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Figure it could help some guys to show how I structured my tinder profile for maximum eficiency.
Caveats:
- pictures are 90% of the reason you will get matches. The other 10% are the stuff you put on your profile.
- getting matches mean shit if you don't know how to text, so if your texting is still meh, plase check here and here
- you need a proper dating structure!!! You can do the traditional 2-3 dates or the 3-bounce technique for same day pulls. Either way, you have to follow a proven dating structure, or all of your dates won't mean anything...you'll be just wasting time and money.
Now to the breakdown.
1) Use between 3-5 pictures. Don't need to go overboard and put a lot of stuff. 3-5 is more than enough.
Now your pictures must be great and put you in the best light possible! Good does not cut here.
2) Getting pro pics is optional. I like them, but there are a lot of variables involved.
Amateur pics can work too, but it really doesn't matter beacuse you gonna test them a lot.
My take is to just go to photopheeler, create an account and start testing (it's free after all).
Test 2-3 pictures at a time and always refine them to improve your results.
Ditch the ones with the lower scores, no matter how much you like them.
This process can take up to 60 days, but it's worth it.
3) Tweaking your pics. Use AI and light filters, but first check here for tips on how to choose the best ones and improve your existing pics.
A good example of similar pictures with huge differences in scores:
4) For picture sequencing, I let the app pick the best ones. Usually this default option is better, so don't worry about it and just leave it on.
5) What to write on your profile?
Basic information about you in a fun manner.
e.g.
"(emoji of my country's flag)
So we can save time:
Looking for a partner in crime that is up to date with her therapy sessions
Quick facts about me:
- like to cook
- in the gym since I was 15
- Laker fan
- dancing Bachata every weekend
- will beat you on arm wrestreling
X born with a pipi
X seeking followers or gifts"
No need to go fancy, just be simple and straight to the point without sounding boring.
The objective is to show yourself like a cool guy who has a lot going in life, not a try hard.
6) The rest of your profile.
Do not:
- put your sign (some women are deep into that shit and will disqualify your ass based on your sign)
- put what you are looking for (huuuge no no...literally lost lays because I was super dumb and put I was not looking for anything serious on my profile). Just leave it blank.
- take those shitty personality tests, they only hurt your chances
- put that you want or don't want kids
What you can fill:
- your 5 best interests
- your height (if you are tall)
- where you live and work
7) Age. I tested it out, so if you are over 40 like me it's better to hide your age. I don't lie about it, but you can if you feel it will help you (usually 5 years less is acceptable...more can cause drama when they find out). Either way, you will still match with early 20s if the rest of your profile is amazing.
BONUS TIP: have some pre-selected pictures on your phone ready to send when you get her number. They tend to ask for more pics after you get her contact (or you could have it on an IG profile, either way is fine).
And that's it gents.
As always feel free to comment below.
~POB
Caveats:
- pictures are 90% of the reason you will get matches. The other 10% are the stuff you put on your profile.
- getting matches mean shit if you don't know how to text, so if your texting is still meh, plase check here and here
- you need a proper dating structure!!! You can do the traditional 2-3 dates or the 3-bounce technique for same day pulls. Either way, you have to follow a proven dating structure, or all of your dates won't mean anything...you'll be just wasting time and money.
Now to the breakdown.
1) Use between 3-5 pictures. Don't need to go overboard and put a lot of stuff. 3-5 is more than enough.
Now your pictures must be great and put you in the best light possible! Good does not cut here.
2) Getting pro pics is optional. I like them, but there are a lot of variables involved.
Amateur pics can work too, but it really doesn't matter beacuse you gonna test them a lot.
My take is to just go to photopheeler, create an account and start testing (it's free after all).
Test 2-3 pictures at a time and always refine them to improve your results.
Ditch the ones with the lower scores, no matter how much you like them.
This process can take up to 60 days, but it's worth it.
3) Tweaking your pics. Use AI and light filters, but first check here for tips on how to choose the best ones and improve your existing pics.
A good example of similar pictures with huge differences in scores:
4) For picture sequencing, I let the app pick the best ones. Usually this default option is better, so don't worry about it and just leave it on.
5) What to write on your profile?
Basic information about you in a fun manner.
e.g.
"(emoji of my country's flag)
So we can save time:
Looking for a partner in crime that is up to date with her therapy sessions
Quick facts about me:
- like to cook
- in the gym since I was 15
- Laker fan
- dancing Bachata every weekend
- will beat you on arm wrestreling
X born with a pipi
X seeking followers or gifts"
No need to go fancy, just be simple and straight to the point without sounding boring.
The objective is to show yourself like a cool guy who has a lot going in life, not a try hard.
6) The rest of your profile.
Do not:
- put your sign (some women are deep into that shit and will disqualify your ass based on your sign)
- put what you are looking for (huuuge no no...literally lost lays because I was super dumb and put I was not looking for anything serious on my profile). Just leave it blank.
- take those shitty personality tests, they only hurt your chances
- put that you want or don't want kids
What you can fill:
- your 5 best interests
- your height (if you are tall)
- where you live and work
7) Age. I tested it out, so if you are over 40 like me it's better to hide your age. I don't lie about it, but you can if you feel it will help you (usually 5 years less is acceptable...more can cause drama when they find out). Either way, you will still match with early 20s if the rest of your profile is amazing.
BONUS TIP: have some pre-selected pictures on your phone ready to send when you get her number. They tend to ask for more pics after you get her contact (or you could have it on an IG profile, either way is fine).
And that's it gents.
As always feel free to comment below.
~POB
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