Hi guys my name is Arvy im from the Philippines. I started reading girlschase articles and working on my fundamentals back in september last year and it blew my expectations especially the posture. Every time i posture up guys started moving out of my way and girls started checking me out. I felt attractive. It helped me with my depression back then because i was able to get a job and sleep with 2 women. I enjoyed it for 6 months but starting on march 16 my posture suddenly lost its effect. Guys are not moving out of my way anymore and girls started ignoring me. I tried to walk to different areas while posturing up to examine the reactions of people around me and i noticed that it had lost its effect. I dont know what i am doing wrong since i still have the same haircut and clothes, also curved back, chest puffed up and shoulders back for posture. Can please someone help me with this because im starting to get depressed again and i feel helpless.
Hello Arvy,
The first thing that comes to my mind is, when you stand with posture, do you feel you are trying too hard to hold that posture? If the honest answer is a yes, then that could be the reason you got the attention at first and then eventually people lose interest.
Are you actively working on other fundamentals such as voice, eye contact, conversation, fashion?
What I found that works best for developing a great and attractive posture is lifting weights. I recently invested in a home gym which cost me less than $600 for equiptment alone. My home gym has:
40lb dumbells
20lb dumbells
Arm grips
Push up bars
Ab wheel
Abs belt (medically designed)
10lb body vest weight
yoga mat
And I have recently purchased a course on building a lean body with just body weight exercises. This along with my equiptment above does a lot for my body, I get a good workout from my bedroom twice per day. I even go for a run sometimes for variation.
So my recommendation would be to focus on your body weight and style and self confidence. Another important fact I found is when I was very shy and I started focusing on improving my fashion, girls paid more attention to me.
However I was too shy to talk to them so eventually they stopped showing me a whole lot of interest because I was coming across as too aloof. So I would recommend do also check that you are coming across as friendly, instead of aloof. You dont need guys to step out of your way. The focus should be on getting them to greet you friendly when they see you and for girls to see you as the alpha that other guys respect
Regards
Troy
The first thing that comes to my mind is, when you stand with posture, do you feel you are trying too hard to hold that posture? If the honest answer is a yes, then that could be the reason you got the attention at first and then eventually people lose interest.
Are you actively working on other fundamentals such as voice, eye contact, conversation, fashion?
What I found that works best for developing a great and attractive posture is lifting weights. I recently invested in a home gym which cost me less than $600 for equiptment alone. My home gym has:
40lb dumbells
20lb dumbells
Arm grips
Push up bars
Ab wheel
Abs belt (medically designed)
10lb body vest weight
yoga mat
And I have recently purchased a course on building a lean body with just body weight exercises. This along with my equiptment above does a lot for my body, I get a good workout from my bedroom twice per day. I even go for a run sometimes for variation.
So my recommendation would be to focus on your body weight and style and self confidence. Another important fact I found is when I was very shy and I started focusing on improving my fashion, girls paid more attention to me.
However I was too shy to talk to them so eventually they stopped showing me a whole lot of interest because I was coming across as too aloof. So I would recommend do also check that you are coming across as friendly, instead of aloof. You dont need guys to step out of your way. The focus should be on getting them to greet you friendly when they see you and for girls to see you as the alpha that other guys respect
Regards
Troy
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Read this thread, especially the section about COTN for a more natural posture without forcing.
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Thank you for the advise Troy and Carousel especially now since I'm not in a healthy state mentally and emotionally but I'll get through this. And also thank you for referring me Carousel to the book Code of the Natural. I think it will help me a lot both physically and mentally 
