We both were laughing. I realised she was not easy. She was the most I've flirted with ever in my life. There was a battle of constant push-pull. I used to pull her in and kiss her on the cheek and she got used to it. So, I said I've kissed her enough and now it's your turn to kiss me. She said she's very shy. She got so used to my kissing on the cheek that 4th or 5th time I went close to her face, she offered her cheek and I mocked laying on her shoulder snoring. She kept saying I'm a bad boy. Then I hugged her and said you're a very warm person and she said thanks. I said, no I was feeling cold and hugging you made me warm and started laughing. She started hitting me with the pillow, calling me bad boy. Then I would go close to her lips with just 1 centimeter gap and come back. She'd say, you're not allowed to kiss. I said, stop hoping, just fuck off with a smirk etc.. So, anyway, I had to pull out all my seduction skills, @Teevster 's gambit which I didn't remember properly and made up something of my own and she was captivated but wouldn't budge and then told her about "strawberry fields routine" but still wouldn't budge. There was lots and lots of comfort building stories. Dancing to bachata every now and then. We danced to 5 songs and she was super aroused but wouldn't give in. So, finally straight up asked, what her concerns are. I said, "I know you're very attracted to me but something seems to be stopping you". What is that? "If you're not attracted to me, you can leave and that's fine". She said, no she's very attracted but she is very vulnerable and people take advantage of her very easily and so she's being careful. It's a very short time for her to do anything. It was already 3 hours since I had met her and I was exhausted physically, walking a lot and mentally exhausted trying to seduce her. So, I finally told her, "look, you seem to be not ready yet and I understand it's too quick. So, anyway as you know on Sunday evenings I just chill and watch a movie. Why don't you join me tomorrow?". She said "ok, but how do I contact you?". I said jokingly, "you can send a pigeon" and then entered my number in her phone like @Skills suggests and typed "You are very handsome" from her phone. Then we talked for another 2-3 mins and I dropped her to the main entrance.
Texting: I hope I'll be good with texting 100% someday. I'm terrible.. I feel so awful for what I did. I sent a text today morning saying "aw thanks " with the hearts and she responded in 1 1/2 hours. When her text popped on my phone, I accidentally opened it immediately. It sent blue ticks on Whatsapp while she was still online and appeared like i was waiting for her texts. I immediately closed it and froze and didn't know what to do. Then she double-texted - this was a shit-test for her to see if I accidentally opened it or I was deliberately not responding. I totally failed the shit-test and opened her text after 5 mins and replied to her. I was so nervous that all the texting steps @Skills recommends went down the toilet and I soft-closed immediately. I terribly failed the shit test and she didn't respond after that. I just hate myself for sucking at texting so much. Anyway, here it is:
I'll keep you guys updated how it'll go and maybe update it to a LR Prelude: For those who missed my LR, https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/long-bad-streak-finally-ended.26538/page-2
This had given me massive confidence yesterday and although that German girl ghosted me (yes, she didn't respond to Good morning text that I sent today either) and I was a bit in my head about her, my body was in auto approach mode and was approaching like a beast walking 11k steps. Nothing came off it, except a super-hot MILF taking my number saying she'll get back to me after we had a long conversation for nearly 15-20 mins at a park when she was out with her dogs. There was a lot of eye contact but seems like she has someone, so she asked where I live exactly, probably to make sure she doesn't run into someone. Something sounded suspicious, although she was asking a lot about me and was very attracted from what I could see. Anyway, back to the main story. I was tired walking so much, so I ended up resting in Starbucks for sometime until my feet gained back it's momentum.
Approach: I was sitting upstairs when I saw a super-cute girl enter Starbucks. I quickly ran downstairs so that I can join her in the queue and chat-up. But as soon as I went downstairs, she didn't seem to like anything there and started walking outside. I followed her outside and she stopped near traffic signal but she was standing very close to a guy and so the approach would've been awkward. So, I waited until the signal turned green. Then as it turned green, she started walking and I was waiting for a right moment to approach her. Interestingly, she stopped right at the signal and started taking pictures on her phone. I stood next to her and said, "I like your bag, with a smile". She looked at me and turned back to taking pictures. I would've ideally left but something made me stay and continue, I said "that caption on the bag is very interesting" - it said, "be good, do good". She looked at me again and said "sorry, I'm not very good at English". Probably she was lying cos she could say that quite confidently. Then I slowed down and said, "caption on your bag says, 'be good, do good'. Do you really live by that?". She laughed and said "Yes". I said, "you must be french". She immediately opened up and said "how do you know?". I said "from your accent". Then she started laughing and saying "my accent is terrible". I said, "no, it's cute, I like french accent". This was happening all at the traffic signal while the signal turned green, twice but she didn't cross the street and looked like she wanted to continue talking. Then I immediately asked, "what are you doing now?". She said, "I just arrived here. So, nothing much". I suggested we go back to Starbucks but quickly realised, it'll be hard to seduce there with that noise and crowd. So, I said I don't really like Starbucks so much, let's go somewhere else and started walking, assuming she'll follow and she did.
Bounce 1: We walked for another 5 mins to find a good cafe. It was already 7 pm and most of the cafes were closed but luckily we found something open and it was very cosy as well. While walking there, in just 5 mins, there was already a lot of touching. Maybe from my previous lay, I had become very confident and was touching her from the get go. We talked about a lot of things, relating to travel, her job, my hobbies, her hobbies, passions, music, movies etc. I was looking for a topic to bounce her home. Movie it was. She told about a movie and I suggested we should go watch at my place and continued talking. Then I also told her that I do Latin dancing and that captivated her. We were making a lot of eye contact and she was biting her lips and brushing her hair. She had a million dollar smile. I kept complimenting her about her smile saying how I like someone with a good smile, it's full of positive emotions, window to the soul, etc etc. Then she said she likes someone's eyes the most, making deep eye contact and biting her lips. Then I finished my coffee and told her to grab her stuff and started walking outside.
Bounce home: It was a 10 mins walk to my apartment and as we approached the entrance, she asked, "are we going to your apartment?". I said "yes" and kept walking towards the elevator. She asked me if I really want to watch that movie? I said, "yes, I'm intrigued" and changed the subject so that she'll not second guess. As we got inside, she appeared nervous. I told her to relax and feel comfortable and I went inside to pee. When I returned, she was still sitting still and I asked her to join me in the balcony and took her there. I continued touching her but she was a hard nut to crack and wouldn't put out so easily. We were talking while I tried different variations of touching, like touching her ear, hair etc but she looked very confident. Then I thought I should use advanced skills and went back in and suggested we should have some wine and she was down for it. Wine with dark chocolate. We both forgot about the movie and I started playing bachata music on YouTube on tv and got her up to dance with me. For those of you who don't know bachata, it's a very sensual dance form. We danced for "propuesta indecente" and she was amazed at my dancing and kept saying, you're definitely not intermediate. I just smirked and touched her everywhere and aroused her as much as I can to prepare her for the kiss and as the song was nearing to close, I went for it and she pulled away. I behaved like nothing happened and laughed at it saying "it's customary of bachata dance to end with a kiss". We both were laughing. I realised she was not easy. She was the most I've flirted with ever in my life. There was a battle of constant push-pull. I used to pull her in and kiss her on the cheek and she got used to it. So, I said I've kissed her enough and now it's your turn to kiss me. She said she's very shy. She got so used to my kissing on the cheek that 4th or 5th time I went close to her face, she offered her cheek and I mocked laying on her shoulder snoring. She kept saying I'm a bad boy. Then I hugged her and said you're a very warm person and she said thanks. I said, no I was feeling cold and hugging you made me warm and started laughing. She started hitting me with the pillow, calling me bad boy. Then I would go close to her lips with just 1 centimeter gap and come back. She'd say, you're not allowed to kiss. I said, stop hoping, just fuck off with a smirk etc.. So, anyway, I had to pull out all my seduction skills, @Teevster 's gambit which I didn't remember properly and made up something of my own and she was captivated but wouldn't budge and then told her about "strawberry fields routine" but still wouldn't budge. There was lots and lots of comfort building stories. Dancing to bachata every now and then. We danced to 5 songs and she was super aroused but wouldn't give in. So, finally straight up asked, what her concerns are. I said, "I know you're very attracted to me but something seems to be stopping you". What is that? "If you're not attracted to me, you can leave and that's fine". She said, no she's very attracted but she is very vulnerable and people take advantage of her very easily and so she's being careful. It's a very short time for her to do anything. It was already 3 hours since I had met her and I was exhausted physically, walking a lot and mentally exhausted trying to seduce her. So, I finally told her, "look, you seem to be not ready yet and I understand it's too quick. So, anyway as you know on Sunday evenings I just chill and watch a movie. Why don't you join me tomorrow?". She said "ok, but how do I contact you?". I said jokingly, "you can send a pigeon" and then entered my number in her phone like @Skills suggests and typed "You are very handsome" from her phone. Then we talked for another 2-3 mins and I dropped her to the main entrance.
Texting: I hope I'll be good with texting 100% someday. I'm terrible.. I feel so awful for what I did. I sent a text today morning saying "aw thanks " with the hearts and she responded in 1 1/2 hours. When her text popped on my phone, I accidentally opened it immediately. It sent blue ticks on Whatsapp while she was still online and appeared like i was waiting for her texts. I immediately closed it and froze and didn't know what to do. Then she double-texted - this was a shit-test for her to see if I accidentally opened it or I was deliberately not responding. I totally failed the shit-test and opened her text after 5 mins and replied to her. I was so nervous that all the texting steps @Skills recommends went down the toilet and I soft-closed immediately. I terribly failed the shit test and she didn't respond after that. I just hate myself for sucking at texting so much. Anyway, here it is:
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