On dominance...

[girlsfollow]

Basically I'm usually very dominant and control how things go - but this last girl I closed is refusing to give in - it may be because she is a dominant type person - I think I may need to be even more dominant than usual to break though it - any tips?

Basically I tried the manhandle technique of just taking her in the kitchen, I did well and got it started - but when I tried to take her to bedroom by picking her up over my shoulder she strongly resisted - and said "after we eat" - so it was her telling me when we could have sex! we did but it was not so great since she was not letting go - she was staying too rational all the time - and tensing up and that meant it hurt her - maybe more foreplay was in order but I was tired of this by now (enough dates of just that!)

The one time she was hot was when I was trying to carry her upstairs - and she told me that she regretted not letting me take her up

But I physically could not have taken her up since she would have hurt herself- so what can I do to be more dominant?

 

[girlsfollow]

similarity to resistance to sex type

another important point I missed was that she also used the "mother" voice on me - she started raising her voice and using my name in a serious tone to try and stop me - I think this is because I am obviously much bigger and stronger than she is and this is the way she is trying to maintain control of things - of course the depressing result of this is that it makes things boring and logical resulting in essentially planned sex and her being less turned on. I did just take her upstairs later that evening and close her again but I'm still wondering how to fight this dominance battle with a girl?

 

[trashKENNUT]

girlsfollow,

another important point I missed was that she also used the "mother" voice on me - she started raising her voice and using my name in a serious tone to try and stop me - I think this is because I am obviously much bigger and stronger than she is and this is the way she is trying to maintain control of things - of course the depressing result of this is that it makes things boring and logical resulting in essentially planned sex and her being less turned on. I did just take her upstairs later that evening and close her again but I'm still wondering how to fight this dominance battle with a girl?

If she is being too rational and make things less interesting, you would want to not reward her sex because she raise her voice and use your name in a serious tone. Some girls doing this to maintain dominance, this is fine because she wants you to know that she doesn't want you to see her as easy.

However, something about her that is not addressed, put some reassurance and put slightly more affection , but if she's like that all too often, you need to stop rewarding her. She is likely too insecure.

Zac

 

[Chase]

For anyone following this thread, I posted a response to GF's lay report on the same topic here.

Chase