Oneitis is what happens before you
realize that you are already complete,
you are already whole, on your own,
without women or anyone / anything
else. It's a feeling we get when we
meet someone whose particular
qualities fill that "hole" within us, like
a puzzle piece being laid into its
proper place. The problem arises
when we don't realize that we are
ALREADY the entire puzzle, because
until we do, we will always seek
outside of ourselves in order to feel
fulfilled and abundant and happy. So
the real cure for Oneitis is to strip
away your layers of social
conditioning, ego, messy thought
processes and automatic habits that
have stopped you from realizing that
you are already a complete human
being. Once you realize this, you will
be in a permanent state of
abundance and will still be able to
feel things like attraction and lust and
love, but without the "attaching"
energy that inevitably both drains
you of power and pushes the other
person away.
The common PUA advice is "Go Fuck
Ten Other Women." While this can
and often does cure "Oneitis"
towards any one particular girl, it
only addresses the symptom of the
problem---not its root cause.
Therefore, a person who uses the
GFTOW tactic will still find himself
feeling Oneitis, over and over again
with different women, until he
develops the emotional courage to
look deep within himself, take honest
account of what he finds, and
bandage up the wounds that need
healing so that he may remember
who he TRULY is...
