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Walking down the beach I noticed a cute blonde girl by herself reading I approached Indirect direct asking where the pier is then telling her I wasn't serious and told her she was cute and I wanted to see who she was. This opener has worked very well at the beach since it's light and somewhat refreshing and different. Didn't get into any good banter though I looked for opportunities. Im coming to find banter comes more from your vibe than your sheer ability to tease, for me at least. Anyway got her talking small talk and deep dived until we were comfortable acquaintances. Ran out of things to talk about and wasn't super interested in this girl she just wasn't really my type. Although this played to my advantage she commented how bored I looked and started investing afterward. When I figured it was time to move on I decided to see if she would move with me since I didn't have anything better to do but improve my conversationalist skills. She decided yes though after talking to her dad on the phone talked herself out of coming with me. I let her know the invitation was still open and when she declined I smoothly exited and told her Id see her around displaying outcome independence. Left without a phone number because we didnt really hit it off and I wasn't really feeling it.
