Optimal seduction process? (How to avoid losing time)

[Eiswein]

Happy day friends, I realized Im good at getting numbers but bad in the process between getting her number and making out for that reason i want to be sure im understanding the concepts

Case study: you find a cute girl in one of your classes (1 time per week 2hours) and get her number, from there how you advance? Text game or direct date? what you prioritice considering time is an issue? what is the priority of the following items:
1. Built tension with non verbals (kino, eye flirt)
2. Deep dive
3. Build rapport
4. Build compliance and investment
5. Push and pull
6. Compliments
7. Chase frame and Us vs the world frame

 

[ulrich]

You mean you get her number, then she stays and you continue the seduction aiming for a lay?

Why are you asking for her number if she is not leaving yet?

 

[HoofHearted]

I think you should relax on all that numbered list stuff and terminology stuff.

We were just talking about business in another thread. You have one number? You have one lead. Get more, and of the best quality that you can. A business wouldn't get much done with one lead at a time. Remember, the goal isn't to get phone numbers, phone numbers are just a circumstantial tool that is used when you can't do something more optimally.

But really, if you're in college, it might be best just to ask for coffee/treat after class.

Then, after that, you can maybe, uh, make out.

I would say don't text girls too much, it's a rule that stops me from being an asshole and ruining things. I like best texting to get her out only.

For me, a lot of the process of meeting women is just not making mistakes, rather than actively doing something.