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I wrote an old post a few months ago.
I noted to Oh Pry that 'sometimes my teammates don't tell me things'. (It is a great quote from Captain America In Age of Ultron)
Oh Pry was a senior member here and have had many success recently, until he left.
Apparently Oh Pry thought that everyone gang up on him to attack him on a post when really, it is more to circumstances that created itself more than anything else.
Most members were dumbfounded while some members were so happy for him to leave.
Not a lot of them but enough of them.
Here's the thing.
I realize that while my post which clarifies on 'being on the unfortunate end of the broom stick' happens.
It's not practical.
It implies that I am like most fathers, most CEOs, most direct bosses and most mentors who are just not connected to the ground people.
It just doesn't work.
I have been noticing too Bro-Y attitudes on GC topics whenever someone has a different angle, approach and understanding on a certain topic.
Members who act bro-y but cowers and redirect topics when they get confronted and with great answers. Worse, this are members who have been here a long time!
They think that jabbing another member wins them a fully paid Girlschase trip to a private island with only waitresses and lots of women lying naked on the beaches.
Super weird.
No, I'm not talking about you DK!!
But
I reaffirm that this forum has politics.
This is unfortunate but this is how it is when humans are together in a tribe.
So, I have to start TROLLING. I'm going to give jabs here and there, just visible enough for everyone to see. Just visible enough for the moderators to notice but not strong enough for everyone to flag it as a 'hate post'.
Because unfortunately, that is the game, whenever humans are involved in a tribe, together.
I'm doing this Because I'm more interested in finding the end goal. What are we discovering. What are we able to find. Little nuances that seems superficial. Little notes here and there that might trigger us to be better at pickup and in life.
And in order to do that, I need to do those things.
(Sidenote. High level stuff: Even if you care about the end goal, or you are honest, people still perceive you from their own state. Thus there's a gap. Mental and/or Physical Gap means that they need to trust you/attention/perceive you first)
So yea..
Sidenote. If you do not hold the loud girl at arms length, the soft girl will run away. Muhammad and Jesus had great message but the religion becomes idiot after the prophet and it's core members died.
It's just how it is everywhere.
But it is quite interesting indeed that I get an epiphany,
- why middle management is "bitter"
- why Donald Trump won
- the knowledge gap
I know where to go from here. Perfect.
Zac
I noted to Oh Pry that 'sometimes my teammates don't tell me things'. (It is a great quote from Captain America In Age of Ultron)
Oh Pry was a senior member here and have had many success recently, until he left.
Apparently Oh Pry thought that everyone gang up on him to attack him on a post when really, it is more to circumstances that created itself more than anything else.
Most members were dumbfounded while some members were so happy for him to leave.
Not a lot of them but enough of them.
Here's the thing.
I realize that while my post which clarifies on 'being on the unfortunate end of the broom stick' happens.
It's not practical.
It implies that I am like most fathers, most CEOs, most direct bosses and most mentors who are just not connected to the ground people.
It just doesn't work.
I have been noticing too Bro-Y attitudes on GC topics whenever someone has a different angle, approach and understanding on a certain topic.
Members who act bro-y but cowers and redirect topics when they get confronted and with great answers. Worse, this are members who have been here a long time!
They think that jabbing another member wins them a fully paid Girlschase trip to a private island with only waitresses and lots of women lying naked on the beaches.
Super weird.
No, I'm not talking about you DK!!
But
I reaffirm that this forum has politics.
This is unfortunate but this is how it is when humans are together in a tribe.
So, I have to start TROLLING. I'm going to give jabs here and there, just visible enough for everyone to see. Just visible enough for the moderators to notice but not strong enough for everyone to flag it as a 'hate post'.
Because unfortunately, that is the game, whenever humans are involved in a tribe, together.
I'm doing this Because I'm more interested in finding the end goal. What are we discovering. What are we able to find. Little nuances that seems superficial. Little notes here and there that might trigger us to be better at pickup and in life.
And in order to do that, I need to do those things.
(Sidenote. High level stuff: Even if you care about the end goal, or you are honest, people still perceive you from their own state. Thus there's a gap. Mental and/or Physical Gap means that they need to trust you/attention/perceive you first)
So yea..
Sidenote. If you do not hold the loud girl at arms length, the soft girl will run away. Muhammad and Jesus had great message but the religion becomes idiot after the prophet and it's core members died.
It's just how it is everywhere.
But it is quite interesting indeed that I get an epiphany,
- why middle management is "bitter"
- why Donald Trump won
- the knowledge gap
I know where to go from here. Perfect.
Zac