OR/FR: Hot Tub

[Just_Dave]

Disclaimer: I'm in a serious relationship but I still like going out to practice my technique from time to time. This is to put emphasis that a man should always be meeting new women. Because your girlfriend is always having men approach her. The goal is to stay sexy my friends.

Just Dave here,

After I finished working out at the gym I took a trip to the hot tub. I caught a glimpse of my brunette coworker JB (8) and her gorgeous friend Krystal (8) as I rub my blue towel across my head. I could feel their eyes scanning my abs as I slowly approached the beach chairs. I closed my eyes and slowly opened them as I laid the towel across the chair. JB's eyes were locking unto mine, Krystal's eyes were doing the same. I crack a slow smile across my face as I slowly entered the tub. JB excitedly said hey, I took a step into the tub slowing easing my way in as opened my mouth to say "it's been awhile JB." I haven't seen her since the summer before I left to Philadelphia.

JB was wearing a two piece blue bikini, an anchor tattoo placed on the right side of her torso, her nails looked as if they had just been painted. Krystal was a blonde with medium life her tied up in a pony tail, she was a little taller than JB. She had a nice bust that snuggly fit into her pink bikini top. "How have you been?" JB asked as I slowly sat beside her. Krystal was curious about me already.
"I've been well, yourself?" I replied

Observations: No matter which girl I would've taken when I was single, in a hot tub interaction it's best to build a connection with the pair. When it's just the pair, now when three or more meet the friends and then focus on the one you want. Even when you have a girlfriend, keep it to yourself. If they ask good, if they don't whatever. There's no reason to kill your attraction, sometimes having a girl be enticed by your looks reminds you that if you ever were to split with your girlfriend you are still capable of getting another girl. Now Jb did most of the talking in this interaction as I nodded and relaxed most of the time. The less talking you do the better, this enables them to gather interest in what your life is really about.
"Good, just busy finals being a resident advisor." JB replied
Her friend looked anxious to speak "Who's your friend?" I asked nodding in Krystal's direction.
"I'm..Krystal" she said shyly
I moved closer two the pair as I extended my hand "I'm Dave, pleasure to meet you."
I asked the girls how they met as we relaxed in the tub. There was another guy in the tub, but I didn't break the circle so the conversation remained between the three of us. During the interaction itself I made connections and related to them about being a resident adviser on campus, finals, the eagerness to getting an apartment off campus. After I felt catching up was completed, I asked how long they planned on staying there. I only planned on being there until 4:30.
"Well, I have a meeting at 4:30 so we'll have to leave soon." JB
"Very good." I replied
We talked a little bit more until JB and Krystal left for the sauna to dry off and head out.
As they said goodbye, I titled my head to say "Take care." Their amazing backsides filled my view as I sat back in the tub relaxing. The follow in the hot tub looked at me in amazement. I just closed my eyes and drifted off to sleep.

 

[Eternity]

Sounds like Krystal is attracted to u. Keep her on the loop, u never know like u stated above when u might want her company
Would u close on one of these girls if given the chance or would u pass?

 

[Just_Dave]

Sounds like Krystal is attracted to u. Keep her on the loop, u never know like u stated above when u might want her company
Would u close on one of these girls if given the chance or would u pass?

To answer your question as honestly as possible without bringing morals and focusing more on seduction the answer would be no. The reason is because Krystal is part of a social circle with my coworker. This goes into the whole idea of "hooking up with friends", it's more work than good. I may not think much of hooking up with Krystal but JB has shown signs of interest toward me. Girls can get petty, jealous and rather cock blocky because of the "I saw him first" mentality comes into play. I have tons of observations on that. This is where having a girlfriend comes in handy because I can talk to whomever I please. Because at the end of the day whether the girl likes me or not isn't a factor. Because I know what she doesn't know, "I have a girlfriend." She can feel how ever she wants to about me , I'm able to remain calm and focus better on evaluating the interaction better because I got someone back at home.

Its like going to the store to look at boots, I have a good pair of boots at home but it doesn't hurt to look at the market from time to time just in case it's time to upgrade and at what cost.

 

[Eternity]

Sounds like Krystal is attracted to u. Keep her on the loop, u never know like u stated above when u might want her company
Would u close on one of these girls if given the chance or would u pass?

To answer your question as honestly as possible without bringing morals and focusing more on seduction the answer would be no. The reason is because Krystal is part of a social circle with my coworker. This goes into the whole idea of "hooking up with friends", it's more work than good. I may not think much of hooking up with Krystal but JB has shown signs of interest toward me. Girls can get petty, jealous and rather cock blocky because of the "I saw him first" mentality comes into play. I have tons of observations on that. This is where having a girlfriend comes in handy because I can talk to whomever I please. Because at the end of the day whether the girl likes me or not isn't a factor. Because I know what she doesn't know, "I have a girlfriend." She can feel how ever she wants to about me , I'm able to remain calm and focus better on evaluating the interaction better because I got someone back at home.

Its like going to the store to look at boots, I have a good pair of boots at home but it doesn't hurt to look at the market from time to time just in case it's time to upgrade and at what cost.

Oh, your're right, I thought u didn't see each other much and it seemed like it was a casual meeting between the 3 of u. I think if u really have strong feelings towards ur girl then yeah there is no reason to stray. But like u said its good to be prepared just in case...

 

[Just_Dave]

Oh, your're right, I thought u didn't see each other much and it seemed like it was a casual meeting between the 3 of u. I think if u really have strong feelings towards ur girl then yeah there is no reason to stray. But like u said its good to be prepared just in case...

All Good Eternity,

I think the best mentality to have in a relationship is not to look at things in a so much black and white perspective. In France, they're more comfortable with the idea of flirting because it doesn't mean anything. My girlfriend has told me stories of guys hitting on her, I just laugh it off and tell her "That just means I'm sleeping with a very sexy woman".