Approached a girl from behind. Below is the conversation during a pickup. Seems there can be improvement but not sure where.
Me: "Hi"
Her: "Hi"
Me: "Just now I walk pass by I saw you. I think you are attractive. Just come to say hi"
Her: "Oh hi haha. I thought my stuff fell off or something."
Me: "What are you doing right now"
Her: "I am going to go home because later on I have company dinner"
Me: "Oh company dinner. But today you attire is quite casual tho."
Her: "Ah yes, because today is my off day haha"
Me: "I see. How old are you"
Her: "You guess haha"
Me: "Hmm...Looks like 30 something"
Her: "30 something? Which number haha"
Me: "This is bit hard to know. But I am thinking about 31 or 32"
Her: "Yes. How about you?"
Me: "I let you guess haha"
Her: "Also about the same age?"
Me: "30 something?"
Her: "Yes"
Me: "I am a bit younger than you actually"
Her: "Younger than me? oh ok ok. sorry about that haha"
Me: "But I am approaching 30 already"
Her: "So you born in 90s?"
Me: "Yes you are correct on this. You are born not in 90s I guess?"
Her: "I am also born in 90s haha"
Me: "Because you clothing slightly mature. 20 something they usually won't wear like this."
Her: "Yes yes, nowadays some 20 something also wear like this haha"
Me: "20 something will wear something else. I feel yours more toward office lady that kind of style, giving me a career-woman vibe"
Her: "Oh okay haha"
Me: "But not sure if you actually this kind of person"
Her: "Oh okay actually I am haha"
Me: "So what do you do"
Her: "I am doing something similar to marketing"
Me: "Sounds exhausting, because you need to go out to different places and meet new clients"
Her: "Yes. I just recently starting this job. Previously I do HR, financing, accounting this kind of stuffs"
Me: "It's more towards admin?"
Her: "Yes"
Me: "That's quite a big change from admin to marketing. What make you want to change?"
Her: "Because I feel like changing haha. More challenging."
Me: "Because marketing is more an extrovert position"
Her: "Don't want to always be trapped in the office, so want to try another role"
Me: "I rarely hear people make such a big move"
Her: "Actually quite many. Many of my friends also change job like this. It depends on the person. If someone want to try new challenges, can try new things. If not suitable then can come back to old job. Just get experience, so there's nothing to lose."
Me: "Sounds like you like challenging stuff"
Her: "Ya, it's more fun haha. So are you from here?"
Me: "No, I am from xxx"
Her: "Oh I know. I been there few times before for work purpose, last year. But now seldom go there. So you work here?"
Me: "I come here for shopping. This is my first time at this mall."
Her: "Oh first time? So you drive to this mall?"
Me: "Yes, I drive by myself"
Her: "Oh okay okay"
Me: "You stay nearby here"
Her: "Yes I stay nearby. I work here, but I am originally not from this place"
Me: "I see. So where do you come from?"
Her: "Do you know xyz?"
Me: "Never heard before haha."
Me: "Have you been approached by guys before?"
Her: "No haha."
Me: "First time?"
Her: "Yes hahaha"
Me: "No wonder when I called you, you face looked stunned. Makes me seem like a bad guy haha."
Her: "Haha. Usually I will be careful when going out. Because these days crime is not good. Last year around this time, I was nearly being robbed. So I think it's normal if my reaction is big, since I am alone going out I have to be careful."
Me: "I am going to meet my friend now. Before I go, can I add your whatsapp"
Her: "Oh whatsapp. Ya okay, we can make friends"
Me: "Oh I don't make friends"
Her: "Oh okay"
(proceed to get number)
Her: "How should I call you?"
Me: "You can call me steven"
Her: "Steven. okay, later you miss call me"
Me: "I will text you later"
Texting so far:
Me: Hey I just got back home. How's company dinner?
Her: Hey, everything went smoothly
Me: Looks like good business.
Her: Thanks. I guess you approached many girl
?
Me: What do you think
Her: I guess so
Me: Why should I approach so many girls
. Being able to connect with the girl is important for me. If I feel I can't connect, then I won't continue.
Her: So I guess I am the one with good connection
Me: Need to talk to you more before I can know haha
Me: "Hi"
Her: "Hi"
Me: "Just now I walk pass by I saw you. I think you are attractive. Just come to say hi"
Her: "Oh hi haha. I thought my stuff fell off or something."
Me: "What are you doing right now"
Her: "I am going to go home because later on I have company dinner"
Me: "Oh company dinner. But today you attire is quite casual tho."
Her: "Ah yes, because today is my off day haha"
Me: "I see. How old are you"
Her: "You guess haha"
Me: "Hmm...Looks like 30 something"
Her: "30 something? Which number haha"
Me: "This is bit hard to know. But I am thinking about 31 or 32"
Her: "Yes. How about you?"
Me: "I let you guess haha"
Her: "Also about the same age?"
Me: "30 something?"
Her: "Yes"
Me: "I am a bit younger than you actually"
Her: "Younger than me? oh ok ok. sorry about that haha"
Me: "But I am approaching 30 already"
Her: "So you born in 90s?"
Me: "Yes you are correct on this. You are born not in 90s I guess?"
Her: "I am also born in 90s haha"
Me: "Because you clothing slightly mature. 20 something they usually won't wear like this."
Her: "Yes yes, nowadays some 20 something also wear like this haha"
Me: "20 something will wear something else. I feel yours more toward office lady that kind of style, giving me a career-woman vibe"
Her: "Oh okay haha"
Me: "But not sure if you actually this kind of person"
Her: "Oh okay actually I am haha"
Me: "So what do you do"
Her: "I am doing something similar to marketing"
Me: "Sounds exhausting, because you need to go out to different places and meet new clients"
Her: "Yes. I just recently starting this job. Previously I do HR, financing, accounting this kind of stuffs"
Me: "It's more towards admin?"
Her: "Yes"
Me: "That's quite a big change from admin to marketing. What make you want to change?"
Her: "Because I feel like changing haha. More challenging."
Me: "Because marketing is more an extrovert position"
Her: "Don't want to always be trapped in the office, so want to try another role"
Me: "I rarely hear people make such a big move"
Her: "Actually quite many. Many of my friends also change job like this. It depends on the person. If someone want to try new challenges, can try new things. If not suitable then can come back to old job. Just get experience, so there's nothing to lose."
Me: "Sounds like you like challenging stuff"
Her: "Ya, it's more fun haha. So are you from here?"
Me: "No, I am from xxx"
Her: "Oh I know. I been there few times before for work purpose, last year. But now seldom go there. So you work here?"
Me: "I come here for shopping. This is my first time at this mall."
Her: "Oh first time? So you drive to this mall?"
Me: "Yes, I drive by myself"
Her: "Oh okay okay"
Me: "You stay nearby here"
Her: "Yes I stay nearby. I work here, but I am originally not from this place"
Me: "I see. So where do you come from?"
Her: "Do you know xyz?"
Me: "Never heard before haha."
Me: "Have you been approached by guys before?"
Her: "No haha."
Me: "First time?"
Her: "Yes hahaha"
Me: "No wonder when I called you, you face looked stunned. Makes me seem like a bad guy haha."
Her: "Haha. Usually I will be careful when going out. Because these days crime is not good. Last year around this time, I was nearly being robbed. So I think it's normal if my reaction is big, since I am alone going out I have to be careful."
Me: "I am going to meet my friend now. Before I go, can I add your whatsapp"
Her: "Oh whatsapp. Ya okay, we can make friends"
Me: "Oh I don't make friends"
Her: "Oh okay"
(proceed to get number)
Her: "How should I call you?"
Me: "You can call me steven"
Her: "Steven. okay, later you miss call me"
Me: "I will text you later"
Texting so far:
Me: Hey I just got back home. How's company dinner?
Her: Hey, everything went smoothly
Me: Looks like good business.
Her: Thanks. I guess you approached many girl
?Me: What do you think
Her: I guess so
Me: Why should I approach so many girls
. Being able to connect with the girl is important for me. If I feel I can't connect, then I won't continue.Her: So I guess I am the one with good connection
Me: Need to talk to you more before I can know haha
