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There comes a time when a fight may or may not happen depending on where you go. I'm from a city where fights could happen and throwing hands was unavoidable at times. However if you're like me and what to have handsome kissable face, you must learn to prevent fights. *Making friends with wrestlers, MMA fighters, and other martial artists and learning a few moves doesn't hurt either*
Example: Guy approaches a girl who has a boyfriend, a rowdy boyfriend who's been drinking.
Bad Example
Drunk Guy: Hey man get your ass away from my girlfriend!!
Guy: Wait, what? Sorry!
Drunk Guy: Yeah, I'm gonna kick your ass!
Guy: Wait no, ah!
*You never want to freeze or fold in a situation like this, rather you can flip the situation into your control.
Good Example
Drunk Guy: Hey man get your ass away from my girlfriend!!
Me: *calmly looks at guy* *places hands up out in front of chest creating space* Excuse me?
Drunk Guy: Get away from girlfriend!
Me: *hands still in front of chest* What's your name?
Drunk Guy: *Confused* What?
Me: I'm David, I was asking your girl if she knew of any good restaurants around.
Just like that you make the boyfriend look like a jealous asshole. The point is holding your hands in front of you creating space and distance between the boyfriend. It also lets them know your guard is up so no cheap shots will be given. Even if you're not a fighter it's important to work on balance with your feet planted. Diffuse the situation by changing the topic away from yelling and screaming. Control your breathing and stay calm, the boyfriend doesn't really want to fight you. He just wants to scare you. This is why going to the gym is important, also picking the right girls, and being strong and dominant man is crucial.
Disclaimer: I'm not trying to scare you or encourage you to fight. However, learning how to fight is life skill like swimming that I highly suggest learning. Even with that said learning how to prevent a fight is just as great a skill.
Example: Guy approaches a girl who has a boyfriend, a rowdy boyfriend who's been drinking.
Bad Example
Drunk Guy: Hey man get your ass away from my girlfriend!!
Guy: Wait, what? Sorry!
Drunk Guy: Yeah, I'm gonna kick your ass!
Guy: Wait no, ah!
*You never want to freeze or fold in a situation like this, rather you can flip the situation into your control.
Good Example
Drunk Guy: Hey man get your ass away from my girlfriend!!
Me: *calmly looks at guy* *places hands up out in front of chest creating space* Excuse me?
Drunk Guy: Get away from girlfriend!
Me: *hands still in front of chest* What's your name?
Drunk Guy: *Confused* What?
Me: I'm David, I was asking your girl if she knew of any good restaurants around.
Just like that you make the boyfriend look like a jealous asshole. The point is holding your hands in front of you creating space and distance between the boyfriend. It also lets them know your guard is up so no cheap shots will be given. Even if you're not a fighter it's important to work on balance with your feet planted. Diffuse the situation by changing the topic away from yelling and screaming. Control your breathing and stay calm, the boyfriend doesn't really want to fight you. He just wants to scare you. This is why going to the gym is important, also picking the right girls, and being strong and dominant man is crucial.
Disclaimer: I'm not trying to scare you or encourage you to fight. However, learning how to fight is life skill like swimming that I highly suggest learning. Even with that said learning how to prevent a fight is just as great a skill.