Hey. So, this girl came from pretty far away last month, and I want to keep seeing her for a while.
Some details:
>Kinky inky girl, %100 sub. But she also posts a lot of tender stuff about falling in love, and topics alike.
>We went on a date some weeks before. We kissed and cuddled outside. We get along well, though maybe we don't chat so deeply.
>I managed to get her to my place two weeks after that for a fuck-date.
>Things go smootly. She came two times, +3hs of sex. She seems really into me physically.
>>She tells me that day and some days later that she never felt like that before, that that was the best orgam of her life.
>We keep talking, she's very slow to respond but she's following along, I ask about her fantasies and she'd like to get blindfolded and tied up, I obviously follow, and mention that I had a rope somewhere... (she agrees that she'd love to do it again).
>We keep texting from time to time. I don't add any sugar to the mix or send that many messages, just the usual.
But.
>She VERY rarely texts me first, like I think two times and to send me some reels related to our former date. She doesn't show initiative.
>Doesn't seem to be very available.
So. I want to see her again. I had a wonderful time and I'd feel way more comfortable now, she would too.
How can I manage this now without being too eager / pushy / needy or without getting too many "noes".
Would you reccomend talking about sex that often / heavily?
Would you recommend me any way of knowing her level of investment now?
How to handle my text's frequency and investment now?
So basically how not to fuck it up.
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