Please help

[Anonymous]

Hi,
I really need some advice as to what to do. I asked a girl out 3 days ago and I still have had no reply, I have given her time but I am starting to get concerned. We are usually always texting and we see eachother about 3 times a week as we are both in single sex grammar schools. I have had a very bad year (2012) and she has helped me through thick and thin and i can tell her anything and that works both ways as I have given her advice on personal subjects several times. I really care about her and she is amazing and it is crushing how I have had no response, any tips?

 

[Franco]

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- Franco

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Hi,
I really need some advice as to what to do. I asked a girl out 3 days ago and I still have had no reply, I have given her time but I am starting to get concerned. We are usually always texting and we see eachother about 3 times a week as we are both in single sex grammar schools. I have had a very bad year (2012) and she has helped me through thick and thin and i can tell her anything and that works both ways as I have given her advice on personal subjects several times. I really care about her and she is amazing and it is crushing how I have had no response, any tips?

It sounds like you have been friendzoned. She might be trying to avoid you until you back off in order to preserve your friendship. My advice is to forget this one, and to focus on other girls. The only chance you have of getting with her is to learn how to be smooth and sexual, and then to back off for a while before you come in for the kill. It doesn't sound like you are either of those at the moment, so I would work on that first. I wish I could give you a magic bullet that would make things work for you, but unfortunately, life doesn't work that way, and there are no easy fixes. I've been in your position. Hell, I'm still in that position with one girl. What you have to learn is that, as cliche as it sounds, there are other fish in the sea, and that if you have it that bad for a girl, it's not going to end well. Sorry dude

For further reading,
https://www.girlschase.com/content/just- ... -nightmare
https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant- ... more-girls

 

[Anonymous]

Thanks, you are probably right I will back off. Thanks for the advice