Socializing Online Only!!!

[AdamC]

So, for the few friend or kinda family people I have let known that I am trying to learn and Master DayGame the overwhelming response is:

YOU CAN ONLY MEET GIRLS FOR DATING ONLINE ONLY!!!

It’s almost like an old skool cartoon of the one character getting beat over the head with a board.

I get comments like - “Dude, why are you wasting time trying to randomly talk to girls in public, when it’s like shooting fish in a barrel online?”

Or - “Dude, that’s totalllllllly way creepy, and almost kinda losery to just randomly go up and talk to some girl at the stoplight, on the street, in line at a coffee shop, at the grocery store, yada, yada, yada…”

I’ve also gotten, from non friend, acquainted people through work, having seen me approach someone on a break, on the street, from the corner of their eye say - “Ya know Man, it’s really disturbing that you are interrupting and invading her personal space going up and just talking to her like that…”

Unfortunately after like 200 approaches since last September, I don’t exactly have the best track record of scores to really back-up that DayGame is actually better than Online. Although, I personally don’t like online, or social media unless it pertains to work…

And I’m not the best at Night Game, even though I went out last night and practiced some since my buddy who was DJing Vinyl Funk and Soul invited me to hang with he and his DJ crew… He’s got a couple more events coming up that’s he wants me to come to.

So I’m really curious as to a couple things.

• Is DayGame effective in scoring girls?
• What the hell is this crazy reaction that “You can only meet girls ONLINE ONLY?”
• Since my Fundamentals are good - I got random compliments on my clothes and look last night - what advice is there to improve my “meet-up rate” from doing DayGame?

Interested in thoughts, suggestions etcetera…

 

[Higher]

• Is DayGame effective in scoring girls?

Yes. Without a doubt.

Now, its probably not the most efficient, and its got a pretty steep learning curve. But u can daygame literally anywhere, and the skills u get out of it will help u in other game "flavors" as well (and in life in general).

• What the hell is this crazy reaction that “You can only meet girls ONLINE ONLY?”

I reckon for them its the most socially-acceptable way of meeting girls.

However id not talk about game with ppl who are not into game (did it myself and regretted it), and just disregard anything non-gamers say about the topic.

They dont have the tools to understand what this thing really is.

• Since my Fundamentals are good - I got random compliments on my clothes and look last night - what advice is there to improve my “meet-up rate” from doing DayGame?

U say u did 200 approaches since September and didnt get many results.

Its hard to guess exactly what ur process looks like and where u lose most girls, but id say get a couple strong openers and work on the way u deliver them. Then, have a solid process for how to handle the followup conversation.

Once u get that down pat, u can "level up" and focus on other key areas.

 

[Adventurer]

My guess is that they only know how to meet girls online and are projecting

I and many others have got laid from daygame. The question is not if it works but how to make it work

Beating approach anxiety is super hard though. So they have a point in the sense that most people will never manage to get results from daygame

Most will also never get results from online btw. The barrier to entry is lower so there is a ton of competition. You have to optimize your profile and process very well to stand out

 

[Atlas IV]

So, for the few friend or kinda family people I have let known that I am trying to learn and Master DayGame the overwhelming response is:

My advice: keep it a closely guarded secret, even to people you trust. You might think they'll understand, but remember that most people in mainstream society still think of PUA as psychological manipulation. They're just not informed about it in the same way you are.

Just let it be your superpower. It's also more fun this way. When you're amazing at picking up girls, they'll be like "damn man, you're so good with women! What's your secret?"

At that point you can start to tell them SOME things.

I get comments like - “Dude, why are you wasting time trying to randomly talk to girls in public, when it’s like shooting fish in a barrel online?”

You can retort with the statistics about online dating, which is that Tinder is 75% men, 25% women.

"Sounds like a sausage fest to me bro."

Or - “Dude, that’s totalllllllly way creepy, and almost kinda losery to just randomly go up and talk to some girl at the stoplight, on the street, in line at a coffee shop, at the grocery store, yada, yada, yada…”

"Wait, so you're telling me you don't have the balls to go strike up a conversation with a beautiful girl in public? Huh, okay man... Well, good luck with online dating and all that."

Is DayGame effective in scoring girls?

Yes. Almost all of my relationships of the past 5 years have come from cold approach, and many of them are a caliber of girls I simply would never have had a chance at meeting online.

The proof is in the pudding. Keep going and you'll see!

 

[AdamC]

Good stuff Atlas, Adventurer, and Higher...
Appreciate the reassurance that I can get the results I am looking for by switching up my openers, tweaking my conversation and hooking.
In-fact correctly hooking a girl is my biggest challenge right now - I have read the hooking articles on the site...

Yes, I've met some of the most exotic girls I never would have any other way, by simply approaching them during my normal day stuff.
I discovered daygame because I was sooo sick of regret and beating myself up when I'd witness one of these exotic girls, during normal day stuff, and say "man I wish I knew how to talk to her. I know I'll never see her again..."

And now I do go talk to her. And they're usually pretty nice. I think I've only had 3 weird interactions/reactions with those 200 approaches.

 

[ChrisXKiss]

Yes, I've met some of the most exotic girls I never would have any other way, by simply approaching them during my normal day stuff.
I discovered daygame because I was sooo sick of regret and beating myself up when I'd witness one of these exotic girls, during normal day stuff, and say "man I wish I knew how to talk to her. I know I'll never see her again..."

This has been more than enough for me to justify daygame. Of course I also enjoy the freedom of going up to a woman wherever and whenever I want, but honestly if I had constant access to unlimited high caliber girls in any other way I would take it as well.

So if someone really talks about meeting girls online only, my first thought is yeah ok sure you can, but what are we really going for here? I know people who just met online, had a relationship and even go towards marriage. For them it worked perfectly.

The issue is that for most of us here, we are not just looking to find any ok girl to build a family with, or random girls of questionable quality just to put our penis somewhere either. But if you start going around expressing what you are going for with women openly, you will get a lot of backlash as the other posters suggest.

So in the end my approach is to go for what brings me closer to what I want, let others go for what brings them what they want, and well, if I find an Online fanatic that gets results I would also like, I am open to learn how he does it.

 

[Lover]

If you told people you were going to master any other skill (that you are not reasonably good at) and become a world champion in it, most people would still tell you how it is not possible, or something else is much easier. This is not exclusive to game at all. Every skill with a high risk-high reward probability will get you such reactions from most people.

Work in silence, and let your success be your proof that whatever you do works. Once they see different girls swoon right into your arm, THEY will be asking YOU how you do it. Imagine when you will be the one telling them:

"Oh? I just talked to her and had an amazing vibe from the get-go!"

 

[alexlaguma]

Some of the guys have already nailed it , but just to add to their comments ...

YES day game works. For me it is my current number 1 tool. I've abandoned online dating. I've probably slept with over 50 girls from online but the return on investment is just ridiculously low for me. I don't know the exact numbers but I'm getting 1 date from every 15 or so matches. It seems to get harder every year when it should be getting easier. I'm guessing that is down to the competition / more men being online.

As for what friends say ... fck them. I don't tell my friends what I do, but every now and then they will ask where I met a certain girl and I will tell them "i walked up to her in the supermarket". Its funny because I know even some of my best friends that I have huge respect for would NEVER have the balls to be able to do that. Guys hide behind the idea that it is weird because THEY could never do it. It takes fcking balls ... but the rewards are there. Also when you do a successful approach in day game, and it works out well, you feel like a champ. You feel like a man. I have never had that feeling from an online lay. Its just not the same (at least for me, I know others feel differently)