Once a cheater always a cheater?

[biased]

She wasn't getting much attention from her long term partner so she went looking a couple years back. I'm not the first of the other men she's had while still in this LTR.

We have an amazing sex life and good conversations. She's the one that matches my energy the most amongst all the women I've been with and I love the time we spend together and obviously can see this turning into something more longer term.

But I can't shake the thought that she will cheat on me once the situation gets boring. So I can't let go fully.

She loves flirting and placing herself in dangerous situations (alcohol, clubs, dancing) and I don't have an issue with that normally. Obviously it's because life back home is a complete snoozefest. I'm not an insecure person usually but knowing her history and watching her text her man lies all the time in front of me has planted thoughts in my head.

Has anyone ever been in this situation before? How do you deal with it?

 

[TomInHo]

She wasn't getting much attention from her long term partner so she went looking a couple years back. I'm not the first of the other men she's had while still in this LTR.

So you’re not the first?

She has cheated multiple times on her current partner and you’re wondering if she is going to do the same to you?

Interesting

We have an amazing sex life and good conversations. She's the one that matches my energy the most amongst all the women I've been with and I love the time we spend together and obviously can see this turning into something more longer term.

Sex, good conversation and vibe are not rare qualities in a woman my guy

Sorry but not sorry, because if those are your standards then you should be able to find someone else that matches them pretty easily

But I can't shake the thought that she will cheat on me once the situation gets boring. So I can't let go fully.

That thought you are having is called intuition

Why not keep her as a girl you just have fun with?

Why are you literally trying to turn a hoe into a housewife?

She loves flirting and placing herself in dangerous situations (alcohol, clubs, dancing) and I don't have an issue with that normally.

You’re joking right?

This girls has a history of cheating and also loves to party all the time?

She doesn’t sound like someone that’s a great candidate for monogamy honestly

I'm not an insecure person usually but knowing her history and watching her text her man lies all the time in front of me has planted thoughts in my head.

You’re not insecure but you are acting desperate and naive

Bro it’s okay if a girl doesn’t meet your LTR standards. You can even keep them around long term if you like, but it doesn’t have to be serious/monogamous

Has anyone ever been in this situation before? How do you deal with

Yes!

I’ve had a few lovers that got with me while they had a boyfriend.

I even had dope connections with some of them but I’m not a retard.

I can enjoy a woman and also accept her for who she is and I have never committed to anyone of those girls

And there’s no surprise a lot of them cheated on their other boyfriends after me with me again

But it’s your life. You’re welcome to wife her up if you want but if you ever catch her cheating on you then it is what it is

 

[gameboy]

You're getting oneitis. Meet more girls