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This one is from Saturday. I won't retell the whole night, just the key parts of the night.
I went out to the usual bars and clubs I go to, but this time I was armed with gambits, primed by watching infield and I also spent the whole week meditating every day for 20 minutes. I also got a wardrobe update.
I think I was mostly spamming the "Optimistic complaint" situational opener the whole night with varying success.
The big insight was that I started recognizing regular patrons, so I made sure to talk to and befriend people I see there almost every weekend. This really helped with the going out solo base-building and having a group of people to return to talk to and keep those social gears going.
I ended up bouncing with them to a different club, where I played around with locking in sets with one of those stupidly large party hats and glasses, I bought from one of the street vendors, on my way there. It was fun.
Split from that group again, then I started going by myself outside the clubs and saw the girl.
"You know, those are the second best shoes I've seen tonight..." (cred. Beckster)
"Oh, yeah? The second!?"
"Yeah, mine are the first." (thanks @KJ Francis !)
I lock her in with the glittery party hat and the utterly stupidly large party glasses.
I do some fluff talk. I make sure to pepper in screening for logistics.
"Where are your friends?"
"Oh, just around."
"You know, I KNOW what you are trying to do!" (started to lay down some chase framing)
"What?"
"You are trying to take my virginity! It's not going to work you vixen!" (cred. @Warped Mindless )
(she laughs) "No, you are NOT!"
"I'll have you know I am an ordained minister. Away from me temptress!"
(more laugh)
I did some more fluff, started doing some seductive EC. She starts triangulating and looking at my lips. K-close.
A little bit more talking between kissing. Her buying temperature is up, so I decide to move her on the high-note.
"So what the FUCK are we still doing here?"
As we are walking to my place, I start doing some mini-qualifications.
"There is something about you, I just don't know why I like you..."
She is way ahead of me and cuts me off:
"So, are you going to fuck the shit out off me?"
"Oh yeah girl."
Once we got to my place it was on, from the moment we stepped through the door.
I think I went through 8 condoms or something. They just kept slipping off. It was completely ruining the vibe changing them so much. These are the usual condoms I use, too. Durex ultra thin XL. I don't know why that kept happening as they are not expired, I checked, but I guess I will have to buy a different brand. (Maybe, I will have to look into custom condoms or something)
We decide to do it bareback.
In the morning we have some coffee, fuck again and go our separate ways.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
I think the meditation played a major part in my own emotional management while out. The game I used here was minimal, and I really had many chance things going my way. The skill was in recognizing the opportunity.
I went out to the usual bars and clubs I go to, but this time I was armed with gambits, primed by watching infield and I also spent the whole week meditating every day for 20 minutes. I also got a wardrobe update.
I think I was mostly spamming the "Optimistic complaint" situational opener the whole night with varying success.
The big insight was that I started recognizing regular patrons, so I made sure to talk to and befriend people I see there almost every weekend. This really helped with the going out solo base-building and having a group of people to return to talk to and keep those social gears going.
I ended up bouncing with them to a different club, where I played around with locking in sets with one of those stupidly large party hats and glasses, I bought from one of the street vendors, on my way there. It was fun.
Split from that group again, then I started going by myself outside the clubs and saw the girl.
"You know, those are the second best shoes I've seen tonight..." (cred. Beckster)
"Oh, yeah? The second!?"
"Yeah, mine are the first." (thanks @KJ Francis !)
I lock her in with the glittery party hat and the utterly stupidly large party glasses.
I do some fluff talk. I make sure to pepper in screening for logistics.
"Where are your friends?"
"Oh, just around."
"You know, I KNOW what you are trying to do!" (started to lay down some chase framing)
"What?"
"You are trying to take my virginity! It's not going to work you vixen!" (cred. @Warped Mindless )
(she laughs) "No, you are NOT!"
"I'll have you know I am an ordained minister. Away from me temptress!"
(more laugh)
I did some more fluff, started doing some seductive EC. She starts triangulating and looking at my lips. K-close.
A little bit more talking between kissing. Her buying temperature is up, so I decide to move her on the high-note.
"So what the FUCK are we still doing here?"
As we are walking to my place, I start doing some mini-qualifications.
"There is something about you, I just don't know why I like you..."
She is way ahead of me and cuts me off:
"So, are you going to fuck the shit out off me?"
"Oh yeah girl."
Once we got to my place it was on, from the moment we stepped through the door.
I think I went through 8 condoms or something. They just kept slipping off. It was completely ruining the vibe changing them so much. These are the usual condoms I use, too. Durex ultra thin XL. I don't know why that kept happening as they are not expired, I checked, but I guess I will have to buy a different brand. (Maybe, I will have to look into custom condoms or something)
We decide to do it bareback.
In the morning we have some coffee, fuck again and go our separate ways.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
I think the meditation played a major part in my own emotional management while out. The game I used here was minimal, and I really had many chance things going my way. The skill was in recognizing the opportunity.
