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Online/Insta game: Heart reaction as a response to DM

Chubadoo

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Soooooooooo.. I've set up my insta account back up and running and occasionally I shoot a few light compliments here and there.

Ladies tent to reply with a "heart/like" reaction to my comment and no further interaction. On their part they haven't let it go unanswered, their reaction was basically a low efford "thanks" but that was it.

How do you proceed from there? Double text her with a light tease such as a "wow what kinda heart was that?" or will that sound too triggered/needy?
 

Toby2030

Cro-Magnon Man
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Treat it as silence and act accordingly.
 

Chubadoo

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Thing is, I text a complete stranger that I've never met before.
 

YS.

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"You seem shy, where are you from?" -> Banter off the response.

This is very assuming. You communicate her not investing could only be from her being shy. Which subcommunicates you get positive responses a lot from women. Which is an honest signal that shows you are a high value mate. Which triggers attraction.

I would tend to not go very direct/complimenty on IG though if you don't have an absolutely epic/very attractive profile. You're giving away way too much power before anything. You would see a lot of famous people's DM's are very down low before they get investment from the girl. They mostly only send a emoji or something very low investment to gauge interest.

I've been doing online game for 1 to 2 months now. I get a lot of stand-off'ish low investment responses. 50/50 I turn it around in a massive way by giving her shit and assuming she's attracted to me. (Behaviors low value people won't do, which shows her I'm high value, which triggers attraction and changes the way she views me and reacts to me.) This worked me SO many times so far that I'm thinking of doing a post about it.

Assuming attraction creates attraction. Because you sub-communicate the right things to her. (This was what Razorjack was trying to explain before he got fed off and bounced off the forums.)
 
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a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Slick

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shooting out compliments is beta game. best not to compliment at all. you're either going to ask her out, or say something intriguing about her profile that other guys wouldn't say.
 
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