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- Feb 15, 2020
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Texting
Matched on tinder with a cute 26 yr old redhead who is petite and thin. Simple message exchange and set up a date pretty quick within a day. I took some texting coaching from Hector. I have also read his book which was the basis of most of my texting. I was going to meet her near the Metro to grab bubble tea. She gave me her number showing high interest. We did some text exchange before the date. She had some confusion with the location so a little more texting but most of the texting was logistics.
Date
Bubble tea
We decide to grab bubble tea and I pick a spot close where I sit next to her. Initially the conversation is pretty simple about what we do for work, education and hobby. I chase frame but telling her that her cheek looks pink as she's blushing at me. She laughs and says that's her usual make up but sure. We start talking about travel and where she wants to travel and her aspirations. I share about my travels and adventure and do some story telling. I notice her voice gets more high pitch, things women do to get more attractive. She shifts her body and is fully facing me which is a very positive sign as more open.
Then I tease her that she's using me to get travel tips to make her chase me. She tells me she hasn't traveled much and that she had a difficult childhood and hasn't had much money and she's been struggling with health issues and wasn't well for long. I share how my friend had the same condition and thread cut on how she's fought it and turn the conversation positive. Then I moved to talk about food and we start talking about what we like eat and cook. I tell her that I'm trying to lose weight so I have been meal prepping and she tells me she used to weigh a lot more with much bigger boobs. I asked how much bigger and she replied a 34 DD. I tell her that would have helped her steal all her friends boyfriend but also compliment that her racks are a good size and look great. She smiles and accepts the compliment. This is usually a bad idea to comment on a woman's body but as she gave the opener I followed in.
We start taking about fashion and how to dress as per season. We talk a little about art philosophy and color theory. I talk a little on Indian philosophy and their view on design. I see that she's still fully turned towards me and there's very strong eye contact so I decided to do a little kino. I touch a mark in her leg just underneath her skirt and below her leggings and ask what was the mark. She told me a story on how her cat scratched her. We talk about her tattoos and other such marks and I keep touching her with no resistance. I talk about next sex stories of my friends. Thankfully Tom has given me enough material about his exploits to entertain an army. I don't prefer to talk about my sexual experience or hers as it might make me or her look like a whore. She's very receptive and contributed which is a very positive note. It's an hour and I decided to bounce. I asked if she likes to play pool and she said yes with a huge smile, attraction level 7 she's willing to move with me. While walking to the bar I decided to check attraction and decided to hold hands and she did without any inhibition so I was at attraction level 8, made a mind note.
Billard's bar
We get a table and I get a beer as she doesn't want to drink. We talk more about work. I tease her a little on how she's a pro at pool and playing cool. We talk more sexual stuff and she talks about her experience as a Victoria models retail associate ending up to pick-up wet undies. I tease her that she must have gotten a lot of lingerie after working there and she blushes. Then she goes in to complain how bras are actually uncomfortable and I tease if she is a breather who is anti-bar.. Then asked her if she was wearing one and she laughed and said ofc. I keep hi-fi and hugs as we hit balls. She hugs me pretty tight. I realize it's the right moment and go for a kiss and she kissed back so we are at attraction level 9. I pull back leaving her wanting for more.
Then we have more conversations which are light and more kisses but I'm always the first to pull back. I will the first game and we do a move make out to celebrate. We play another game and she is do far vibing well and responding beer positive to my compliments and touch. She puts the legs on top of the table and I tease her that the Asian guy is looking at her panties. She smiles and says she's fine and I respond so you're wearing a Victoria secret one. She smiles and playfully and says no. I'm doing bad and I tell Blame her for distracting me. She played along and says how she's a witch and she's cursed me.
I lose the next one and ask her if she's hungry and she says she can have some food. We walk to a restaurant holding hands but after seeing mochi donuts we make a quick stop. We share each other's donuts and she tells if she really likes someone she gives them the last piece of food and feeds me her last piece of donut. I kiss her in return. On the way to the restaurant she tells me how she used to have freckles and fucked a guy and when he woke up and didn't see the freckles he was in shock. I tease her for throwing tricks on innocent guys and if she's planning on tricking me and she's laughs
Restaurant
We go for some Asian food. I order us some dumplings and noodles. We get into more deep conversations. She wanted to talk about her relationship with her family which was strained and her troubles with her ex. I let her talk and keep thread cutting and turning things into a positive note. I share my experiences which are not that excessive and extreme but try to empathize with her. Most work here was connection and comfort building as I believe there's sufficient compliance and arousal. The restaurant closes at 10:00 so we finish up and I invite her to hang out at my place and watch some series and she ready obliges. I walk her to my apartment right opposite.
Home
The pull was relatively simple. I let her into my house and take her coat and kiss. Then I show her around my place and take her to the bedroom finally. She tells that I wasn't bringing her into my bedroom to show her the closet right. I said of course not and I start kissing and making out. So the clothes come off one by one with no LMR and baby we are at attraction level 10 finally.
Pros and Cons
What I did right in this whole seduction was I realized that high signs of interest and kept escalating and validating attraction level. I tried to cut the sad stories without ignoring her but changing to a positive note using thread cutting. I kept Chase framing on how she's was chasing me and made her a part of the seduction. I also kept touching from the start and balancing emotional connection, sexual arousal and compliance. I maybe could have pulled sooner but didn't want to risk a sure thing. This was a case of high interest consumer so the process was very smooth.
Matched on tinder with a cute 26 yr old redhead who is petite and thin. Simple message exchange and set up a date pretty quick within a day. I took some texting coaching from Hector. I have also read his book which was the basis of most of my texting. I was going to meet her near the Metro to grab bubble tea. She gave me her number showing high interest. We did some text exchange before the date. She had some confusion with the location so a little more texting but most of the texting was logistics.
Date
Bubble tea
We decide to grab bubble tea and I pick a spot close where I sit next to her. Initially the conversation is pretty simple about what we do for work, education and hobby. I chase frame but telling her that her cheek looks pink as she's blushing at me. She laughs and says that's her usual make up but sure. We start talking about travel and where she wants to travel and her aspirations. I share about my travels and adventure and do some story telling. I notice her voice gets more high pitch, things women do to get more attractive. She shifts her body and is fully facing me which is a very positive sign as more open.
Then I tease her that she's using me to get travel tips to make her chase me. She tells me she hasn't traveled much and that she had a difficult childhood and hasn't had much money and she's been struggling with health issues and wasn't well for long. I share how my friend had the same condition and thread cut on how she's fought it and turn the conversation positive. Then I moved to talk about food and we start talking about what we like eat and cook. I tell her that I'm trying to lose weight so I have been meal prepping and she tells me she used to weigh a lot more with much bigger boobs. I asked how much bigger and she replied a 34 DD. I tell her that would have helped her steal all her friends boyfriend but also compliment that her racks are a good size and look great. She smiles and accepts the compliment. This is usually a bad idea to comment on a woman's body but as she gave the opener I followed in.
We start taking about fashion and how to dress as per season. We talk a little about art philosophy and color theory. I talk a little on Indian philosophy and their view on design. I see that she's still fully turned towards me and there's very strong eye contact so I decided to do a little kino. I touch a mark in her leg just underneath her skirt and below her leggings and ask what was the mark. She told me a story on how her cat scratched her. We talk about her tattoos and other such marks and I keep touching her with no resistance. I talk about next sex stories of my friends. Thankfully Tom has given me enough material about his exploits to entertain an army. I don't prefer to talk about my sexual experience or hers as it might make me or her look like a whore. She's very receptive and contributed which is a very positive note. It's an hour and I decided to bounce. I asked if she likes to play pool and she said yes with a huge smile, attraction level 7 she's willing to move with me. While walking to the bar I decided to check attraction and decided to hold hands and she did without any inhibition so I was at attraction level 8, made a mind note.
Billard's bar
We get a table and I get a beer as she doesn't want to drink. We talk more about work. I tease her a little on how she's a pro at pool and playing cool. We talk more sexual stuff and she talks about her experience as a Victoria models retail associate ending up to pick-up wet undies. I tease her that she must have gotten a lot of lingerie after working there and she blushes. Then she goes in to complain how bras are actually uncomfortable and I tease if she is a breather who is anti-bar.. Then asked her if she was wearing one and she laughed and said ofc. I keep hi-fi and hugs as we hit balls. She hugs me pretty tight. I realize it's the right moment and go for a kiss and she kissed back so we are at attraction level 9. I pull back leaving her wanting for more.
Then we have more conversations which are light and more kisses but I'm always the first to pull back. I will the first game and we do a move make out to celebrate. We play another game and she is do far vibing well and responding beer positive to my compliments and touch. She puts the legs on top of the table and I tease her that the Asian guy is looking at her panties. She smiles and says she's fine and I respond so you're wearing a Victoria secret one. She smiles and playfully and says no. I'm doing bad and I tell Blame her for distracting me. She played along and says how she's a witch and she's cursed me.
I lose the next one and ask her if she's hungry and she says she can have some food. We walk to a restaurant holding hands but after seeing mochi donuts we make a quick stop. We share each other's donuts and she tells if she really likes someone she gives them the last piece of food and feeds me her last piece of donut. I kiss her in return. On the way to the restaurant she tells me how she used to have freckles and fucked a guy and when he woke up and didn't see the freckles he was in shock. I tease her for throwing tricks on innocent guys and if she's planning on tricking me and she's laughs
Restaurant
We go for some Asian food. I order us some dumplings and noodles. We get into more deep conversations. She wanted to talk about her relationship with her family which was strained and her troubles with her ex. I let her talk and keep thread cutting and turning things into a positive note. I share my experiences which are not that excessive and extreme but try to empathize with her. Most work here was connection and comfort building as I believe there's sufficient compliance and arousal. The restaurant closes at 10:00 so we finish up and I invite her to hang out at my place and watch some series and she ready obliges. I walk her to my apartment right opposite.
Home
The pull was relatively simple. I let her into my house and take her coat and kiss. Then I show her around my place and take her to the bedroom finally. She tells that I wasn't bringing her into my bedroom to show her the closet right. I said of course not and I start kissing and making out. So the clothes come off one by one with no LMR and baby we are at attraction level 10 finally.
Pros and Cons
What I did right in this whole seduction was I realized that high signs of interest and kept escalating and validating attraction level. I tried to cut the sad stories without ignoring her but changing to a positive note using thread cutting. I kept Chase framing on how she's was chasing me and made her a part of the seduction. I also kept touching from the start and balancing emotional connection, sexual arousal and compliance. I maybe could have pulled sooner but didn't want to risk a sure thing. This was a case of high interest consumer so the process was very smooth.
