I usually do ok when on online dating apps like tinder, bumble and POF. It usually always follows a similar pattern if the girl is actually interested in me.
I chat back and forth for a bit and responded in ways that make me look dominant. I usually get asked some shit testing type questions that I can normally blow clean out of the water and I see the chicks interest levels start to rise further.
I then disappear for a day or so and wait for the chick re-initiate chat with me. This helps me determine their true interest level and reinforces that I am a dominant non-needy guy. Once they start chatting again I usually ask them if they want to transfer over to what apps to continue the conversation. Normally by this point, the chick has no hesitation giving out her number. I then pretty much let them do 80 to 90% of the chasing and set a date asap.
I had a girl the other day that went through all the steps and seemed really interested but when it came time to move the chat over to whats app she hit me with an excuse saying
"I don't have that lol"
I thought this was just shit testing and said:
"Well install it then."
She responded with:
"Na I deleted it a while ago"
I said:
"yeah yeah..."
She said:
"I only have insta"
I said
I don't have that. (which I don't)
She said
" we're at an impasse lol"
I said:
"well if you change your mind add me" and added my number
she said
"ok maybe ill brush off the old texts lol"
I just responded with a thumbs-up sign and never heard anything more.
She's a little hotter and younger than I normally get interested in me and obviously gets a lot of messages on POF. (told me she has 70 unread msg in her inbox). I am guessing there isn't much more I can do and that she maybe is a bit interested but not enough to overcome all the other guy's she's probably talking to.
Do you think I played it well? What would you do?
I chat back and forth for a bit and responded in ways that make me look dominant. I usually get asked some shit testing type questions that I can normally blow clean out of the water and I see the chicks interest levels start to rise further.
I then disappear for a day or so and wait for the chick re-initiate chat with me. This helps me determine their true interest level and reinforces that I am a dominant non-needy guy. Once they start chatting again I usually ask them if they want to transfer over to what apps to continue the conversation. Normally by this point, the chick has no hesitation giving out her number. I then pretty much let them do 80 to 90% of the chasing and set a date asap.
I had a girl the other day that went through all the steps and seemed really interested but when it came time to move the chat over to whats app she hit me with an excuse saying
"I don't have that lol"
I thought this was just shit testing and said:
"Well install it then."
She responded with:
"Na I deleted it a while ago"
I said:
"yeah yeah..."
She said:
"I only have insta"
I said
I don't have that. (which I don't)
She said
" we're at an impasse lol"
I said:
"well if you change your mind add me" and added my number
she said
"ok maybe ill brush off the old texts lol"
I just responded with a thumbs-up sign and never heard anything more.
She's a little hotter and younger than I normally get interested in me and obviously gets a lot of messages on POF. (told me she has 70 unread msg in her inbox). I am guessing there isn't much more I can do and that she maybe is a bit interested but not enough to overcome all the other guy's she's probably talking to.
Do you think I played it well? What would you do?
