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I remember reading an old article about having worldview and having different reference points. Your mental model is flawed.
Well, it does take awhile for a guy to develop different reference points, and have black and white thinking to have distinction between cool friends he wants to have and the "normal" friends, and the beautiful women he wants to have and the not so beautiful women he wants as friends or he rejects. I realize that having an open body language is important. It reflects that you are inviting and welcoming, not close off, and only reacts to beautiful women and cool people, and cool things. It drops hierarchy mentality. and the thing of this, IT helps lessen unnecessary trouble that people wants to jump right at you, because when you warm, inviting, yet firm, it is just more intimidating for people to jump infront of you and start trouble.
When you have open body language, you are open and inviting, free yet you know what you want, that is beautiful women and cool friends. You not close off to the world because somewhere along the way, everyone needs to help each other someday. Doesn't matter you the black guy, white guy, brown guy, yellow guy, whatever.
There's an African quote, "When there's no enemy within, the enemy without can do us no harm."
well, of course hoping, the enemy without doesn't have a gun! Ok kidding.
Zac
Well, it does take awhile for a guy to develop different reference points, and have black and white thinking to have distinction between cool friends he wants to have and the "normal" friends, and the beautiful women he wants to have and the not so beautiful women he wants as friends or he rejects. I realize that having an open body language is important. It reflects that you are inviting and welcoming, not close off, and only reacts to beautiful women and cool people, and cool things. It drops hierarchy mentality. and the thing of this, IT helps lessen unnecessary trouble that people wants to jump right at you, because when you warm, inviting, yet firm, it is just more intimidating for people to jump infront of you and start trouble.
When you have open body language, you are open and inviting, free yet you know what you want, that is beautiful women and cool friends. You not close off to the world because somewhere along the way, everyone needs to help each other someday. Doesn't matter you the black guy, white guy, brown guy, yellow guy, whatever.
There's an African quote, "When there's no enemy within, the enemy without can do us no harm."
well, of course hoping, the enemy without doesn't have a gun! Ok kidding.
Zac
