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Bismarck

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I was seeing a Japanese girl that I street stopped literally outside my building about a month ago. We had been together three times:
Yesterday I did a tour in the morning. After that, I went home to eat a late lunch. Then, I had invited her over so we could cook dumplings ("gyoza") together. She showed up cute as usual in a long skirt and short top.

As we cooked I would hold her waist, grope her buttcheeks, kiss and bite her neck, and we even made out at one point. The food was ready and we ate it together. After the dishes were done, and the kitchenette area had been cleaned up, we were suddenly lying on my bed, kissing each other passionately. One thing led to another and we were both naked and I went inside her raw again. She was delicious. And I couldn't resist her. So I came inside her.

She was shocked and asked what had just happened. I said I had a hard time controlling myself. She seemed to think I had done it on purpose. I asked her if she was on the pill. She said she was. I said, "Ok then." She said "Not ok", then said "Go get me some paper" (in retrospect, due to the disrespectful tone she adopted, I should have told her to go get it herself) I got up. I went to get her the toilet roll, she cleaned up on the bed, then went into the WC to finish up, came back, got her clothes on, and left, calling me "selfish" on her way out.

Luckily, I had been invited to a BBQ that had begun a few hours prior, so I got dressed, hopped on an e-scooter, and went to the party.

I greeted the host, another dude, and his girl, and suddenly was at the kitchen counter with my beer when this Asiatic Russian girl started talking to me. She was in her late 20s and doing her Master's. Nice body. I paced and lead and the convo went well. At some point, we parted ways. I espied this hot-looking short brunette with long hair. She was carrying a small pink purse, and was bedecked in short jean shorts, a top that displayed her tummy (with a bellyring), and a nose ring. She was cute, Italian.

I opened situational, asking where the BBQ had taken place, and wondering how it could have gotten on considering the rain. We were standing outside (the host's house has a large-ish back garden with a pond).

I was calm and confident, with strong eye contact. I let her invest in the interaction like asking me where I was from (I soon told her "You are Italian?" and she said "Yes"). Somehow I said all the right things, and we talked about different topics. I asked her where she lived. When she asked me where I lived, I started (after answering that I am in the center) by describing this rooftop bar where I watched the sunset (interjecting "maybe we can go there sometime" before going back to my descriptions). At the time I thought I was laying down the bricks to maybe snag her digits and take her there on a date someday soon.

We continued chatting, on and off (I would also have other girls at the party start talking to me), and after about an hour I simply asked her, "What are your plans right now?" she said she had none, and I said "ok why don't we go to the rooftop bar after this?" and she said "ok".

About 30 minutes later we both left the party (I had arrived at 8.30 p.m. and it was now 10.00 p.m.)

As soon as we stepped outside, she said she was feeling a bit cold, so I held her by the waist, then alternated with her hand. We walked together and there was a lot of similarity as we chatted (there already had been). She was already getting comfortable with my touch.

I noticed that, when I started holding her and leading her physically, she started feeling safe to be more of a little girl, more feminine-like. It was very enjoyable to experience. I suppose the fact that my t-shirt was a tight fit, I've packed on an ever so slight bit of muscle since I started doing push-ups (and went from 3 to 45 in a couple of weeks), and she was quite short compared to me, made her feel protected as we walked through a not so safe neighborhood.

We took a bus together. As we walked out of the bus (already in the center) I asked her if she wanted to come to my balcony ("I have beers in the fridge") and she said "Didn't you want to go to the rooftop bar?" and I said "I do, but you said you were feeling cold" she said "That's ok" so I took her to the bar.

I ordered us a beer while she went to the WC. She took so long that I thought I might have lost her ("Perhaps she left because I was too forward") but she came back, and I took her to a bench secluded from everybody else. This is the same bar where I took Jap before I got her to blow me the first time, and where I took the delicious tall blonde blue-eyed EE chick from Tuesday night this week).

She was in love with my touch. She would occasionally put her head on my shoulder. I was rubbing her leg. She said "You are very straightforward" and I responded "It's nice to be with someone who appreciates that" Then I told her how her being Italian meant I knew we had this in common, that both our cultures are very touchy and open, as opposed to northern Europeans. She asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. I said "Sure".

As we walked, I was holding her close to her breast, above her side waist. She said she liked snuggling up to me.

We went to a bar she liked, where I was able to display more similarity. She's a reformed Goth or something. I said I used to love Evanescence, Linkin Park, System of a Down, etc. when I was younger, and how I missed listening to that music (also true).

Then I asked her if she would like to come to my balcony for a final drink. She said "ok".

At home, she went to the balcony to smoke. Then we stepped back inside. She was hungry so I put some baguette in the mini oven and opened a can of sardines in olive oil. We ate in the dark (I didn't want to turn on the lights to avoid the mosquitoes).

Then, clothes came off, I fucked her (with a condom), and she slept over. The girl was late 20s (29? maybe 30) and her body was a bit flabby - I've been with younger girls recently (23-25) so it was a bit of a change, but I have to say I enjoyed hanging out with this girl from 8.45 or 9 p.m. to 2 a.m., when we both crashed.

Right before we fell asleep she asked me if I had planned to sleep with her from the very beginning and I responded that I felt a vibe, a connection with her, but that I wasn’t sure about the rest. “I just went with it.” She said “but you invited me to the balcony pretty soon” and I said, “Sure, but just because you come back to mine doesn’t necessarily mean we will have sex."
 
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Skills

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I was seeing a Japanese girl that I street stopped literally outside my building about a month ago. We had been together three times:
Yesterday I did a tour in the morning. After that, I went home to eat a late lunch. Then, I had invited her over so we could cook dumplings ("gyoza") together. She showed up cute as usual in a long skirt and short top.

As we cooked I would hold her waist, grope her buttcheeks, kiss and bite her neck, and we even made out at one point. The food was ready and we ate it together. After the dishes were done, and the kitchenette area had been cleaned up, we were suddenly lying on my bed, kissing each other passionately. One thing led to another and we were both naked and I went inside her raw again. She was delicious. And I couldn't resist her. So I came inside her.

She was shocked and asked what had just happened. I said I had a hard time controlling myself. She seemed to think I had done it on purpose. I asked her if she was on the pill. She said she was. I said, "Ok then." She said "Not ok", then said "Go get me some paper" (in retrospect, due to the disrespectful tone she adopted, I should have told her to go get it herself) I got up. I went to get her the toilet roll, she cleaned up on the bed, then went into the WC to finish up, came back, got her clothes on, and left, calling me "selfish" on her way out.

Bis when you have sex you should always have in the bed either a towel or an old tshirt(i call it jerking off shirt) after i bust a nut i always give them my jerking off shirt for clean up is automatic, also you need to practice you pull out game, if you cum, you can go down eat them out if outside if you cum inside obviously problematic even if your own juice for obvious reasons....do you have the hatachi??? Also experiment with cialis till girl locked in will make u last forever...

the hatachi bis...


Luckily, I had been invited to a BBQ that had begun a few hours prior, so I got dressed, hopped on an e-scooter, and went to the party.

I greeted the host, another dude, and his girl, and suddenly was at the kitchen counter with my beer when this Asiatic Russian girl started talking to me. She was in her late 20s and doing her Master's. Nice body. I paced and lead and the convo went well. At some point, we parted ways. I espied this hot-looking short brunette with long hair. She was carrying a small pink purse, and was bedecked in short jean shorts, a top that displayed her tummy (with a bellyring), and a nose ring. She was cute, Italian.

I opened situational, asking where the BBQ had taken place, and wondering how it could have gotten on considering the rain. We were standing outside (the host's house has a large-ish back garden with a pond).

I was calm and confident, with strong eye contact. I let her invest in the interaction like asking me where I was from (I soon told her "You are Italian?" and she said "Yes"). Somehow I said all the right things, and we talked about different topics. I asked her where she lived. When she asked me where I lived, I started (after answering that I am in the center) by describing this rooftop bar where I watched the sunset (interjecting "maybe we can go there sometime" before going back to my descriptions). At the time I thought I was laying down the bricks to maybe snag her digits and take her there on a date someday soon.

We continued chatting, on and off (I would also have other girls at the party start talking to me), and after about an hour I simply asked her, "What are your plans right now?" she said she had none, and I said "ok why don't we go to the rooftop bar after this?" and she said "ok".

About 30 minutes later we both left the party (I had arrived at 8.30 p.m. and it was now 10.00 p.m.)

As soon as we stepped outside, she said she was feeling a bit cold, so I held her by the waist, then alternated with her hand. We walked together and there was a lot of similarity as we chatted (there already had been). She was already getting comfortable with my touch.

I noticed that, when I started holding her and leading her physically, she started feeling safe to be more of a little girl, more feminine-like. It was very enjoyable to experience. I suppose the fact that my t-shirt was a tight fit, I've packed on an ever so slight bit of muscle since I started doing push-ups (and went from 3 to 45 in a couple of weeks), and she was quite short compared to me, made her feel protected as we walked through a not so safe neighborhood.

We took a bus together. As we walked out of the bus (already in the center) I asked her if she wanted to come to my balcony ("I have beers in the fridge") and she said "Didn't you want to go to the rooftop bar?" and I said "I do, but you said you were feeling cold" she said "That's ok" so I took her to the bar.

I ordered us a beer while she went to the WC. She took so long that I thought I might have lost her ("Perhaps she left because I was too forward") but she came back, and I took her to a bench secluded from everybody else. This is the same bar where I took Jap before I got her to blow me the first time, and where I took the delicious tall blonde blue-eyed EE chick from Tuesday night this week).

She was in love with my touch. She would occasionally put her head on my shoulder. I was rubbing her leg. She said "You are very straightforward" and I responded "It's nice to be with someone who appreciates that" Then I told her how her being Italian meant I knew we had this in common, that both our cultures are very touchy and open, as opposed to northern Europeans. She asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. I said "Sure".

As we walked, I was holding her close to her breast, above her side waist. She said she liked snuggling up to me.

We went to a bar she liked, where I was able to display more similarity. She's a reformed Goth or something. I said I used to love Evanescence, Linkin Park, System of a Down, etc. when I was younger, and how I missed listening to that music (also true).

Then I asked her if she would like to come to my balcony for a final drink. She said "ok".

At home, she went to the balcony to smoke. Then we stepped back inside. She was hungry so I put some baguette in the mini oven and opened a can of sardines in olive oil. We ate in the dark (I didn't want to turn on the lights to avoid the mosquitoes).

Then, clothes came off, I fucked her (with a condom), and she slept over. The girl was late 20s (29? maybe 30) and her body was a bit flabby - I've been with younger girls recently (23-25) so it was a bit of a change, but I have to say I enjoyed hanging out with this girl from 8.45 or 9 p.m. to 2 a.m., when we both crashed.

Right before we fell asleep she asked me if I had planned to sleep with her from the very beginning and I responded that I felt a vibe, a connection with her, but that I wasn’t sure about the rest. “I just went with it.” She said “but you invited me to the balcony pretty soon” and I said, “Sure, but just because you come back to mine doesn’t necessarily mean we will have sex."
^ pure physical game awesome...

P.s. deleted from journal moved here... my bad!
 

Bismarck

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Bis when you have sex you should always have in the bed either a towel or an old tshirt(i call it jerking off shirt) after i bust a nut i always give them my jerking off shirt for clean up is automatic, also you need to practice you pull out game, if you cum, you can go down eat them out if outside if you cum inside obviously problematic even if your own juice for obvious reasons....do you have the hatachi??? Also experiment with cialis till girl locked in will make u last forever...

the hatachi bis...



^ pure physical game awesome...

P.s. deleted from journal moved here... my bad!

@Skills is the hitachi good for stimulating the girl’s clitoris while you vaginally penetrate her? Or would you say a guy can just use his fingers to do this while he smashes.
 

Skills

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@Skills is the hitachi good for stimulating the girl’s clitoris while you vaginally penetrate her? Or would you say a guy can just use his fingers to do this while he smashes.
You could, I usually say let me give you a massage and use the toy on the back, then turn them around do legs and vagina then I tell her to hold it and put my dick in, sometimes I bang them missionary play with her clit while sucking tits, my point is I do both...I also have the pocket rocket 🚀 which is more comfortable to combine with your dick, I can see that better if the goal is to combine with guys with average to smaller dick vs Hitachi bulky so for that goal you may need a good angle or bigger dick..
 

HoofHearted

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She was shocked and asked what had just happened. I said I had a hard time controlling myself. She seemed to think I had done it on purpose. I asked her if she was on the pill. She said she was. I said, "Ok then." She said "Not ok", then said "Go get me some paper" (in retrospect, due to the disrespectful tone she adopted, I should have told her to go get it herself) I got up. I went to get her the toilet roll, she cleaned up on the bed, then went into the WC to finish up, came back, got her clothes on, and left, calling me "selfish" on her way out.

Yikes. It seems you should've asked her. Successful sex isn't when one person walks away mad.

Just because she agreed to unprotected sex doesn't mean she agreed to your finishing inside her. To a person who wants to do this, it is certainly easy to make the conclusion that because A therefore B-- they are logically related after all! And this is risky behavior. But still. This is probably one of the most common slippery slopes ever, and probably no one here especially wants to hear it. Aside from a boundary overstep, there is also the consideration that this may actually be diminishing the *quality* of sex you are having. A little communication wouldn't have made 'all clear' the assumption, or even a guess... and may have, in other not so obvious ways, served to enhance the experience.

I think helping her clean herself up was actually the right move. It was a chance for a small re-connection/chance to say "I actually do take into account your concern/wellbeing."

It would be interesting to hear about your next interaction with her.
 

Bismarck

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Actually, there was no more interaction. That was the last I saw of her.

Since she’s the second or third hot girl I lost due to doing that, now I wear a rubber (if she really insists) and only go raw when I see she wants me to.

Regarding cumming inside her, I’ll have to start verbalizing things somehow before proceeding to ensure no bitter endings.

Otherwise it’s just pussy wastage.
 

HoofHearted

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Actually, there was no more interaction. That was the last I saw of her.

Since she’s the second or third hot girl I lost due to doing that, now I wear a rubber (if she really insists) and only go raw when I see she wants me to.

Regarding cumming inside her, I’ll have to start verbalizing things somehow before proceeding to ensure no bitter endings.

Otherwise it’s just pussy wastage.

I think you're on the right track.

Let's not call it 'pussy wastage,' though. Let's call it 'stop upsetting other people so much that they choose not to know us.'

Which is not to condemn you, or say I know better, or that I never make mistakes. And part of a sloppy bad boundary mess is on both parties of course -- in a perfect world, she would be apt to communicate her boundaries perfectly to every partner every time, instead of sitting in silence hoping you 'just know.' And the cultural expectation of these experiences is almost entirely on the man, so you have maybe unfairly the burden of sorting it out...

Btw you never will have permission to come inside me.

But back to reality. I remember with the second to last woman I was with, afterwords I was lying in bed next to her, and I said out loud "I feel like I'm in the business of social work."

The number of partners and everything I've had to navigate inspired that cathartic expression.

Like it or not, off a forum full of other dudes, in the real world, you are in the business of 'people,' not 'pussy.'
 

Skills

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Actually, there was no more interaction. That was the last I saw of her.

Since she’s the second or third hot girl I lost due to doing that, now I wear a rubber (if she really insists) and only go raw when I see she wants me to.

Regarding cumming inside her, I’ll have to start verbalizing things somehow before proceeding to ensure no bitter endings.

Otherwise it’s just pussy wastage.
You can field test this:


I have not had issues...
 
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