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So I am hitting the pavement hard both in day game and now a little night game trying to score a “succulent & sultry” Lover for Halloween - and the Haunted Houses in Los Angeles.
Writing to see if anyone has experience with this!
I am consistently experiencing these9 and 10 females so I have to figure out how to approach and hook them…
Last week, I had a meet-up I was planning to push to a close with a young early 20’s super cute Latina (I’m in my mid-thirties) who I day gamed last Monday. But early Thurs morning she flaked with an excuse of being sick, and didn’t offer a reschedule…
Then I did a decent pick up with a mid-twenties cute hipster downtown on Friday, but in talking with her I found out that she use to do meth with her ex, and then she’s living at some guys house who is going to jail for something, and something about another guy she passed out with who tried to take her pants and panties off - but the previous guy going to jail saved her - Ohh Man - forehead slap!!!
(I let her drift off. She did not look crazy like this initially)
Both were around that 7 to 8 level. Anything below 7 & 8 auto-reject me. However even approaching several 9’s and 10’s last week I can’t seem to Hook Them, and am trying to figure out what I am doing, or not doing to break through to them - rather than these 7’s and 8’s…
Don’t get me wrong, I was totally ready to try close that cute young Latina - if she wouldn’t have flaked. I know where I messed up in the text game to lose her, so I know how to fix that.
But I did a post no one responded to last week or so about the Tall Russian 10 at the busstop in Chinatown last week. Then last Monday there were three 10’s I approached. One legitimately was like - can’t talk I’m trying to catch that bus there on Sunset Blvd - she ran across the street and jumped on the bus. Later at the same Starbucks in Burbank where I met the young Latina in the morning, in the evening I did a pretty awesome set with a knockout Uzbekistani Woman who was a Financial Planner - but she’s in a 2 year relationship and is waiting/hoping her guy will propose to her in December.
The one 10 that was frustrating that same day, also on Sunset 5’10, a model, face looked like Jennifer Lawrence. She was dressed down - hiding, I call it - in an oversized black t-shirt hiding this amazing voluptuous body, and hanging over her leggings awesome figure underneath that.
I got nervous, and blanked on a decent open so I used a basic compliment opener
ME: “Excuse me, I just had to tell you that you’ve got a real Jennifer Lawrence thing going on here” - Gesturing the face.
HER: “Thanks for the compliment. I’m running late for pi-lates class, can’t talk, take care”
She turned and kept walking, but not in any rushed pace, which makes me think - she wasn’t really running late - I had a bad approach…
It stunned pretty good, and has kinda spooked me from trying to game similar females at her level in the same area on Sunset, in Echo Park, and in West Hollywood.
Also, I still have that self consciousness about not being a Ryan Gosling or Elon Musk - but the only way to get over that is to push myself and approach as many of these 9’s and 10’s like above!
So I reworked my opener - which I guess worked on that Flamboyant Drug Girl (who is an attention seeker) downtown. It’s a push pull I picked up from a guy whose In-field I watch online…
“Excuse, me, you have a real interesting thing going on here (gesture face, or clothing), I had to come over and see if you’re personality is as cool as your look?”
And then I’m trying to figure out how to structure the set from there.
For some reason I forget to introduce myself a lot in the beginning, and like with the Flamboyant Drug Girl - I go into: “So what do you got going on now? Where are you headed?”
And I try see if I can walk with her…
I do try and remember a (real) time constraint so she’s not like - oh man I don’t want this guy to hang on me!!
(Between us, I’m usually doing ubereats right now, and have to go anyway, but I don’t let her know that…)
Then my focus is to try and tease her, continue push pulls, and try and get her to qualify herself.
Qualifying herself - for some reason the 7’s and 8’s begin qualifying themselves easily, but the 9’s and 10’s buck - and almost become bitchy about it - as if “who am I to try and qualify them??”
I had one 9 in Chinatown last week who I opened with - “Excuse, me, you have a real interesting thing going on here (gesture face, or clothing), I had to come over and see if you’re personality is as cool as your look?”
And her response was - Frown, “Thanks for the compliment” and she turned around and walked directly away from me…
I was like - wait, what??
She was dressed eclectically and looked almost exactly like Milla Jovovich in 5th Element, except she had platinum blonde hair, not orange. She was in the Fashion Industry somehow…
I have more stuff, but this is pretty long.
What’s the groups take, especially since I am going to this event Thursday night here:
https://houseofspiritssoiree.com/?u...&utm_campaign=193660_lax&utm_term=header_logo
In which there will be A LOT of 9’s and 10’s!
Went last year. But there are a lot of two-sets too, which is another question…
Curious about the groups thoughts!
- Adam C
So I am hitting the pavement hard both in day game and now a little night game trying to score a “succulent & sultry” Lover for Halloween - and the Haunted Houses in Los Angeles.
Writing to see if anyone has experience with this!
I am consistently experiencing these9 and 10 females so I have to figure out how to approach and hook them…
Last week, I had a meet-up I was planning to push to a close with a young early 20’s super cute Latina (I’m in my mid-thirties) who I day gamed last Monday. But early Thurs morning she flaked with an excuse of being sick, and didn’t offer a reschedule…
Then I did a decent pick up with a mid-twenties cute hipster downtown on Friday, but in talking with her I found out that she use to do meth with her ex, and then she’s living at some guys house who is going to jail for something, and something about another guy she passed out with who tried to take her pants and panties off - but the previous guy going to jail saved her - Ohh Man - forehead slap!!!
(I let her drift off. She did not look crazy like this initially)
Both were around that 7 to 8 level. Anything below 7 & 8 auto-reject me. However even approaching several 9’s and 10’s last week I can’t seem to Hook Them, and am trying to figure out what I am doing, or not doing to break through to them - rather than these 7’s and 8’s…
Don’t get me wrong, I was totally ready to try close that cute young Latina - if she wouldn’t have flaked. I know where I messed up in the text game to lose her, so I know how to fix that.
But I did a post no one responded to last week or so about the Tall Russian 10 at the busstop in Chinatown last week. Then last Monday there were three 10’s I approached. One legitimately was like - can’t talk I’m trying to catch that bus there on Sunset Blvd - she ran across the street and jumped on the bus. Later at the same Starbucks in Burbank where I met the young Latina in the morning, in the evening I did a pretty awesome set with a knockout Uzbekistani Woman who was a Financial Planner - but she’s in a 2 year relationship and is waiting/hoping her guy will propose to her in December.
The one 10 that was frustrating that same day, also on Sunset 5’10, a model, face looked like Jennifer Lawrence. She was dressed down - hiding, I call it - in an oversized black t-shirt hiding this amazing voluptuous body, and hanging over her leggings awesome figure underneath that.
I got nervous, and blanked on a decent open so I used a basic compliment opener
ME: “Excuse me, I just had to tell you that you’ve got a real Jennifer Lawrence thing going on here” - Gesturing the face.
HER: “Thanks for the compliment. I’m running late for pi-lates class, can’t talk, take care”
She turned and kept walking, but not in any rushed pace, which makes me think - she wasn’t really running late - I had a bad approach…
It stunned pretty good, and has kinda spooked me from trying to game similar females at her level in the same area on Sunset, in Echo Park, and in West Hollywood.
Also, I still have that self consciousness about not being a Ryan Gosling or Elon Musk - but the only way to get over that is to push myself and approach as many of these 9’s and 10’s like above!
So I reworked my opener - which I guess worked on that Flamboyant Drug Girl (who is an attention seeker) downtown. It’s a push pull I picked up from a guy whose In-field I watch online…
“Excuse, me, you have a real interesting thing going on here (gesture face, or clothing), I had to come over and see if you’re personality is as cool as your look?”
And then I’m trying to figure out how to structure the set from there.
For some reason I forget to introduce myself a lot in the beginning, and like with the Flamboyant Drug Girl - I go into: “So what do you got going on now? Where are you headed?”
And I try see if I can walk with her…
I do try and remember a (real) time constraint so she’s not like - oh man I don’t want this guy to hang on me!!
(Between us, I’m usually doing ubereats right now, and have to go anyway, but I don’t let her know that…)
Then my focus is to try and tease her, continue push pulls, and try and get her to qualify herself.
Qualifying herself - for some reason the 7’s and 8’s begin qualifying themselves easily, but the 9’s and 10’s buck - and almost become bitchy about it - as if “who am I to try and qualify them??”
I had one 9 in Chinatown last week who I opened with - “Excuse, me, you have a real interesting thing going on here (gesture face, or clothing), I had to come over and see if you’re personality is as cool as your look?”
And her response was - Frown, “Thanks for the compliment” and she turned around and walked directly away from me…
I was like - wait, what??
She was dressed eclectically and looked almost exactly like Milla Jovovich in 5th Element, except she had platinum blonde hair, not orange. She was in the Fashion Industry somehow…
I have more stuff, but this is pretty long.
What’s the groups take, especially since I am going to this event Thursday night here:
https://houseofspiritssoiree.com/?u...&utm_campaign=193660_lax&utm_term=header_logo
In which there will be A LOT of 9’s and 10’s!
Went last year. But there are a lot of two-sets too, which is another question…
Curious about the groups thoughts!
- Adam C
