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Any of the younger guys here on the board encounter older women laughing after approaching? I feel like the older girls do not take me seriously or go into auto-reject because of the age difference (I’m 22).
Over the last few months, I have encountered older women around 35-45ish that laugh after my cold approach. Older women from that age group do not take me seriously and stand their ground laughing the entire time. I find myself standing around like a fool and attracting attention from the store until leaving. I have gotten 3 phone numbers out of 75 cold approaches from that age group. Most of the interactions are straight-up blowouts.
I do approach girls my age, but I find the most fit and attractive to be MUCH older than me.
Here's an example from my Older Women Journal:
Went to Walmart at 6:30pm on a Monday and approached a tall and professional older woman. She was at least 6’3’’ with heels on which accentuated her tonned gluteus maximus
I just came back from the office dressed in a slim-fitting professional shirt, flat pants, and new dress shoes. Before entering the store, I put a tungsten ring on each hand for flair. I have a closed-trimmed beard to look older.
I first saw her walking past through a main aisle pushing a cart and saw no engagement ring on the hand. A couple minutes later, she appears in the personal hygiene aisle, so I go in and park myself about 10 ft. away. I try eye contact flirting, but she’s starring far away at toothpaste on the shelf with her arms crossed. I open indirect-direct despite the aisle being filled with 4 other people!
I noticed older women from this group follow the same pattern: laughing-serious-laughing-uncomfortable. They seem to like the compliments, but get uneasy when I try to close.
Over the last few months, I have encountered older women around 35-45ish that laugh after my cold approach. Older women from that age group do not take me seriously and stand their ground laughing the entire time. I find myself standing around like a fool and attracting attention from the store until leaving. I have gotten 3 phone numbers out of 75 cold approaches from that age group. Most of the interactions are straight-up blowouts.
I do approach girls my age, but I find the most fit and attractive to be MUCH older than me.
Here's an example from my Older Women Journal:
Went to Walmart at 6:30pm on a Monday and approached a tall and professional older woman. She was at least 6’3’’ with heels on which accentuated her tonned gluteus maximus
I just came back from the office dressed in a slim-fitting professional shirt, flat pants, and new dress shoes. Before entering the store, I put a tungsten ring on each hand for flair. I have a closed-trimmed beard to look older.
I first saw her walking past through a main aisle pushing a cart and saw no engagement ring on the hand. A couple minutes later, she appears in the personal hygiene aisle, so I go in and park myself about 10 ft. away. I try eye contact flirting, but she’s starring far away at toothpaste on the shelf with her arms crossed. I open indirect-direct despite the aisle being filled with 4 other people!
Me: Oh, hello.
Girl: (Looks over with tired expression)
Me: Do you think this is the right floss to use with Listerine Whitening Wash?
Girl: You know, I like a different floss. The Crest thin strips, really gets between the gums better than the cloth ones.
Me: My doctor said I have good gums, so I’m focusing on white teeth.
Girl: (Starts going on another rant about teeth).
Me: (I make a crooked smile, tilt my head down, and create a RU serious? expression).
Girl: (She slowly stops talking and looks less serious)
Me: Actually, I’m getting this floss, but I thought you were attractive and wanted to say hello.
Girl: (Laughs loudly, turns her head away, and covers her mouth). Wow, that’s really sweet!
Me: My name is Barry by the way.
Girl: (Takes my hand and still grinning widely). Nice to meet you Barry.
Me: So, what’s your name?
Girl: Denise.
Me: Looks like you haven’t picked anything out yet. Your cart is empty.
Girl: Yeah, I just started. (Still smiling, but crosses her arms again and looks at the products at the shelf).
Me: Same here, just trying to get the right oral care for a stunning smile.
Girl: Oh, okay. (Completely aloof, then changes mood). Sorry, I just had a long day today.
Me: You work in a fancy office? (She had formal apparel on).
Girl: Yeah, just in city X.
Me: Must be fancy, that formal apparel looks really good on you. The green really catches the eye.
Girl: (Looks me dead in the eye for the first time) Oh, thank you.
Me: I do not want to hold you up too much longer. What’s your schedule like this week? We should grab something to eat.
Girl: (Starts laughing again). Oh, no thanks I can’t.
(There were people staring at us in the aisle, so I began closing).
Me: Your schedule must be busy then?
Girl: (Started looking uneasy and maintained eye contact with the shelf).
Me: Okay, then. Have a nice day!
I noticed older women from this group follow the same pattern: laughing-serious-laughing-uncomfortable. They seem to like the compliments, but get uneasy when I try to close.