One thing. The contemplation of initiating.

[Twosees]

Hey guys so today I decided to be more open and it went quite well. There were a few awkward moments I sensed with the people I was talking but I maintened a outcome independent mindset. I also wasn't as loud around guys today. I tend to get loud and then mute myself when a girl is coming in my direction.
Now there's this one girl I keep passing, actually 2.. I start to think (you know what let me go) but then as I'm contemplating ( and staring omg. ). She looks, glances and pass.I then hit myself. Chance gone. WHAT DO YOU GUYS DO IN THESE SITUATIONS? Mind you this is at school.
Thanks GC
Cheers.

 

[Reave Krieger]

This one Girl

I'm still a beginner here, but might have some advice:

"This one girl" might be your problem here. Is she special to you? If the answer is "yes", then you should read this article:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls

If you simply pass her very often: Try talking to some guys first, then to some other girls (you know) but better so unknown girls.
This way you warm up socially and it will be much easier (less frightening) opening her.

Better open her from the side than while she comes towards you.