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Period time. GF depressed/crying/angry. In this situation -> Yelling at her often makes her happy. What is going on?

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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I don't understand. She often ends up happy after I yell at her and the drama stops and says she is happy I expressed my thought.

What the fuck? And also how do I navigate GF's period?
 

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Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Yeah, she doesn't feel like she gets enough attention and connection with you because you view her as a roommate you barely tolerate so that you have a place to live. She gets that you're not really in this with her and this is just going to keep getting worse over time until it drives you crazy.

And what exactly are you trying to navigate?
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Yeah, she doesn't feel like she gets enough attention and connection with you because you view her as a roommate you barely tolerate so that you have a place to live.
Want to add onto this and say that you “yelling”, which is really just you getting emotional. Show’s her that you care about whatever it is you’re yelling over.

Since she already knows you’re using her for room and board it probably feels nice to know that you can still show a little emotional investment.
 
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